Three Words  

gemee3 57F
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3/20/2006 11:19 pm

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4/30/2006 12:07 am

Three Words


There are three words that are so powerful when said at the right time...These three words have the power to ;
Develope new friendships,
Deepen old friendships,
Heal a broken or soured relationship.

Let Me Help-Good friends see a need from another and try to fill that need.They see hurt and they try to heal the pain
without even being ask, they jump right in and help...

I Understand You-Just by letting a spouce or a friend know that you understand them and how they are feeling is one of the most healing and powerful tools...

I Respect You-Respect is a way of showing love. It demonstrates that you are equal...

I Miss You-this ais a powerful affirmation that tells someone they are wanted, needed,desired and loved.
Just think how it would feel if for no reason at all, you get a call in the middle of the day from a spouce or a friendand they simply say "I Miss You"
Maybe more marriges or friendships could be saved and strengthened if both simply and sincerly just said "I Miss You"...

Maybe Your Right-Pride can be a hard thing to swallow.
But this phrase is very effective in difusing a argument.
When you say"Maybe Your Right" with the humility of admitting that " maybe I'm wrong" ...

Please Forgive Me- Most relationships could be saved and remain strong if one could just admit to their mistakes and say when they are wrong; Then ask for forgiveness...A man can prove that he is wiser today than he was yesterday, just by not being ashame to say he is guilty of mistakes and go on....Cause we are all vulnerable to faults and to failures...

I Thank You- Courtesy, is showing greatfulness and gratitude...People who enjoy the campanionship of good close friends are people that don't take things for granted, and they are quick to say "I Thank You"
On the other hand, people whose circle of friends is severely constricted often do not have the attitude of gratitude...

I'll Be There- When we are truely there for another, then good things happen for us and for them...Have you ever had to call on a friend when your car was broke down or in the middle of the night to help cause you have a sick child and need to go to the hospital? And when you called this person and you heard these words"I'll be there" , Wasn't that just the best feeling as you have a feeling of relief...

Go For It - God has given us all the ability to dream, and have goals...Don't try to get your friends to conform to your ideals...Everyone is a unique individual that has a dream and we should support their dream no matter how far fetched it may seem to us...

I Love You - These three small words have so much POWER...
Perhaps the most important words that we can ever say...
We all need to belong;and to feel appreciated an wanted...
By telling someone you love them , truely love them satisfies the utmost deepest emtional needs...
Friends, children and spouce all need to hear these three little words: Love is a choise. You can love even when the love is gone...

GOD BLESS YOU !!! This is three strong words too...Right?

ForPlay2000 55M

3/21/2006 12:30 am

You forgot at least one I can think of... I am sorry!


blogginOnly 58F

3/21/2006 3:26 am

gemee
You covered it all gal. Very good way of putting it.


rm_dragonheat23 51M
1158 posts
3/21/2006 12:13 pm

You are appreciated.


gemee3 57F
2 posts
3/29/2006 11:25 pm

ForPlay2000,
I do beleive that by saying -" Please Forgive Me" - somewhere in those three words you are saying "I AM SORRY" ...But for you I will do those words too...
" I AM SORRY" --When someone has done something to bring you much pain and sorrow,- Simply saying I am Sorry, sometimes makes the pain diminish...By diligently telling someone that you are sorry, you are trying to comfort them...And letting them know you are there for them for what ever reason that brought them this sorrow and pain...


rm_happygray2 65M
1 post
6/3/2006 3:24 am

If there was a way to make the phrases felt instead of merely speaking them, instead of the words going to your ears the feeling would go straight to your heart and soul. Now that would give true, real, comfort. The purpose of words is to express feelings and emotions anyway.


gentle_touch59 57F
1 post
11/7/2006 9:55 pm

I think that the way you speek your words ; that they are really being spoken from your heart.Have you ever thought about writing for a card company? Keep up the blogs, I will be checking back with you.They make me feel warm inside.Beautifully spoken...........


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