What a Shitty thing?  

frostyflowerak 31F
27 posts
1/2/2006 2:52 am

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What a Shitty thing?

When say one man is given a proposition to a)marriage or B.)serious commitment or C)Leave all together is his opinion going to be swayed by his buddies? Will he more likely consult a bud then rationalize himself? And if so if he would choose to follow the advice of "One of the Guys" do you think he could have it blow up in his face when he should have followed his own feelings or is it likely to succeed?

rm_nightfroggy 44M

1/2/2006 4:11 am

When it comes down to it, it is your decision, regardless of what your mates think. They may have heard you say things (good or bad) about that person but don't know for sure how you really feel (my mates have a general idea of who i am/who i like, but people don't necessarily discuss their inner thoughts/feelings with their mates).

Your friends may try to convince you either way, by reminding you of the good/bad things you may have told them about this person but it's your life and your decision. Your mates won't always be there and are not always the best judges of the situation. You colud really love someone they don't particularly like as much as they might really like someone you don't.

I take it by your question that you have doubts. Listen to your friends but don't let them take the decision. Your future is in YOUR hands and your mates won't be there forever. Trust your gut feeling, not someone elses. Good luck

ArcticRomance 39M

1/2/2006 11:11 am

Know your own mind.Take advice sure, but always make your own decisions.You owe it to yourself.

longergirthy4u 52M
71 posts
1/6/2006 11:10 am

One question, "Would you really want to be with someone who allows other individuals to make important decisions for them ???" I wouldn't. >>> BC

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