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I dont really get into talking sex online anway
I dont really get into talking sex online anway
I've been insanely busy. Those of you who know me know I have a pretty strange hobby. It's intense and stressful. This week my "hobby" involved working on a team project, and it took up a lot of time. It was extremely successful, once again.
Meanwhile I found little time for chit chat, and found myself having little patience for people in my IM. Friday (I think it was Friday) I got an add request from someone who didn't identify themselves in the add message. I waited several minutes for him to send an IM, and I was just about to click "deny", when his message came through. That chat was so typical of the exchanges I've had with men lately, I decided to post it here. I changed the YIM names. What follows is the actual log between myself and the man I'd sent our YIM name to...
The first line he sent wasn't archived by yahoo, it just said something like, you sent me your name on blah blah website.
My Yahoo Name : ah, usually you say that in the add message, I was just about to deny you
My Yahoo Name : as I had no idea who you were
My Yahoo Name : what was your name on that site please?
My Yahoo Name : hello?
My Yahoo Name : you just messaged me. are you still there?
The Guy : Let's chat, do you have yahoo messenger? You can reach us under the name My Yahoo Name
My Yahoo Name : *blinks*
The Guy : is this him or her?
My Yahoo Name : you already said I'd sent you my name. I'm really not sure why you would copy and paste that message to me
My Yahoo Name : what is your name on that site?
The Guy : sorry doing 5 things at once The Guy
The Guy : iam looking to be with a cpl to have my first bi exp
My Yahoo Name : I see.. I thought your ad was for a couple as well... are you single?
The Guy : well i not single but she only plays with a cpl we aready know
My Yahoo Name : we have no issues with singles, or whatever, so long as they arent cheaters. we dislike cheaters.
My Yahoo Name : we play as a couple
My Yahoo Name : and I'm the girl, by the way
The Guy : cool well iam not a cheater she knows she is bi and we have a lover and she know i what to try to lick and girl while she is being fucked and i think i want to suck a guy she doesnt want to see that it truns her on to think about it but she doesnt want to see she just want me to tell her about it for know
The Guy : opps she knows i want to lick a girl while she is being fuck
My Yahoo Name : *whew* that was one long sentence. Like I said, I have no issues, your relationship is your business, so long as we're not getting involved in the middle of a cheating/lying situation, we're cool
The Guy : and i have lie to her and told i have suck a guy but i havent yet
The Guy : do you have a pix?
My Yahoo Name: um. you lied about it? like, she thinks you REALLY did? or it's like a fantasy and she knows you really didnt?
The Guy : well i never told i didnt
My Yahoo Name : I don't know you, we've chatted about one whole minute. All I have are pics of my face and I don't send them to people I have absolutely no idea about yet.
The Guy : thats ok
The Guy : what are you two looking for
My Yahoo Name : I dont think I understand the part about you lying to her about sucking a dick... that really didnt make much sense.
My Yahoo Name : we're looking for new people to hang out with I guess, we're pretty new so we havent met that many people yet
The Guy : iam blonde in good shape a little bit of a belly
The Guy : she fucks me with a strapon once in a while and she ask me if i had sucked a guy yet and i told her i did
The Guy : so she made me suck the strapon like it was a cock
My Yahoo Name : oh I get it I think
My Yahoo Name : that's pretty hot
The Guy : i love licking pussy so if i like it so much i think i will like sucking cock
The Guy : yes
My Yahoo Name : heheh
My Yahoo Name : how old are you
The Guy : 36
The Guy : and u
My Yahoo Name : 34
My Yahoo Name : I dont really get into talking sex online anway
The Guy : mmmm
My Yahoo Name : we both know what we're all looking for... we know what we're into sex. I use chat to get to know the person more to know if meeting is worth doing? or not so much.
The Guy : thats cool see iam still want to know alot about it very cur
My Yahoo Name : I have no idea what you just tried to say.
My Yahoo Name : see, here's the thing
My Yahoo Name : I don't have sex with people I don't like... and I can't know if I like someone or not until I know some things about them. I hang out some with the people I hook up with, I don't just meet, fuck, and leave.
My Yahoo Name : so if you just want to talk about what kinds of things you fantasize about doing? I'm not interested. I don't cyber, I don't like to spend hours talking about what I've done, or want to do.
My Yahoo Name : I like to figure out who I'm talking to, figure out if I already know them (which does happen) and then find out what we have in common *other than* fucking
The Guy : so are you looking for someone to fall in love with
My Yahoo Name : what? I have a boyfriend! that's a very strange question
The Guy : well i think of what its called when there are more then two poeple in in love with each other
My Yahoo Name : poly
My Yahoo Name : *shakes head* like I said, I have to like someone to fuck them, that's all. I didn't say I have to LIKE them, like I'm falling in love. I have to find someone interesting to even begin to get turned on by them.
My Yahoo Name : I'm going to have to want to see them, and want to be around them, to want to fuck them. It's just... logical to me
The Guy : see the thing in order ofr me to be able to play it has to be just sex that is our rule
My Yahoo Name: hahahahha
My Yahoo Name : you dont want to know my NAME? no conversation?
The Guy : yes i do
My Yahoo Name : yeah, what would be the point now though? you never told me yours.
My Yahoo Name : good luck out there.
And that was that.
9/25/2005 11:50 am
9/25/2005 8:04 pm
That is so typical. LOL. You just have to wonder where some of these people come from. |
Ahhhh, but now I am feeling real bad cause I was looking into "Cheating", and now that I have read you post that mentions you hating cheaters I feel guilty. Pretty dam guilty. Got to work that one out in my head.
9/25/2005 8:29 pm
Don't feel guilty about it... it's your relationship and your business. My opinion on the matter shouldn't matter as much as your spouse's, obviously. The truth of the matter is, it's the honesty that's the issue. Lying is a huge pet peeve of mine, and if someone is pretending to be monogamous, while in reality they fuck whoever they want.... they're very dishonest. Being involved in such disception and drama is just not something I want a part of.|
9/25/2005 8:31 pm
Don't feel guilty about it... it's your relationship and your business. My opinion on the matter shouldn't matter as much as your spouse's, obviously. The truth of the matter is, it's the honesty that's the issue. Lying is a huge pet peeve of mine, and if someone is pretending to be monogamous, while in reality they fuck whoever they want.... they're very dishonest. Being involved in such desception and drama is just not something I want a part of.|
9/25/2005 8:31 pm
Don't feel guilty about it... it's your relationship and your business. My opinion on the matter shouldn't matter as much as your spouse's, obviously. The truth of the matter is, it's the honesty that's the issue. Lying is a huge pet peeve of mine, and if someone is pretending to be monogamous, while in reality they fuck whoever they want.... they're very dishonest. Being involved in such deception and drama is just not something I want a part of.|
9/25/2005 8:33 pm
There are some real winners out there, eh? You have much more patience than I do...I woulda told him to fuck off in the first minute or 2, lol |
9/26/2005 4:20 pm
I'm not always that patient... he seemed new, so I was giving him the benefit of the doubt. The only nice thing I can say is, he didn't get abusive with me after I made it clear we weren't continuing the conversation. So many of them do!|
9/29/2005 5:53 am
well at least it wasn't a total waste of time. You got to post it in your blog!