it's a foggy monday  

funopencouple707 45M/45F
57 posts
9/19/2005 10:08 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

it's a foggy monday

It's just starting to lift. I can see the trees beyond my neighbors house now.
I like foggy mornings. I like Mondays too. I have Mondays off right now, so I have the whole house to myself. I made a latte and sipped it while reading my email. I'm warm and lazy.
I spent most of the weekend in bed. I'm sore all over. I wish I had a hot tub of my own. It seems like such an extravagant waste of money to drive to Arcata and pay by the hour to soak. I do like the atmosphere there though, it's totally relaxing.
I've turned our profile back "on". I doubt I'll have much time in the next couple months to sift through potential people to meet, but you never know. We're going to move slower next time anyway. I want to be sure everyone is on the same page before proceeding further. Sometimes I feel like I'm so easily close to people that I shouldn't even be trying this... I'm bound to get my feelings hurt again. Then I remember, we have to risk pain in order to experience joy. I know this to be true. So I'm willing to risk it.

fun4usfun4u2005 43M/42F

9/20/2005 11:48 am

Foggy mornings are nice when there is no one around and the fire makes it nice and warm inside. We got cold enough to start the fire on Sunday night so it was quite warm come Monday.
Moving slow is the best thing it lets everyone enjoy the feeling of a growing relationship and lets your emotions catch up with your bodys.

funopencouple707 45M/45F

9/20/2005 7:34 pm

Thanks for the nice comment

funwithyou602 56F

9/20/2005 9:53 pm

If only all felt as you do, taking it slow is my motto. A friendship takes time to build. Trust is something earned. Not an overnight journey for sure. I don't see fault in the individuals with a different approach. Some prefer the time neccessary to really know someone and others are not as concerned. There is an intense division between the love of a life mate and the love of a friend. That is something learned and one can easily blur the two and lose the insight neccessary to keep each in it's place. Nothing wrong with having love for others, but becoming to close or getting screwed by someone is nothing more than a lesson learned that should be remembered, but not placed to close to our heart.

funwithyou602 56F

9/25/2005 5:10 am

FUNOPENcouple, post more!!! Let me get into your head! (the one in your head...between your know what I mean.

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