Why don't men like to cuddle?  

funtoplay1973 43M
33 posts
12/12/2005 11:33 pm

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Why don't men like to cuddle?


For that matter... Why do women like to cuddle?

Well, I don't think it is at all like that. I think some people like to cuddle, some don't. I've done the one night stand thing. Even had great sex, but in reality, it just isn't the bomb. Sex is great, but what we call a one night stand rarely is the whole night. There is a quick cuddle at best, then one or the other or both get up, shower and bail.

Sex isn't just about SEX. It is also about shared intimacy. While I'm not into the whole Dom/Sub thing, I do understand that it isn't just someone dominating, it is also someone submiting. A partnership.

I'm not into just fucking and running. I want to hold my partner and share the aftermath. After we've spent a few hours bringing each other to the pinacles, I want to share the act of coming down. I want to feel the tension beginning to release as her breathing slows, as her muscles relax, as she drifts off. I want to match her heartbeat with my own. I want reach around her, draw her near, follow her movements through the night.

I want to be there to wake her in the morning...

Even if the world isn't to be ours, damn it for a day, a week, a year, whatever we're given, I want to share it.

rm_cockmerollme 45F
1223 posts
12/12/2005 11:43 pm

That's sweet...bullshit, but sweet.....

LET'S GO METS!!!


funtoplay1973 43M
69 posts
12/13/2005 12:08 am

LMAO. Like I said. Some like to cuddle, others don't! I'm not saying that I ALWAYS want to cuddle, but why is it so hard to imagine that I like to cuddle?


rm_cockmerollme 45F
1223 posts
12/13/2005 9:12 pm

Yeah...no...I'll take the sex, some cuddling, and then I'm gonna need sleep. Now, that being said, I enjoy the non thought out hug-touch thing that happens in the early hours. But I don't ...think about that much...

LET'S GO METS!!!


ArgosPlumyKooky 45F
3902 posts
12/14/2005 12:11 am

i was never a cuddler. something happened during the last year, i am not sure what, but now i almost prefer it to sex. mayhap i am looking for true intimacy?

snatch


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