frogger1995 39F
4342 posts
9/5/2005 3:14 pm

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Today I received a message from the male half of a couple who had invited me to join their network. He basically told me to leave his network if I had no interest in meeting with or chatting with him, pretty much accusing me of either being too lazy to decline his invitation or simply wanting to collect as many people as possible in my own network. This is a man who asked me to join his network only 2 days ago.

Let me start by saying that I accept all invites to join networks; not because I want to collect as many as possible, but because I assume they are interested in looking at my album, which I am happy to share. What else is a network good for?

Let me also state that as of right now I have over 1200 messages in my mail box from the last 30 days alone. I have yet to even read 50 of the filtered messages (San Antonio set me back). I am not stating this to be a show-off. I am explaining why it is that I don’t respond right away, especially if I don’t think I would be interested. Even if I am declining someone, it takes time to read through a message, figure out a nice way to decline (since I am not the type to say simply thanks, but no thanks), and respond. If I responded to every message I got I would have no time for anything else on this site; and, I’m sorry, but I didn’t join to spend my time responding to e-mails.

Finally, let me state that I have been on a bit of a hiatus. I had a somewhat bad experience earlier and it kind of turned me off for a while. I now realize that part of my decision to take a break was due to hormones. It is now THAT time of the month and I am horny as hell (like I was exactly a month ago during my wild phase). Not to worry, I have an IUD. ,That said, I have decided to get back in the game, but in a much more sensible manner (read my new profile).

As for the couple, I am no longer in their network. I refuse to deal with pushy, impatient, demanding, and non-understanding individuals (or couples).

StCloudCouple4 44M/44F

9/5/2005 5:43 pm

I am sorry you had such an idiot. Hope the rest of the rest of the day goes better

frogger1995 39F

9/5/2005 6:21 pm

Thanks stCloudCouple4. It's been prettty mixed today. All of a sudden I recieved several detailed messages from men (very nice). And one lousy retort from another man, pissed off because I gave him a "one-liner" even though it was positive.

Greenguy96 43M

9/5/2005 6:45 pm

Sorry to hear about it, it sound like the guy is selfish, I, kind of understand, I never have time to go one line to read blogs or e-mail, never mind 1200 of them.

big1atfortpolk 36M

9/5/2005 6:55 pm

ya, people just cant be satisfied now a days. At least he recieved a message back, even if it was just one line. I have yet to recieve even that, but I understand how busy you can be. People like that arent even worth dealing with. I'm just glad to be in your network. Love the pics, and the blogs.

onelittlesecret 33M
1579 posts
9/5/2005 7:10 pm

Yikes! 1,200? It's a good thing they don't proposition you on here...



Man, I wish there was some way to get I could invite you to my network...

toothysmile 50M
16515 posts
9/5/2005 7:20 pm

Aah, frogger, the price of popularity!
Not to worry; after all, in the end, it's their loss- not yours...
Have a wonderful day, I 'll keep an eye on your blog.

CaboWaboVHnut 56M
637 posts
9/6/2005 2:41 am

Frogger, AHHHH ! This good old world, and some of the jerks & assholes in it !!! Good decision to re-enter in a more sensible manner. Take your time, try to ignore the jerks. While it's hard not to get upset when someone is nasty to you, it's better if you can let it go. All the time we spend being upset only eats away at us, the jerks don't suffer or lose precious time, we do !!! Peace !!! Cabo !!!

onelittlesecret 33M
1579 posts
9/6/2005 2:17 pm

I feel a little guilty about the decidedly one-sided exchange, but thanks!
Actually I do have a half dozen new pictures ready (and they're pretty decent), except my computer went dead last night.

Best wishes beautiful.

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