What is fun in bed?  

ggdanielle 39M/41F
14 posts
4/21/2005 10:57 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

What is fun in bed?

How many people get stuck in a rut and don't know how to get out of it? Talking to a friend this week it amazed me that her and her husband get by on only having sex 2 times per month. I couldn't help sitting there thinking..."If I don't get it 2-3 times per week I'm feeling neglected". What is normal? What is extreme? To my friend, I probably seem like a nympho. But to me...she seems like a prude.

When you've been with someone for a while, how do you get the romance back into the sexual activity? Do you bring out the toys? Watch movies? Invite someone to join you? Any ideas?

papyrina 51F
21133 posts
4/21/2005 1:45 pm

eat potato chips on his side of the bed,it makes them move to yours very quickly lol

I'm a

i'm here to stay

rm_I_AMsterdam 51M

4/21/2005 2:03 pm

Like all things to do with sexuality ... there's no real black or white answers, just shades of many colours.

If both people in the relationship are happy with the balance, no need to change or improve. If there's an imbalance then rather than launching individual ideas upon each other, maybe better to chat about first.

sugarbee79 37M/37F

9/17/2005 8:27 pm

We have been in a rut a couple of times due to being too tired after working then taking care of the kids and house. We finally made time for us. Popped in some porn and did what we both wanted. It got things going again. We used to do it a couple of times a day and are down to a couple of times a week.

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