funintheday2006 56M
8366 posts
6/10/2006 9:35 pm

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1/9/2007 7:30 am


This post is written by the lady in charge of my admin in response to a challange from [sexydisaster30]
The lady does not know its for this site, I lied, not saying how but, it was devious and neccesary.
Oh, just write the real me as you see it for a sex site would NOT have been the right thing to do!

So, this is what she wrote, I have only taken out specific references that would easily identify the company.I have not checked spelling, grammar or altered the views in any way.

Oh God, what have I DONE?

This is hard, I know your reading it!
When he first became my boss I was pretty frightened as I had been working her for 15 years for the same boss.
He changed things every day and for a long time we were all a bit unsettled, especially when the offices moved to a new place.
It took about a year to get to know him because he is very deep and hes always joking around but you can tell just by his eyes when hes not happy about something.
Im not just saying this but he has made working here a lot better and gives us all trust. All the people here have a lot of respect and affection for him. I was a clerk for 15 years and since he took over I am now a director of the company with much more responsibility.
He can be a pain when he tries to do our jobs just to help out because he is not very patient with customers unless they are women and then he flirts outrageously. I’ve never known a man customer ask for him by name but many of their secretaries do!
As a person he keeps work and private life separate so we don’t see him very often after work.
Its really hard to say much, he’s always at work so we never know what he does outside of it. We think he has a secret girlfriend or two somewhere but he just laughs about it if we say anything.
He can be a bit frightening when he questions anything because you never know the real reason for all the questions so never have any answers ready.
When he walks into a room you know hes there even if your back is turned, he has a presence that is very difficult to explain. I can only say that no matter what kind of meeting is going on when he talks everybody listens no matter who they are.
His sarcasm upsets many people but, when you get to know him you see its just his way and not meant in a bad way.
Last year he was ill with shingles and his doctor kept calling because he should have been in hospital. In the 3 months he never had one day off and I drove him to a talk he was doing. It was obvious he was in a lot of pain and when he got on stage he sort of woke up. The pa system they had broke and he just boomed out his talk with no microphone and I don’t think anyone missed a word! On the way back he just slept in the car. We were all worried about him for a long time but, he never said anything about the illness except to excuse him if he seemed a bit short or irritable.
In some ways he is very intimidating and difficult to read but, we have sussed that he gives in really easily if the girls gang up on him!
I suppose a quick description would be that he has a very hard exterior but, hes jelly inside, you just have to get through.
I asked the girls in the office to help me do this and they said to say that he is the best boss there is, bar none.

That was it really, sorry not much personal stuff there, woiuld not have known who to ask for that!


wishinNhoping 64F
527 posts
6/11/2006 4:57 am

Ha, just as I expected, the eyes give it away when you're not happy!! Pretty much the description I have built up in my mind. Doesn't surprise me that they think you are "all jelly" inside. I love your sarcasm, (reminds me of myself!!).
A little more insight into that wonderful mind of yours.

Take care, have fun
P xx

funintheday2006 replies on 6/11/2006 8:30 pm:
mmm still not sure this was a good idea!

florallei 99F

6/11/2006 12:30 pm

...the type of man I have always longed for...1)has integrity..YOU have..2)intelligence...YOU have...3)great work ethics...YOU have...4)just and fair...YOU have...5)someone who walks into a room with a presence...YOU have...6)mindful of others...YOU have....7)persevering...YOU have....respected by others...YOU have...9)witty yet kind...YOU have...need I go any further...what an honor to have such a rapor with your staff...knowing when to be there for them yet...distant enough not to fully expose yourself with just the right amount of mystery...am definitely intrigued...
Will you have a position open for me...have years of experience in management? LOL

funintheday2006 replies on 6/11/2006 8:36 pm:
You got THAT from her attempt at a pay rise?
For a vailable positions please see Susies post above or my profile!!
Once again, you flatter me and Im not sure I completely live up to it!
Thanks babe

rm_goddess1946 106F
13518 posts
6/11/2006 5:18 pm

I was looking for the Sag or the Virgo in your chart after
reading this and then I read your profile and saw Gemini!
Delicious that you have the sense to keep your private life
private! Thanks for sharing

Just a little food for thought.............
If you really want to be happy, nobody can stop you...

funintheday2006 replies on 6/11/2006 8:37 pm:
Thganks for popping in hon, to see the sag in me I have to find a pic of my belly and the Virgo was deflowered some time ago! Oh sweet memories...
I like delicious.. yes , I can live with that!
Take care..

