The strangeness of AFF  

gentelmanjim53 63M
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12/17/2005 12:04 pm

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The strangeness of AFF


Recently I wrote here of being contacted from half the country away and that it was a validation of sorts to this part of my life that I no longer wish to put aside or hide. Currently I am corresponding with one to the west (NV)and one to the east (PA). This does not seem strange for it is a form of communication that for all is safe and comforting. Safe in that it is unlikely we will meet anytime soon. Comforting in that there is someone out there to hear our dreams and fears, the ups and downs of everday.
In this cyber community that spans the world we each build a circle of friends, people who grow to know us by what we write of our selves and how we interact on the discussion boards. We each learn a little with each post as to the personality of the writer/person. This is also how we form bonds to others that openly correspond with us. A simple comment to this blog may have begun a life long friendship or at the very least penpals who will be an encouragement to each other.
My circle is growing and it is something I hope continues to grow. This last year has been difficult and much was given up, by choice, but lost to me none the less. That is why this growing circle is a validation for the choices I had to make and where I wished to go.
Still there is a strangeness to this place, cyber connections that make us feel more connected to others who think as we do, are not judgemental of our sexual desires. How real it can be even though you may not meet. AdultFriendFinder is more of a community of sexually open-minded people, willing to dicuss and communicate openly about sexual desires and needs and sometimes they do meet for sex but mostly they meet to be with others who feel the same as they do.

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