The fine art of oral sex  

fxy10ldy 66F
24 posts
6/17/2006 2:38 pm

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The fine art of oral sex

I have never met a man who admitted he didn't have a clue about performing oral sex. And...why do men assume that women are looking for oral sex?
Men have no clue as to performing oral sex. But if you ask him he will laud his performances. Sorry, guys....the pussy is like a delicate rose...tenderly handled and cared for. It is not a "muff" to be "dived into."
Whatever happened to softness...slowness...savoring the moment?
The pussy is delicate like the rose....and demanding of the slightest touch and the most gentle touches of the tongue. And it's not performed quickly and harshly. Just like think the hardest cock and the hardest thump is what gets a woman off..NOT!
I wish all you men would read :HOW TO MAKE LOVE TO A WOMAN.

rm_a_real_nice1 60M
572 posts
6/17/2006 6:38 pm

I always figured the same as you when treating oral gently. My lady enjoys it as much as I enjoy giving it. But i feel it is something a man has to learn in order to preform well. I don't profess to get it right all the time, but I have a 99% success rate so far. Thank you for sharing your thoughts on this delicate issue. And welcome to the blogs.

fxy10ldy replies on 7/8/2006 2:53 pm:
Thank you for your reply and honesty in saying it is something a man has to learn. You are a genleman and scholar!

2 posts
6/17/2006 7:21 pm

well i know how and love to have a delicate rose in my life.would love to show and please you as you ve never been pleased before .and i agree with you about how to touch and to be able to smell the sweet beautiful aroma of a lady. to be able taste the sweet nectar of the gods . like honey to a bee and water to a flower. 985 788 9641 chico in lacombe

gmandave1964 52M

6/18/2006 8:17 pm

Sorry to hear you have had such bad experiences. And, yes, alot of men don't know how to be gentle and savor the experience to make it wonderful for a woman. Plus, all women are different and you have to learn what they want. Some like it hard and rough and others like it gentle. But, all and all, the important thing is to take your time. Hope you find some better experiences in your journeys on AdultFriendFinder.

rm_Rolo7334 48M
35 posts
6/20/2006 10:16 pm

If it is done right, there are not to many things better. I do not claim to be the greatet, but when a woman's body trembles, and her legs start to shake you must be doing something right. I believe in treating that rose with all the gentleness in the world. There is no reason to dive in, go slow and do a little teasing along the way and make it last longer. The longer the better. If you do this, it is the greatest thing in the world.

fxy10ldy 66F

7/8/2006 2:51 pm

Certainly, you can make a woman tremble and shake....a vibrator can do that's not a good reason to think you are doing it right.
Not saying you are not doing it right..just getting a point across.
And, it's admirable that some men can get it right. I have met one or two...

dunrunnin22 69M

7/9/2006 8:04 am

Hey Rosie, just spank em til they get it right. You go girl.

rm_kc48 67M

8/30/2006 6:43 pm

You may be right, men dont know how to handle the flower, but Ive always had women cum in my mouth, and never had one say, NO, not like that, but i will be the first to admit, that I am still in school. Is the teacher in?

rm_bigduck693 71M
1 post
10/10/2006 12:35 pm

its a wonderful thing to give to a woman,but it must be made love to,gental like licking honey off a butterfly,s wing without damaging taking the morning dew off a fresh bloomed rose.


69mike69 61M
3 posts
10/13/2006 8:00 am

You are right. sometimes I get real close and just let my warm breath make the only contact. You have to tease it.

headdiver122112 64M
1 post
1/20/2007 3:18 pm

would love to have a chance to slowly and delicately saver your pussy with my tong and to have the time to slowly make love with you. I do know how to please a woman and to have her have a great and strong cum that will rock her boat.

silverdollar1942 65M
8 posts
8/18/2007 7:22 pm

My ex-wife told me I should have been born a woman, what do you think she meant by that ?

fatnlong15 51M
24 posts
8/20/2007 6:09 pm

I do believe that this lovely lady is correct. I do know how to give oral sex to a lady. I do admit that it took a lot of practice. I still may get into it a liitle to hard at times, but with the right lady at the tip of my tongue and having me kiss and play with that clit and those lovely lips, I do believe that I can get it done. Cheers to all ladies who love oral to be performed on them.

ludwig202 64  
9798 posts
9/22/2007 11:18 pm

You are a beautiful woman,
I am happy, you are attractive
and simply desirable.
thank you.
Please invite me to your circle of friends.

ludwig202 64  
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ludwig202 64  
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DaddysLilPleazer 53M/28F

12/26/2007 12:45 am

    Quoting silverdollar1942:
    My ex-wife told me I should have been born a woman, what do you think she meant by that ?
Then why did she leave you?

