Contemplation  

funkazoofire 42M/36F
41 posts
11/20/2005 4:12 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Contemplation


Well it almost thanksgiving and well sometime is wonder if i am better to do this on my own or to keep this thing together as a couple. I have always been straight up with my partner about not wanting marriage, something they knew when we started dating, something that i made very very clear. I enjoy being around people a lot, i enjoy friendships that come from this, what i dont enjoy is the constant barrage of someone being co-dependant and needing to have someone around constantly. I have never had one person tell me i am anti-social, mean, or cold hearted. I always get the opposite response and have been told by several that i have an addictive personaltiy and feel very safe around me. Then if this is the case, why do i feel like i want space but i want friendships more and i want more freedome to play alone?

silkysmoothlegs3 105F

11/20/2005 4:44 pm

I guess we all get like that at some point..

you want to breath. flirt if you like etc

Its natural hunny

Silky


online69n 51F

11/20/2005 5:02 pm

hay I kind feel the same..I like my friends but i don't like the ones that attach themselves to me. I am very independant and don't need anyone. I do however like to have fun on my timing...most of my friends know and respect my feelings but some just get addicted.
Let me know when you find an answer here. I hate that I hurt some of my friends and wish that they could just give me my space.


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