Is cheating worth it?  

girlwanahavefun2 45F
13 posts
7/9/2006 9:27 pm

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6/25/2008 10:09 pm

Is cheating worth it?

Is cheating worth it? What is your situation? Is it your drive, your fetish, your alternative lifestyle, or social ideology that causes you to steer down that path? How do you justify it? It's not a simple question nor are there any simple answers now is there?
Torn between yes and no
I can justify my actions
Because I don't know how to masturbate
I'm not ina valuable relationship so it doesn't matter

rm_Pebcac80 42M
104 posts
7/9/2006 10:13 pm

No, it's so much better, easier and more honest when both partners know and are OK. Then nobody is cheating.. and everyone is just having good fun!

rm_pussnballs4u 61M/54F
326 posts
7/10/2006 7:05 am

Hard question. We are ok with our sexlife in that it is all above board and we follow the rules we made together. Anyway, welcome to Blogland. Hope you find the time to visit us at our blog while you are here.


luvrgurl20062 45F

7/10/2006 2:00 pm

No - cheating is not worth it. I have been on both sides, the cheater and the cheatee. I was unfaithful in my younger days when I didn't realize what that can do to someone. Now, over the past few years or more, I have been the one getting cheated on. Maybe it's karma. I have grown up a lot, live life by the books and wish that others would to.

oceannablue00 47F

7/11/2006 8:11 am

Well I have been married 20 yrs and have only been with my husband. I am very hot blooded while he is more missionary and traditional. I have recently became a member of adult friend-finder and have yet to physically cheat on my spouse. My experience here has been one of sexual arousal and allot of masturbation. So I guess what I am saying is that as long as its safe, clean and doesn't harm your partner I think its okay to play...(P.S. I am still waiting for that fantasy Extra Marital Affair that is gonna give me some mind blowing sex

sugarbabyhhh 43F

7/13/2006 6:50 am

read my blog, "my first marriage", and judge for yourself.

girlwanahavefun2 45F
2 posts
7/16/2006 3:40 pm

Thank you for reading my blog and participating in my poll. I especially appreciate those who took the time to add comments. Again, thank you for visiting. Take care.

rm_mrplaforfun 60M

7/18/2006 2:27 pm

You seem like a very classy lady. Your husband is one lucky guy. You also have a very pretty smile. Good luck!!!

4 posts
10/25/2006 12:29 pm

I'm 99% sure that if you were to be honest with him, he would agree to have you enjoy his penis and a woman as well. Particulaly if you allowed him to watch or especially if he could join in with you both. I sure would.

rm_rr19750 41F

10/26/2006 9:55 pm

I wish it were as simple as a yes or no. I too am married and although, the sex is good, I am still attracted to women and that's something he will never understand. So, to answer, I guess, whatever you decide......

sexualburner1 51M

10/27/2006 9:38 am

Tha is a tough one. All who say they love their spouse but continue to look...?... Or is that as a male animal we are destined to be looking for more females to increase the tribe, herd, etc.... It does really come down to ones concience?!?

1SexyMan2Go 46M
61 posts
8/19/2008 11:30 pm

I just had to throw in on this one hun.

If you read my profile, you will understand why
I am here, it is very "to the point".

I have met several fine ladies on this site
and have gained alot of good friends.
Though I do not really agree that cheating is right,
I also understand that each
individual situation is unique.
There was a time
that I swore I would never do it
and at the time I ment this,
but when you realize
that you've been played the fool,
for whatever reason,
it can change the way you think
and feel about things.
I don't do this in spite or
"to even a score".
It's more along the lines of
discovering that
something very important
is missing in my life,
which has created the "need" to see
if this may be found elsewhere.
We all want to be loved
and feel secure within our relationships.
When you learn that this relationship
isn't what you thought it was,
you realize that this leaves
an "empty" spot,,, feelings are hurt.
This can be very hard to deal with.
If I find a woman who can somewhat
provide what I feel I need,
it makes the pain I have
in my heart seem less.

So,,, I guess if you want a true answer
to this question, you need to ask my wife
if this was really worth it.

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