under estimate your senses  

fuckmywife17 41M/41F
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9/3/2006 3:50 pm

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9/4/2006 9:11 am

under estimate your senses

too many times I have seen and chated with people that try and try to find the right person, yet always seem to attract the wrong kind of person to them. They look so hard and so intensly that they forget about all thier other senses. they use thier eyes and eyes only to pick thier next partner. Dont get me wrong seeing is important and yes physical attraction is not a bad thing. But if you for one second think that physical attraction will carry you through all your years with one partner, I would simply say that your setting yourself up for the fall. We all age, and time does amazing things to our bodies. Most can except it and live with it, others try every means known to man to alter it. But in the end time will win. So pure physical attraction is short term at best and will die out just like a candle.
So I simply state to all persons of this world to use all thier god given senses to search out that right person. look with your ears, stop and listen instead of talking, slow down and enjoy the moment. You will learn more about a person by listening then you will ever by looking. If you can listen and then ask probing questions from what they say, you will dig deep into that persons inner self and you will truly learn who they are and what make them tick. To communicate doesnt mean that you say words, it means that you can articulate your words and the receiver can understand them. Communication is the single hardest thing we will ever do, it will cause us more pain etc than child birth etc. Becuase the effects of poor communication are felt over a much longer time span and the damange caused can change lives.
So next time stop and listen to what is being said and how its being said, watch his/her body language and ask the right questions at the right time. You will be truly amazed at what you will learn and SEE.

I wish you all the best of luck


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lightswitch1963 69M/53F

9/3/2006 4:59 pm

We have been looking for a couple. Yes, looks are important, but we prefer to IM, and mostly webcam. Personality goes a long way with us. You are so very right. We have not found the right ones, yet. But, we have found a couple that we like, not that many miles away. They have great personality, and are attractive. Hope you find what you are looking for, as well.

fuckmywife17 41M/41F

9/4/2006 4:04 am

For sure, we have met some great couples and people from this web site. Many seem like down to earth kind of people that we have more in common than not. My comments were for the few people that seem to keep striking out or finding that wrong person every time. I have been married for 7yrs and with my wife for 12. We communicate very well, not all the time-but most. I listen a lot and she tells me a lot (just kidding) The majority of the Blog was written for a friend that has had trouble finding MR.right. not that im a profesior of love or relationships. You can ask my wife and im sure she would say I still have a lot to learn. (as i do) But just needed to type out my thoughts for all to hear, plus to see if any other people had differing views. (always two sides to every story)

thanks for the reply

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