No sex on the first date- and I MEAN it!  

rm_gimme_bootie 43F
170 posts
7/25/2006 9:55 pm

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No sex on the first date- and I MEAN it!

Yes, this IS an adult site. Yes, I AM looking for sex. But yes, I DO have standards- I do not fuck anyone the first time I meet them. Why? Because as my profile states, I am looking for a sex FRIEND....emphasis on FRIEND. I want someone I can hang out with as well as have sex with, and I HATE one night stands. I've had I know they are a complete waste of time. My buttons are hard to push, and it takes practice and care to make sex GOOD. With a one night stands, guys don't feel they have to make the effort, nor are they motivated to aquire the skills that will make the sex good for me- and who needs half-assed sex?? I'd rather stay home with my vibrator.

That is why I came to the decision not to have sex on first dates. My thinking is this: you can't get to know someone well enough at the first meeting to determine if you want to be friends with them or not. It takes a bit of time to get to know someone, and you just can't tell if you are compatible, or that they are going to be the kind of guy I can hang out with, laugh with, and have a good time with, and who will be willing to make the effort for my pleasure. As well, there are guys out there who really just ejoy making conquests. They base their ego on their ability to "pull." I can't stand this attitude, and refuse to allow myself to be chalked up as some egotist's list as "number XXX". I have made that mistake a few times, and the feeling I get the next day, when they don't even send me a courtsey "thank you" mail, is NOT pleasant. I respect myself MUCH too much to allow myself to be used by such an undeserving asshole.

I think I am worth the wait, and if you are REALLY interested in me, you'll believe it too.

So respect that- no sex on the first date. And, once you are told that, don't even TRY to change my mind, or else you'll be left standing alone at the bar, drink in hand, asking "Wha' happened?"

Believe me- I AM worth it.

bigdick19721000 45M
1 post
8/18/2006 5:05 pm

Hi, this is my first time to visit your blog. I agree with your opinion of not to have sex in the first date. Anyway, your blog is terific, I love it! Shall we drink special Belguim beer or something?I hope to seeing you in Tokyo. It seems me that i am the man of your type, I am a bit skinny but hunky.

eve_eve_382 49F

10/25/2006 12:05 pm

I agree with you...Thanks for the comments on post i made

rm_gimme_bootie 43F
35 posts
11/2/2006 10:22 pm

Hi bigdick19721000....Sorry I am a standard member so can't see your profile! Why don't you mail me? And i see you live in YOTSUYA! I live VERY near you!! How convinient...and I love Belguim beer.

rm_AlphaR07 36M

1/9/2007 4:51 am

I agree with you on that. You gotta becareful these days, never know what kinda people are out there and whatnot. Even in Japan, there can be nuts out there. Ever see the japanamation "Ichi"?
Too bad there isn't more of you blonde chicks or similar out here. I had lots of SP but never a blonde or caucasian in that matter. I'm very curious, and I never heard pf happinin bars also. All the good places are no-gos for american guys like me. And I don't want to go to some prostitute, that is not my thing, just people that you can have fun with . Sex is so awesome when you have that cool relationship, it just makes it 100% better.

rm_metbanana 39M
7 posts
2/1/2007 4:08 pm

hi! nice lifestyle, i'm new here, but, we can be friends? i'm still looking for a friends cause i don't have it! introducing my self i'm a half italian japaneese, 29yld living in Fujisawa.
i will wait your answer here!

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