this is bullshit!  

gigger2000 45M
5 posts
11/2/2005 1:15 pm

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7/24/2006 9:18 pm

this is bullshit!

So I joined this site to meet up with women. So far I have met no women! All I have gotten back were auto replies and 1 gay guy! What the hell is going on here? Are there real women on this site? What am I doing wrong? Am I even doing anything wrong? I have answered over 103 different ads and sent winks to each. I thought maybe if I gave a phone number they would call. No phone calls! I feel as if I have gone to a club and dressed wrong for the occasion. Maybe I smell? I don’t know. Someone please tell me why I am having no success. I am obviously trying……thanks for any comments.

ArmorMonadCharm 44F

11/2/2005 3:14 pm

ratio of men to women in your area.

the types of emails that you send out.
i certainly don't respond if a man is forward enough to give out his phone number on the first email. most women want to connect and make a friendship first.

Think saftey first and get to know people a little first.

and on and on and on........


YoungSlider 30M
3 posts
11/2/2005 7:45 pm

honestly i take it slow with any girl i attrmpt to talk to so if that helps you any!

gigger2000 45M

11/2/2005 10:12 pm

Thanks for the insight! I really appreciate it. It just may do the trick.

rockwriter58 56M
1389 posts
11/3/2005 7:30 am

Here is what I am going to urge, which is echoed in the remarks by blush2005...patience.

To those who are patient here... all good things may come.

So you don't repeat some of the newbie mistakes of some of us here I also suggest you read these posts: The Early Stages of Man on AFF (Redux) & The Middle Stages of Man on AFF.

Happy and safe hunting....


rm_leah_43 54F

12/30/2005 11:48 pm

I think ther are several irritating things in your profile:
1--remove stuff about money;
2--remove picture of your penis;
3--definately do not give your telephone number in first emails;

Good luck

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