You've heard this all before  

funopencouple707 45M/45F
57 posts
8/24/2005 10:49 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

You've heard this all before

but it bears repeating anyway, as some of you don't seem to understand...
sure, this is a sex site. People registered on this site have an interest in finding sex partners. That doesn't mean they wish to discuss nothing but sex. It doesn't mean you should send email after email with your cell number and a pic of your cock. It doesn't mean we're going to fuck you if we meet. There's more to attraction than a mutual interest in sex.
We already know we all like sex, so ask what else we like. We already know you have a penis, we'll ask to see it if we want a look. Treat us with respect and get to know us, it'll be well worth it.

Mamaluv68 49M/48F
1 post
8/27/2005 11:30 am

I totally agree with you. I hate to recieve a pic of mens private parts when I have not asked. And there is alot more to talk about than sex when you first meet. You are so right when you said "there's more to attraction than a mutual interest in sex". There is so much more. And sometimes only friendship will come of it and that is ok also. You put into words exactly how I feel, thank you. Good luck with your adventures, I hope you meet some cool people. Have a great day!

funopencouple707 45M/45F

8/29/2005 12:59 pm

Thanks for the note mamaluv! And I totally agree, friendships are more than okay, they're fantastic. I love meeting new people and making new friends.

rm_jillshot27 37F

9/3/2005 5:27 am

I agree !!! I know this seems weird but I orginally joined AdultFriendFinder with the idea of finding a friend that I could trust and discuss things with. I wanted to be able to trust him to the extent of letting him take photos of me without my clothes on NOT so he would have sex with me but it seems that almost everyone doesnt have the same views about wanting friendship and even just getting turned on about nudity. You dont have to "do it" to "enjoy it". I think just being nude with someone would be a turnon.. but I guess that's never going to happen.
Anyway thanks for having the same thoughts about friendship..

funopencouple707 45M/45F

9/3/2005 8:25 am

I don't think that sounds weird, Jill. I've made some friends on this site! I hope you find what you're looking for, thanks for the note.

funwithyou602 56F

9/3/2005 2:11 pm

I am glad to know that other's have similiar feelings as I though maybe I could have used a little more tact in presenting them in my blog.

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