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There Must be a F*cking Full Moon Out Tonight
There Must be a F*cking Full Moon Out Tonight
Usually I don't out people by posting thier messages on my blog or otherwise. But today I recieved two distinct messages from MEN who acted like complete assholes. Another woman on this site just posted a similar situation on her blog. I love men. Yes, I have been tricked, cheated, fooled, hurt, and otherwise by them. But I still love them. Men on this site wonder why women are antsy about meeting or simply go the route of turning it into a business transaction. It is because of things like this (his messages are in red; you have to read from the bottom up to get the full progression of the insanity):
Look at your profile...why should anyone really respect you? ...think about it.
> Sender: *********
> To: *********
> Date: Sep 5, 2005 8:17 PM CDT
> What was that anyway? Let me refresh you:
> 1) you used particular parts of of my anatomy as way to attack and humiliate me
> 2) you blatantly referred to me as STUPID
> 3) you admited that you intended to offend me.
> 4) you unfairly accused me of judging you
> 5) you assumed that because you make figures I should open my mind and legs to you.
> Anyone who accuses another of being stupid must consider themselves pretty smart. So what exactly was your brilliant plan with that e-mail?
> P.S. Sorry to dissapoint you with another non one-liner
> > ---------------------------------------------------
> > Sender: *********
> > To: *********
> > Date: Sep 5, 2005 88 PM CDT
> > Sorry to make you upset. I really am not the type to do
> > so Honey. And I will leave you alone. But my thoughts were only to try to talk to you. You reached out to me once...I was only reaching out to you. I am very Sorry... I truly would wish to talk more. But if I've mad you too mad...I guess that you will not write anymore. But Honey, it's true, you have always just been sending me one liner's. It was good to see something longer..even if it was a "mad at me' note. In anycase, Do take care. I'm a nice guy really...and I've been all over this world, I just want to meet a friend that I can tell all of my thoughts to and listen to All of her thoughts and we put it all together and make magic. Again, Sorry if I made you mad. Take Care,
> > > ---------------------------------------------------
> > > Sender: *********
> > > To: *********
> > > Date: Sep 5, 2005 7:45 PM CDT
> > >
> > > OK, your's is the second pissed off e-mail I recieved today. Read my latest post and you will understand my current situation, esp. with regards to e-mail. I thought that this message from you was particularly offensive. You could have stated it in a better way. I never thought that my "tits and ass" gave me a reason to judge others...I wouldn't even if I thought it was a reason. I could care less about how much you make, but you obviously DON'T know how to treat a woman. I think you should stop e-mailing me.
> > >
> > > How's that for a non-one liner.
> > > --------------------------------------------------
> > > > Sender: *********
> > > > To: *********
> > > > Date: Sep 5, 2005 7:37 PM CDT
> > > >
Honey...it's my work number...I only mean just don't give it out. Listen, I've been writing to you with the way that I feel...I've been very honest. Please don't just send me one-liner's about what is good for you or not. I'll move on. Your tits' and ass don't give you a reason to judge what I do. You're about to miss YOUR chance to meet a guy that makes 6-figures...is sweet and understanding and know how to treat a Women...if You're not smart enough to realized that....well, you'll be here on this site 10 years from now. Get Antsy...as you wish...but don't be Stupid. If I have offended you....well, you needed to be offended...Grow up. I'll look forward to your one-liner of ....
Date: Sep 5, 2005 6:38 PM CDT
I always get antsy about guys who say to "use their number wisely."
> > > > > > Sender: *********
> > > > > > To: *********
> > > > > > Date: Sep 5, 2005 6:31 PM CDT
> > > > > >
> > > > > > ...ps. If you want to call..just to talk...
So maybe you understand my current state of mind. I will be going to bed now, thank you very much!
9/5/2005 9:50 pm
hahahahaha....David is an idiot....good job putting him in his place.|
9/5/2005 11:18 pm
Thats some crazy shit. The dude would be better off paying for hookers if he has to act like this on a web site to meet women. He obviously has nothing more to offer if he had to throw how much he makes in a message just to get you to respond. After reading the messages, he almost seems like a stalker type anyways. I guess some people can't deal with the fact that no is the worst answer you can get from a female and keep it moving.|
9/6/2005 9:28 am
Frogger--That guy is a loser. Just stick with those of us who appreciate you and realize you can't tell about a person over the internet. Having met you, I can say he is 100% wrong. You are smart, fun and he's really losing out on a possible good time. Don't throw the baby out with the bath water. Stick with us and delete those type of emails. Life's too short to put up with an a*#h*&$ like that.|
9/6/2005 1:35 pm
It would seem that email and blogs are a good tool to help sort the wheat from the chaff.
I'd say it is a fairly shallow person who would discuss his income with anyone with whom he is not intimately involved with (discussing marriage). And if he makes six figures, why wouldn't he at least have a special cell phone for the ladies to call - one that he can turn off when he is not "available?" For God's sake, cell phones are not very expensive.
Oh well, just that much more of a buffer for the good guys at the top.
9/6/2005 7:30 pm
In my opinion, rudeness has no place regardless of the situation. If I would react to every woman that has sent me a "one liner" my liver would be wasted right now.|
As discouraging as it may be (to get one liners or not get any lines at all), I think that's a clear message of lack of interest and it should be understood as such, then move on.
Personally, I've tried to make contact with a few women. One of them replied a kind message thanking me for my comments and making clear that she was looking for something rather near to her location. I replied back thanking her for responding to my e-mail and wishing her all the best. Another lady replied saying that she was willing to communicate further. So, I contacted her again and then nothing... two weeks later, I sent another e-mail just to make sure she wanted to communicate or at least to know where we were standing. I got an almost identical reply (only one word changed) and the message seemed more like an automatic reply. My take on that person? Rude and without the courtesy of saying "hey, thanks but no thanks." That's all it takes, at least for me but I understand that only too often, some people don't take rejection very lightly.
Whatever the reason, there is no place for rudeness from anybody. Nothing here gives us the right to be an ass to another human being.
9/6/2005 9:48 pm
Block him .This guy has lost his way and to be honest he souns a little bit crazy.Bye|
9/7/2005 1:50 am
Apparently, there are many men who think that they can seduce ladies by insulting them... it is a rather original and utterly stupid point of view.|
9/7/2005 1:51 am
quote Look at your profile...why should anyone really respect you? ...think about it.
Because you are a human being, for instance?
9/7/2005 3:27 am
If fucktard earns >$100K, then why does he write at a 5th grade level?|