"What it takes"  

getitwhileucandy 55F
193 posts
4/15/2006 6:51 pm

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"What it takes"

I find the amount of responses here on AdultFriendFinder to be overwhelming, though much appreciated. Here is what I require to get better acquainted:

1. A picture of all of you, not just your privates. Not that I don't want to see that area, cause I do love the human body, but I need a physical attraction to be sexually interested. I understand some people are not comfortable in posting on their profile, but for god's sake if you wish to experience the closest physical contact possible with another human being, show yourself!

2. Email with more content than something such as Wanna suck this baby?, etc. I personally like the emails where the sender writes a fantasy especially for me. Or makes a suggestion to do something together before/after the sex. A true friend with benefits type thing so to speak. If all I wanted was to fuck men, I would get paid to do it! WORD!

3. Be real! I have had many contact that are not who they claim to be. IE: phony pics (Like I wouldn't notice, if I actually choose to meet), how much they love pleasing their partner and what an exceptional lover they are: Actions speak louder than words is all I gotta say to that one. And I ain't even from Missouri!

4. Be willing to devote a little time in showing you are truly interested in me. I am not just something to fuck! It is unbelievable to me that someone could or would want to have sex with someone with no preference as to age, weight, personality, etc. I would think the sex would not be satisfactory. We as humans are too diverse to match with everyone. That to me shows only wanting a hole to get your rocks off in. I understand not wanting to spends months of email and chatting to end in nothing. I usually know whether I am interested in anything further within the first 3-4 times of corresponding/chatting/seeing pic.

5. If we agree to meet, SHOW UP. There is nothing worse than planning, expecting, and then getting stood up. Sure, sometimes things happen, but have the common courtesy to cancel before the planned meeting time if you can't follow through with the get together. And just because we are going to meet, don't assume that means you are getting laid! Perhaps the actual chemistry once we meet just ain't there. Doesn't mean something is wrong with you, just means your back to the drawing board.

I don't think I'm being too demanding with this, do you? I promise the end result is worth the effort!/:>

Udo24fun 105M/105F

4/16/2006 4:39 pm

We recently had an encounter where after months and months of the fellow wanting to meet us, he didn't show up. He didn't post a picture but sent us one that we can't say was or was not him but when he would telephone and block his number so we couldn't call him back then I asked him for it and he couldn't give it out. Such situations are better left alone and when a person goes to the time and trouble to post what they want and expect as you have done we feel they are at the very least owed the courtesy of a decent reply. Not someone showing how they can find something else to complain about. We couldn't tell if he was critisizing your spelling or of another but it didn't come across too cool.
We don't know of anyone on here that is here for an English lesson or to be correct by someone else. We are either friendly or we are not. For an answer it all depends on whom you ask because everyone can see things differently.
You did a good job but you will always have the idiots writing to you.

rm_MikMelb 54M
24 posts
4/17/2006 12:18 am

Asking too much? I would have thought what you're asking makes sense, at least it makes sense to me. I still reckon that's a fab pic, and I haven't even got a vested interest because I don't live in the US! Stick to your guns, we (should?) all have standards and decency.

Go get 'em girl


rm_dragonheat23 51M
1158 posts
4/17/2006 10:22 am

That is some very good advise for would be "friends".
It actually is just common sense and the polite thing to do. Amazing though how many guys would think that it was too much trouble. Looking forward to reading more of your posts.

buttnut1 45M
35 posts
4/17/2006 9:05 pm

E mail me and i will send you pics and see if we can strike up a conversation.

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