To whom it may concern  

gemini162004 57F
21 posts
7/25/2006 12:25 pm

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To whom it may concern

Why is it there has to be certain people on this site that cannot be honest about what they are looking for or after?If you just want to get laid then say so dont lead people on and say something different or write another version of the truth and then go change it after you get what you want from somone. I see that happening so often . Are you men all liars on here? Why do you have to be out just for your own enjoyment and not worrying about other peoples feelings. We are all adults why not act like adults and be honest and not play childish games.Honesty is the best policy and if you dont like what you see than dont go there plain and simple!!Remember youre not the only important person in this game people play. Get my drift

rm_young3901 51M

7/26/2006 1:39 pm

This is not the first time I've read about this issue. It seems that more and more people these days are not telling the truth to people inorder to get what they want, personally I think it's bullshit.

FriendlyFuk66 49M

7/28/2006 11:03 am

I have to agree that honesty is the best policy. I am a firm believer in that plus I've told the truth in my profile about what I am looking for. I have noticed that some others are truly misleading people without care to the other person's feelings, but unfortunately that is one of the things truly wrong with society today. A complete lack of respect for others is really being shown in this day and age. If you've read the local papers or watched the local news (local meaning RC), you've had to notice all the vandalism at the cemetery and the other acts of disrespect going on in this area.

da_beaches 55M/53F

8/13/2006 12:38 pm

I agree be honest!
it sure saves alot of hassle later, post pictures that are real and be real.
Say what you mean and mean what you say!

2tallxxx1961 54M
38 posts
9/4/2006 2:29 pm

gemini i have to agree with u 1000%. i have talked with so many people and then they find out some how i will show up and i am what i say and they run. if you don't want the real thing take it out of your profile and say so. LMAO right like that will happen. fakes need not apply. would love to talk with ya sometime as my pics r of me and i'm real take care

rm_txcowboy4u2c 58M
2 posts
10/16/2006 6:11 am

lol, the truth is what most people don't want to see. some of us are very honest in what we are seeking. others live in a fantasy world and are down right scared of the truth for one reason or the other. Pictures and word describe the way they want to see the world, not reality. They feel insecure in what they THINK they want and who they are. Just look at some of the pictures posted,(female), i am not sure what web site they get them from, if they are even real,never know here on AdultFriendFinder. Then there are those like yours that are for real, a true lady knowing what she likes and what she is looking for. Thanks for your honesty, It is nice to see and hear the truth.

kluk_kluk 53M

10/17/2006 6:03 pm

I agree and that does not only apply to men. I have experiences with people who contact me and then fall silence as soon as you want to set something up with them. Also heard of others that I did connect with that they had experiences with setting up a time and place to meet and basically got stood up and never heard again from that person. Odd, but I am getting better at weeding out the fakes.

horses_n_harleys 60M
22 posts
10/3/2007 7:57 am

Hey girl it has been a while and I hope all is well with you. Wish we could have hooked up when I was over there. Then I got wraped up in a drama fest I am sure you want no part of but if you are interested in some of it you can read about it in my blog. Does pertain to what you have posted here. Write me if you get a chance I see you have changed your filtered settings.

tallstudlookin 29M

2/2/2009 6:20 pm

Maybe there are just a lot of immature men in this area.

lcl713 61M

7/10/2009 9:26 am

Hello Gemini I agree with what you say but, do have to make a couple of comments. I was on here before under a different name and meet a lady that i found to be a great lady. And what happened between us will be our business, but in the beginning we had some fun things that happened, but it came down to i don't think she was ready for what i completely wanted and it broke us up. I don't hold anything against her, but things happen. Anyway i was truthful in what i wanted but i do have some other interests that i wanted to explore. And if you read this you will probably check my profile and see that i am listed as bi-c and read my blog, but i am truthful in what i say and people see that you have these other interests and don't even have the courtesy to mail you back and say that i'm not interested, this is something that really upset me, but people will be that way i guess. Now what i'm going to say next is that i'm here for the sex and would also like to find someone to share things and time with so does that make me one of those that's not being truthful. The biggest problem is that people don't read and understand what that person is wanting, they just go man i'd like to have sex with that person, and there is where the problem starts. Now when i was on here before i did contact you and we talk a little but you let me know that you were not interested and i left it alone. That was cool i asked and you came back and said what you feel and we moved on. Now a comment on (are all you men liar's) on here, I have to say i have talked to women who are not truthful to and i think that is not a fair thing to say. Yes there are people on here that are just out for themselves, and that's one of the biggest problem with the whole world. I move on, if you come across someone that work with you then those are the one that you have to have fun and enjoyment with. And everyone says I DON'T WHAT ANY DRAMA! well that is something that has to be controlled by each one of those people and if thing move to a deeper depth than you learn to work that out between each other, but no the easy thing is to just run and ruin everything that you both have work on. I am going to say something here that i hope you will not take personal and that is AdultFriendFinder should have a place on the profile that says, (now this is for men and women both), I'm a whore and all i what is to meet and fuck and then leave, and that would be for those people that are looking for that just laid look and leave the rest of us to enjoy this lifestyle that we are interested in enjoying. Well i came across this and just wanted to say what i had to say so i hope you have better experiences, i just keep trying in hopes that that person is out there and we do find each other. One other thing i have to say is that i myself have to have some kind of connection with someone before i can have a relationship with a person, i have a lot of respect for women for they have been treated bad over the years and whatever the reason being and for those guys that do that i have no use for. I have a cousin who can't figure out why he can't keep a lady, but if they new how he talks about them i wouldn't blame them a bit. I tell him all the time if he wasn't such a pig he would get somewhere. Well i have written a book here and i will go, but all of use guys aren't a like, we just have to find the ones that have our stuff together and go with them. Thank you for your time, be safe. TtB

It is good to know that someone somewhere desires you.

lee_pet123 50M

9/29/2010 8:58 pm

im looking for FWB

1jclong1 52M
55 posts
1/28/2011 8:20 pm

Awwwwwwe.....I hope you dont think I ever lied to you...I'm usually pretty straight forward......So how have you been out there in South Dakota girl?....

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