Only kidding.

ooohyea6969 57M

1/28/2008 8:57 pm

fxt10ldy, I try but would love for u to teach me, I'll take all of the time u like. i come tola. weekly to work and need something to fill my boring hotel nights.

lovegame84 66M
1 post
2/14/2008 11:05 pm

i'll be the first to admit that i don't have a clue...& not just about oral sex. but about female sexuality in general. but as doc grey so profitably says, "after all, we are from different planets" (not an exact quote.)i do have some intensely studied hypotheses, based on many yrs in the mental health field & chasing women for case studies, that usually cause a distinct rolling of the eyes from those few women who'll even take the time to hear the short version. i am always more than willing to learn. i'd venture to say that most of the women i've experienced (& we're not talking 100s here; more like 10-20, but several over long periods up to 25 yrs)prefer not to be "kissed down there" -- as several describe it (either because they cant recall the term, "cunnilingus" in the heat of passion" or they'd gag on the words,, "eat me"-- explaining that "it doesnt smell good",, or "i'm not very clean down there today".but it's an interesting topic. i find that women (same 15 or 16 above) have little or not qualms about giving oral sex! surely they dont expect a man to be more hygenic than she is?? it's a puzzlement. but i'll keep researching as able, doncha know.

ooohyea6969 57M

2/22/2008 2:48 pm

Your right on time Ms. Fxy, I'll email you later and we can talk some more, see ya.

loneranger19582 58M

3/13/2008 2:53 pm

I like what you have to say because you are right on track. I believe in taking my time and make the lady feel special. I like to go slow- be delicate, gentle- and to lick that cunt and get the lady relaxed and to enjoy what i am doing as she is enjoying the sensation too. I am a firm believer that it is not how long a man's penis is that counts- because most ladies only want the inner part of their clit touched, so therefore size should not be the most important to a man or a woman. I would love the chance to spend time with you and would like for you to chat with me. You can add me at the hooo by adding ooo to my name and let's get to know each other. I am not superman, but I know to use what I've been blessed with in my body.

rm_ciaofreddy 70M
6 posts
3/19/2008 3:44 pm

Dear Foxy Lady...
Your picture is very sexy. I've contacted you through
Yahoo Personals but no reply. Your photo is planted in my brain.
Call me obsessed. And to think that you are very near.
Check out my profile. I believe we are made for each other.
I'm 61 years old, winding down a little...but very, very..gentle..


PoledBloatShare 63M

3/22/2008 10:58 pm

Yes your right fxy1oldy! Most men don’t have a clue on how to lick and please a woman’s pussy! Yes you should be slow and gentle. I first kiss my way down to her pussy. Gently sucking and blowing my way down! When I get to her clit. gently blow on her. doing it in a circular motion. Then flicking my tongue on her swollen clit! Then I gently taking her clit in your mouth. Very slowly sucking her. then go back to licking her clit. Some women like when I use the flat of my tongue and rub her clit with it! She will be moaning quite a bit by now! If she pull my head deeper on to her pussy I know I'm doing thing right! Then here is where I will drive the woman to an unreal orgasm. I gently very gently slide two of my fingers into her pussy. What am I looking for! Well the best kept secret of a woman. Her G SPOT! I find the and gently work her G Spot and continue licking her till she cumms! And if your real good she will squirt in your mouth! O! How I love a squirter! By now she is begging you to fuck her! I know! I've done it with success many times! One thing I add to the mix is fur coats! I have a fur fetish and by the time we get done making love so does she! She wears one fur coat and use another fur to rub on her pussy and breast!
Foxy love to wrap you in fox fur coat and have a real foxy lady! Mmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

chuck692236 67M

5/5/2008 5:46 am

Absolutely agree a gentle soft touch over a long span of time creates the most intense orgasms I have felt my partner have. The thrill of being able to provide that for someone is indescribable. I usually enjoy feeling my partner experience at least two or three intense orgasms before we even think about penetration.

rm_truckerseven 75M
1 post
5/9/2008 1:34 am

SO gentle ........ so softly ......... and for so long. Your soooooooooo right Foxy

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