"The Change"  

getitwhileucandy 55F
193 posts
4/12/2006 7:50 am

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"The Change"


I think I am starting to feel the change. It is starting as a slight feeling of being choked of air movement...staleness. Wandering of the mind...inability to/ or lack of desire to feel connected to things that usually inspired passion in me. Perhaps that is how I justify to my normal sense of moral values, that it isn't wrong for me to want this. TO give in to wild uncontrolled abandonment with a complete stranger(s?), sexual gender or number of naked bodies participating unimportant. Just to DO SOMETHING that makes me feel good. Cause I DESERVE IT. Don't I? Don't I deserve the opportunity to cheat on my mate? The person I say I love? This is the struggle going on in me now....again in my life...

Gotcha! Beat you though it was gonna be a post about menopause right?

mondauthor 29M
62 posts
4/12/2006 11:58 am

Yes I did! You always have the opportunity to cheat Candy. And as sexy as you are it would not be difficult, you look great. There are plenty of guys on this site, so I guess it is tempting for a woman to "get wild". No regrets.


carpetmunchkin 36F

4/12/2006 2:04 pm

Well you only live once. I have not been married so I can't add much insight, but I do know someone who felt trapped in his marriage and has "explored" life outside of his marriage. He claimed that he was no longer having sex with his wife and felt he had to choose between staying and having no sex or leaving her and having sex. Now, he says that having sex outside his marriage has actually helped his marriage because he can stay married and still have sex. I'm not sure I undertand the logic but maybe you can relate.


slickydick696 52M

4/13/2006 1:31 pm

    Quoting carpetmunchkin:
    Well you only live once. I have not been married so I can't add much insight, but I do know someone who felt trapped in his marriage and has "explored" life outside of his marriage. He claimed that he was no longer having sex with his wife and felt he had to choose between staying and having no sex or leaving her and having sex. Now, he says that having sex outside his marriage has actually helped his marriage because he can stay married and still have sex. I'm not sure I undertand the logic but maybe you can relate.
I really think this is a decision you can only make yourself, no matter what anyone else may say since you have to live with it.

With that said, you do only live once. So if you want to walk on the wild side send me an e-mail I would love to help any way I can.


easyliven45 55M

4/16/2006 8:45 am

There's a big difference between love and sex. People change needs change. When you've been married for awhile it's important to talk it whats changing, problem is either they or woman don't. Men get engrossed in work forget to keep things interesting. Men forget to show their woman sexy is how much their desired how sensual they are.

No one person an be everyone someone needs all the time were just not built that way.

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