sex with freinds  

fuckmelikumeanit 53F
84 posts
7/12/2005 6:30 am

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sex with freinds

i have made it a practice never to have sex with my freinds..it usually makes things weird...i have become freinds with alot of people i have had sex with..now some of my freinds have been kinda insulted by my point of veiw...so i put it to you ..what do you think..should i or shouldn't i have sex with my freinds...


Polack1969 47M

7/12/2005 8:39 am

Depends on the friend. They would have to be honestly openminded and be able to answer a simple question....Can you have sex with a friend and not have it alter the friendship? I have had sex with several friends and we are still friends to this day. One was a very good experience as she and my wife were each others first girl on girl experience. She now has a closedminded partner and can no longer play..but it was a blast and we are still close.

If it alters the friendship in any way......then you shouldn't go through with it.


UnlitMaserSaxon 54M/52F
15 posts
7/12/2005 9:41 am

I'd say it depends on why you're friends with the non-AdultFriendFinder people in the first place. We connect with many of our 'civilian' friends for a variety of reasons: similar hobbies, overlapping lives (job, neighborhood etc.) or just good to talk to. But those relationships rarely have anything to do with similar attitudes about sex. Often, the best of friends are wildly different when it comes to such 'liberal' topics.

I agree with Polack - it depends on the friend. You are certainly the type (judging by your profile) that can separate sex from emotional issues. Sex is a physical activity you enjoy, not a path to commitment. It seems to me that any of your old friends who appear to have that same attitude - that they can fuck for fun and then laugh about it if it doesn't work out - those are the people you can probably invite into your exercise program without too much risk. The one's who don't seem to be able to make that separation in their own lives, well, probably best to just keep them at the 'beer and wings' level.


redmustang91 57M  
8599 posts
7/12/2005 11:43 am

I agree that it can make things weird, but I would prefer to be your lover than your friend. How come there are so many hot Canadians? The cold weather inspires cuddling? Nothing else to do? What gives?


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