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Its fucking embarrassing! Makes you ashamed to be a man, STOP IT GUYS.
Got in early today for a change(!) and decided to blog watch for a tad.
I watch a few blogs that have poetry on them, sensual and otherwise because I like wordsmithery and the construction of beauty and, there are a number of good ones.
This morning I decided to check out the comments on some and I was astounded!
The levels and depths that certain people are prepared to plummet to for a compliment is nauseating!
I spotted 7 guys who left the same sycophantic comments on many ladies (and webot) blogs that were really disgustingly desperate and open cries for a shag.
‘ Your words are so beautiful, I live near you, perhaps we can meet.’ From one guy to blogs as far apart as Florida and California. Where the fuck does he live then?
I was going to give a few more examples but, I cannot even bring myself to cut and paste them.
It brings home to me a post made by a respected blogger I watch who mentioned the ratio on this site of women v men and the absolute desperation that this may have engendered in some males here.
I understand this is a sex site and all that palaver but, isn’t it better to just chill, speak to some nice people and generally have a good addition to your social life.
Ok, I know I haven’t got a social life, lets not split hairs here!
To me, its just an extension of networking in the ‘real’ world and IF you meet anyone from here in the physical world, surely its because you have connected and wish to discover more. If you end up sweating and farting under the covers, great and whoopee but, concentrating on that aspect will ensure you miss out on having some great friends.
Desperation for a quick one-nighter or even a sensual and erotic 2 minutes stood up outside the bar as the focus of being here may mean that you meet some people but you will still be desperate the next day. Emptying the old pod carriers brings physical relief only guys, and you all have Mrs Thumb and her 4 daughters for that.
Not sure where I’m trying to go with this, I’m just appalled at the obvious and pathetic attempts at seduction in some comments.
In one of my earlier posts ( a long time ago now!) I started a campaign to deprive the women on this site of our bodies until they were gagging as much as the men. There was a significant uptake in the article section but, surprisingly, it petered out.
I was the first casualty as I remember!
Now I LOVE SEX but, I am not going to crawl, beg, cry, lie, give false compliments or pretend just so I can get my willy wet.
Shouldn’t we all have too much self respect for that?
What do you think girls, do false compliments and sycophantic overtures turn you on or off?
I’ll be back, in the meantime
6/12/2006 10:34 pm
well done Fun...you stand out among men on this site...BTW is it alright to commend you...I don't need my p---- wet LOL!|
I prefer to look at a man's face and get a sense of who he is rather than see his cock and read his crude approaches.
6/14/2006 2:21 pm
I like honesty and intelligent conversation And photo's that say something about the person. If naked pics: they BETTER be highly creative. Otherwise: something that shows who/what you are. Like somebody that loves playing guitar: a pic of his hand and guitar. (ok: i like that one cuz it's one of few hand pics on this site lol. he actually found ME if i remember).|
6/15/2006 6:21 am
DO false compliments and sycho...(jawbreaker word) turn me off?|
Well lucky for me I am quite perceptive and can tell flattery from a genuine compliment.The flattery used to annoy me but now its just ignore it and carry on with the conversation like I never heard anything but meanwhile I´ll be scheming about the motive behind it.
6/16/2006 6:11 am
I think men are desperate on this site because of the ratio here of men to women...and let's be honest on a good day men don't know what women want...so in the field of competition men believe they are selling themselves to us...but really don't know how...dick pics... compliments...want do women want? I prefer more subtle pictures of men...I find intelligence and humor...way sexier than dick pictures...I abhor crude and vulgar...you seem to be a man who has great insight and intelligence...I just found your blog...I definitely will be back...|