The Saga Continues  

frogger1995 39F
4342 posts
1/31/2006 5:23 am

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The Saga Continues

OK...I was perfectly willing to keep everything confidential. I never out my dates unless they truly deserve it (read: What) Thus, I am only really making myself look bad...or good as may be the case.

Many of you who read back far enough to my recent Mr. Yin and Mr. Yang post will know that the infamous Mr. Punish decided to out himself. I certainly have no problem with this...after all what's good for the goose is good for the gander. Since I air my own dirty laundry I shouldn’t be offended when someone else does.

So now you know who he is. Most of you who read his comments will note that I was right on in my description of him. He is stubborn and petulant. He is the one my inner devil would like. BTW he assured me (after I personally ripped him a new one) the incident with the stripper took place several years was only posted to prove a point.

BUT he is a lot more sincere and accommodating in person.

Right now you are probably thinking "when will women ever learn???" I would too if I were you. But I know myself better than anyone else. I am not diving into his arms head first eyes blind to all of his faults. But I see no reason why I should not take him up on his offer to fly me out (renewed once again) to L.A. for a good time...and see where it goes.

Completely understanding his point of view that anyone would be upset after sending a rather serious love letter only to find out that the recipient fucked another man the next week...I will make certain compromises. He too has promised to make a number of changes to appease me.

As for Mr. Nice Guy, that is a different story. I like him a lot, but it was established early on that he was in no way ready for a serious relationship. That is perfectly fine with me...he is a very nice and very fun guy to hang out with all the same. And no...I am not "settling" on Mr. Punish because of that.

So now you know almost everything. Certainly not the soap opera everyone is making it out to be.

P.S. Mr. Nice Guy will most likely NOT be outing himself...that is what makes him Mr. Nice Guy.

Things to Be Happy About:

Howard Dean (Sigggghhhh!)
Washing Hair
Pretty Tissue Paper
My Mom

im_your_man77 39M
961 posts
1/31/2006 6:38 am

Can't say that I noticed Mr Punish outing himself, I've not being following it that closely, I like to read here when I can but lately with business stuff I haven't had the time to follow it all. What I will say is this I have been following your blog off and on for a while now, sometimes I comment, sometimes I don't, usually I won't bother unless I think I have something worth saying, you have enough comments to read and reply to as it is. What I have found whilst reading your blog is that you have been refreshingly honest, fair and respectful when writing your blog. As for the soap opera...who cares? Personally I like to take people at face value until their own words or actions suggest otherwise. I and everyone else around these parts have no right to judge anyone else therefore I don't pay any heed to what others are saying and neither should they. I have been reading your blog for long enough now that I almost feel like you are a friend, strange really since we haven't ever talked. With friendship comes a respect for who you are but even if I didn't consider you a friend I would still respect you enough for to get on with your life as you choose without me making anything of it, unless you asked for my opinion on something. So ignore the soap opera, there is no reason for you to explain yourself just continue to be honest with yourself and fair and respectful to others.

8321 posts
1/31/2006 6:39 am

When will you ever learn?

On the contrary, you DO NOT know yourself better than anyone else.

You are not objective in self-analysis, therefore your bias precludes you from being real with yourself to any credible degree.

Most people never really know themselves, and if so, they usually only muster the courage to do so in their later years. Self-actualization is alot harder than even you can understand.


"My every move is a calculated step, to bring me closer to embrace an early death." -Tupac Shakur

luvyourtitties 50M
53 posts
1/31/2006 6:49 am

"Settling" ? I dont think so. We all know you hold all the cards. The brains, the body, and expecially an incredible insight to life.

You will have a new job soon (I have no doubts), two very different guys in your life that both give you something you desire, and a whole life in front of you.


maverick19605 59
53 posts
1/31/2006 6:52 am


You certainly are going into it with your eyes wide open. So, if this is what you, I hope it works out for you. Have fun in LA.


007sexy40plus 51F  
7603 posts
1/31/2006 8:50 am

He may never admit it but I think Mr. Punish cares more than he is letting on. Why do I say that? Because a man who no one knew the identity of, came and publicly revealed himself after feeling slighted. If he did not care he would have laughed and moved on without ever revealing anything. He may act like he doesn't give a damn, but he really does. I see through that facade.

Follow your heart, dear lady...

I am the real deal! "Come Get Me!!!"

Jobe00 42M
211 posts
1/31/2006 1:07 pm

*hugs* Only thing I can say here, Froggie, is that I hope you have a good time in LA.

I also hope you hear back about your job soon.

Sorceror07 54M

1/31/2006 1:54 pm

when in doubt, flip a coin... it works for me, ...well,usually works that is great thing about that method... if it comes up tails and you feel you really wanted heads...guess what? can still pick heads... it's really a nice decisive process... forces you to choose, providing of course you want to that is.

...That which does not kill me merely pisses me off!...


1/31/2006 2:01 pm

mamma mia... sei stupenda... se mi vuoi contattare ilgrandenikkiocciolaliberopuntoit

kitchenfun1234 44M
1797 posts
1/31/2006 2:48 pm

hmmm the plot thickens...... I'm with straightten2002 on this one.
Mr Nasty also writes a damn fine post. Clearly a brain in operation there that puts him leagues above some of the no-brains guys on here.

Don't ever give up searching for the fun in life.

craptoast 39M

1/31/2006 3:57 pm

hmm. i'd fly you out to buffalo easy, but, who the hell would want to come out to buffalo? anyway, i'm rooting for punish. well, not rooting for him, but i think just on the little i've seen here and there, he's the man for you. but you'll do whatever's best. nobody knows ourselves like ourselves.

gnr8nrg 45M

1/31/2006 6:32 pm

Thank you Frogger, I enjoyed going back and reading it. I hadn't seen what he wrote until now. He's a dominant male looking for a submissive female. Sounds pretty normal for those roles, but not my style. I'm glad you're coming back to L.A. and if you leave the windows open again. I might actually see ya. Have fun, but I'm sure you will.

ChimpanzeeMe 45M
12 posts
1/31/2006 6:37 pm

I do not know you, therefore, I should not judge you. I think you are brilliant; however, you seem to have lost control of yourself in this blog. You appear to be justifying your actions. Do you need our consent? it important to you for us to either talk you out of it or into it? Personally, and I probably have no right telling you this, you should dumped both these guys and find someone new. You are a very special person and should give yourself what you deserve. You really can find and have what you want.

rm_PurryKitty2 48M/49F
9753 posts
2/1/2006 4:03 am

I agree with Straighten!

Purry {=}

Good luck sweetie


8321 posts
2/2/2006 12:52 am


That was precisly my point when I said she doesn't know herself. Anyone who needs affirmation so as to justify said decisions, doesn't truly have a firm grasp of who she is or what she wants.

Eliciting responses from strangers on a website no less, has me doubting her true resolve.


"My every move is a calculated step, to bring me closer to embrace an early death." -Tupac Shakur

rm_corezon 53F
3376 posts
2/5/2006 1:49 pm

Agree with Straightten and Kitchen -- he's being straight up...don't see anything wrong with calling an eye and your own instincts more than everybody elses...and from the little I see of you in your blog I don't see you being satisfied with a Mama's boy for long...

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