How do you get your wife to try bi-sexual experiences?  

garbageman1963 54M
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5/17/2005 12:08 pm

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How do you get your wife to try bi-sexual experiences?


This is a subject that I have chatted about for a long time. My wife, God lover her, enjoys the fantacies of having another woman join us, she also enjoys the fantacy of her with another woman. But she is shy, and when we have discussed the possibilities, she always says things like, "I couldn't possibly with someone I know", and "but how could I do that with a total stranger?"
It always makes me laugh. But it is the reality, and I wonder if that is really a sign that she only wants to keep it a fantacy. And that is OK. But she says she doesn't. Perhaps, she is just keeping my libido active!
Do most women feel this way? I am sure variety on this subject is as abundant as most, but perhaps there is someone out there who has a little insight.
I would love to help my wife fulfill some of her fantacies, (AND OF COURSE MINE!!!LO But not at the expense of her sacrificing something she doesn't want to. I guess the biggest question is how to determine boundaries, when the conversation doesn't really point that out. I know I can use my conscience,(little head, stop interfering with big head) but even that isn't giving me a clear picture. I feel inaction is the best course of action, at this time.

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