My First Time  

funtimesforher 41M
12 posts
10/9/2005 10:45 pm

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My First Time

This is the first time that I have ever been part of a blogging community. Maybe some of you will be disappointed since I am not talking about sex as my title may imply. I guess there is a resemblance between the two, in a weird way. Anyway, I joined this site a while back. I did it with the intention of maybe meeting someone that my fiancé and I could have fun with. I never kept up with the account but my fiancé made an account and has been active on this site for sometime. Well today I found my username and so on and logged in. I went to her blog and read through it. I received a call from her asking if I was online. I thought to myself, the force is strong with this one. Well I come to find out that you can see who reads your blogs. Anyway, my intention was not to spy on her. I was just curious. I mean she talks about her blog all the time and so I wanted to check it out.

I asked her if it was ok that I was online and she said yes. She thought that I would be mad about some of the comments that she has made and things she wrote about. Needless to say I have not read anything that I found inappropriate, but that’s not the point. I can't help to think that maybe I am invading her space. I mean, she said it was ok but is it? The last thing that I wanted to do was to invade her little nest in the safe tree and what not. Haha ha.

A small part of me thinks she was trying to avaoid a confrontation. Maybe she thought that it would look like she was hiding something if she said no. My fiancé is great. She is my best friend, my soulmate. We have a very open one of a kind relationship. I know that eventualy she will tell me if it bothers her. Well I have been rambling on but I hope that she is not mad, if she is, I hope she tells me.

I think I'm paranoid.

What? Who said that?

Philosophy_N_Sex 49M/47F

10/11/2005 12:30 pm

Even after 17 years these feelings are normal and natural. They motivate us to be our best.

If you do not intrigue and seduce your mate. somebody else will!

expatbrit49 62M

10/11/2005 3:11 pm

Welcome to the land of Blog, we all know your fiance and like her writing, you are a luck man

Thank You for Your Time and Attention

funtimesforher 41M
11 posts
10/11/2005 5:50 pm

P&S, I am a GURU in the art of seduction at least thats what I am told.

Thanks for stopping by. It's nice to meet my baby's friends here in Blogville.

Gifted Unlimited Rhymes Universal

funtimesforher 41M
11 posts
10/11/2005 5:53 pm

Expat, Thanks for the welcome. Its nice to know that others see how great my fiance is. I am definitely a lucky man.


FunandFrisky79 41M/37F

10/11/2005 6:01 pm

Hey, sexy! Welcome to Blogville (I knew you had it in you)!

Personally, I don't think you are invading her space. She knows you would never "spy" on her. And, you know she would never do anything to intentionally hurt you. She probably just wants to protect you from possibly being upset by some of her posts. And, since you don't seem to be affected by them, what's the problem?

In fact, isn't she the one who suggested you start blogging?? *evil grin*

, Frisky

Btw, you're a pretty funny guy! If I wasn't already spoken for, you'd be in BIG trouble!


pussinboots4u 50M/47F

10/12/2005 10:36 am

**handing over basket of warm cookies**

Welcome to the neighborhood!

Seems that you have a pretty healthy relationship. You don't seem bothered by her blog and as long as you are reassuring, I'm sure she won't tell you it is not okay.

Blogs are blogs, comments are comments, and real life is real life. Enjoy each other and enjoy the silliness of Blogville.

funtimesforher 41M
11 posts
10/12/2005 6:06 pm

PinB, Thanks for the cookies. Mmmmm, they were great.
You are right, we do have a healthy relationship. We have and will have our hurdles but we overcome them together. As far as Blogville, I think it’s great. It’s a great outlet and she has met some great people. Thanks for stopping by.

It’s all about FunTimesForHer.

funtimesforher 41M
11 posts
10/12/2005 6:29 pm

Frisky, Wise and beautiful, no wonder your spoken for. He's a very lucky man.

I know she would never hurt me and I would never hurt her. I just wasn't sure if it was ok. Your wise words make realize that it is. And your right, she was the one who suggested that I start blogging.

BTW, I'm already in a world of trouble. Besides, you could'n handle me.

Its all about FunTimesForHer

(Princess Lips)

10/13/2005 8:19 am

*brings cold milk to go with Puss's warm cookies*

welcome to blogland!


funtimesforher 41M
11 posts
10/14/2005 8:56 pm

Red, Thats just what I needed to go along with these delicious cookies.

Thanks for the warm hello.

It's all about FunTimesForHer.

FunandFrisky79 41M/37F

10/15/2005 2:02 pm

Fun- LMAO, I couldn't handle you?? Hmmm... That's funny, I haven't had any problems handling you for the past two years!

Besides, I've been taking it easy on you... *evil grin*

Kisses, baby-


DLiscious2 48M/42F

2/16/2006 8:27 pm

Fun- We kind of think she wants you to invade her space--several of her spaces, actually, and often. We encourage you in this, though we are of course envious.

You see, we think Miss Frisk is a sexy gem and we sincerely want her to be happy and fulfilled. You light up her night sky, dude, so our feeling is STOP with the angst already and dive into this other side of her libidinous life. She wants it.

Blog baby, blog. Where are your recent writings? Post and we shall come...with luck so will she.


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