PurplePeach72 44F  
9199 posts
6/11/2006 7:20 pm

Why is it that all the greatest guys work like maniacs? It's so great when you hard working men relax enought o make time for some fun. All work and no play...
Glad you took Sexy up on her dare. I am here because of her blog. Glad to meet you. You sound like a great guy.


funintheday2006 replies on 6/11/2006 8:39 pm:
Thanks for coming guys
Maniac??? Listen, I was discharged weeks ago, Im normal, you can ask any of the medical team.
I have learnd to play at work, its the feminine side of me that multitasks!
Have fun

SweetDarlinAngel 39F
2996 posts
6/13/2006 3:23 pm

Great idea to go to a co-worker to get the goods on yourself. Too funny, and brave to boot. Hopefully no questions will be asked.
It's odd how you run into people in the blogs that you'd never met before, but now I know more about you than I would have just cruising through. Great post! *giggles*


funintheday2006 replies on 6/13/2006 4:28 pm:
Thanks for calling by babe, welcome to the home of the brave.
not to mention stupid.
You call again you hear, and soon

have fun

ATL640 55M

6/16/2006 3:06 am

To live in love - it touches me then departs without warning. If only it was as simple as being overcome by fear. The connection with love seems to spin through layers of trust, honesty, desire and my core is awash with confusion. Oh to commit to love and live without pain or longing. One day the soul will be rewarded. Your words give hope.

funintheday2006 replies on 6/16/2006 7:34 am:
Thanks, I think! Maybe you hit the wrong post?

A hem, you forgot your undies.

demonicsexkitten 41F
10671 posts
6/16/2006 1:44 pm


thankfully i was NOT drinking anything when i read ur last response too funny.

Maybe I should have paid more attention... and had my friend do this YOUR way. I'm having him read my blog instead. then reply. Which means i may have to deal with him having hurt feelings and jealousy. and of course, once i post his response... may have to deal with hurt feelings and a bit of jealousy from a friend or two on this site.

funintheday2006 replies on 7/27/2006 9:15 pm:
Thats great, you were NOT drinking?? Fantastic babe, one day at a time

rm_kelli4u2dew 41F
5220 posts
7/27/2006 5:10 pm

Interesting ... so you have no friends, and the people who work with you don't know where your coffin is located ... why am I not surprised? What did they think when you had all the mirrors removed?

You know, ignoring shingles is really stupid. It could cause permanent neurological damage.

Are you happy? Sorry, but I think it's a legitimate question.


funintheday2006 replies on 7/27/2006 9:14 pm:
I have 1 person I would call a real friend, we would literally do anything for each other, no restrictions and no questions. I don't think you need more than one like that!
I know the shingles thing, I am a pretty strong person physically and psychologically and knew that I could deal with it, some days it was a battle but, I'm too bloody stubborn to give in to pain. Worked out good, no damage, 14 weeks of agony though!!
Your last question is difficult and one that I cannot fully answer. Happy is something I think I've abandoned, I settle for being around good people and helping to develop them.
I had an excellent marriage/relationship and am grateful for the time I was permanently ecstatic.
Happiness is relative and compared to my childhood I am so much closer to it.
I get serious joy from making a difference to the people around me whom I care for and I think that is my happiness now. Its better than many have or will ever have.
I have been so fortunate to grow from where I started from it would be churlish of me not to be happy.

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