Older vs. Younger  

frogger1995 39F
4342 posts
8/30/2005 7:44 pm

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Older vs. Younger

Tonight I met with Mr. Married again. He was of course a true gentleman once again and was very understanding of my current dilemma concerning my recent self-inflicted guilt trip. He was happy just to spend time with me (so he said) and we had a wonderful, frank, and interesting conversation over dinner. I won't go into details (between us) but afterwards I found out that he was 49 years old, making him the oldest man I have met with on this site.

This made me think back to the 24 year old who asked me which hotel I preferred when we set up a meeting (which he later stood me up on and had the nerve to call the next week to "finish what we started" ).

I have noticed a definite difference between the way younger men act and the way older men act. This posting is a blatant generalization based on these differences (yes I know there are exceptions. This is not a scientific study for Pete's sake!).

Younger Men:
*see no problem calling you when drunk at 1:30 in the morning to confirm plans for the next night.
*Make you feel like you know what the hell you are doing
*Are surprisingly good in bed
*Are less likely to pay for dinner or even coffee
*Usually have fantastic bodies
*Usually want nothing but to get to the point
*Usually have much more free time
*Are shorter on foreplay and clueless on cuddling
*Are great for quickies and other versions of the "booty call"
*Usually have fun things like play station, big screen TVs, and fast cars

Older Men:
*Still hold on to a sense of chivalry even with someone they meet on AdultFriendFinder
*Are a lot more liberal with their money
*Are surprisingly experimental
*Usually have "obligations" that get in the way of a good time (marriage, family, work, etc.)
*Find your company almost as good as simply getting to the point.
*Are more likely to have bodies that time has caught up with
*Are more likely to be into pleasing a woman
*Seem to love cuddling and foreplay
*Always ask what you want
*Understand the meaning of conversation

I know I am bound to get a shit storm over this one. But Mr. Married really blew my mind tonight, especially in contrast to some other men. Once again this is simply my observations based on the men that I have met or communicated with from this site. Once again, I KNOW there are exceptions so please don't feel the need to remind me of this.

the1forthenight 33M
55 posts
8/31/2005 8:20 am

There are always expectations to the rule, but I'm not going to be the first to make a post to remind you of that. The generalization of you observation really just boils down to the advice that the men you have run into have been given and how they have been treated in other relationships by women. Or you could also say that the two are actually no different because at one point the older men were the younger men. They have already learn from the mistakes that us (as I am 22) younger men will make whether they are big ones to the little shit that matters the most. Besides young or old there really is nothing like holding a woman in your arms whether there is sex or not. And any man who reads my reply and thinks other wise is lying their ass off.

bigman48002 60M
19 posts
8/31/2005 12:37 pm

Sounds like Mr Married really has got you intrigued. He sounds like a nice man. Does he meet you wearing a cape and a big "M" on his chest? Can't wait for the blog the next time you two meet.
Age may play a factor in some of things you mentioned. But I believe it comes down to the person. So you met through a sex site. That doesn't mean that the woman should be treated any differently. Yes I am in the "older" category, but if a young man will think with the right head, he too can have some of the same qualities of how to treat(and please) a woman as us old farts do. And that's not saying we can't keep up with the younger crowd in bed either(even without viagra). You're as old as you feel. I do think though the diversity is good for you. You probably need some more research. Keep up the interesting blogs.

mustang65695 57M
54 posts
8/31/2005 3:06 pm

Some Great points! Sounds like your looking for more experiences from older men.

MrNuttz05 49M

8/31/2005 6:08 pm

I agree with "theoneforthenight" 100%... And I am on the older side, 37, I think that's considered older. No, I am not older! Are you calling me old???? What's the cutoff point between old & young? No, just kidding, all points are valid on this topic. Nice guys come youthful & with wisdom. And, unfortunately, so do assholes....

rm_unlistedone 65M
2718 posts
9/3/2005 1:48 am

Interesting points...
I have to say, for myself, I don't feel any older now than I did when I was your age. Obviously, I've learned a lot through experience and time. But that was because I've always been "open to learn." I was fortunate to be taught how to please as a young man... and to make every experience the best that it can possibly be. Find out what she enjoys... and do it!

Manners, and respect for a person in my upbringing, were taught until they were an absolute habit. I still hold doors, pick up the tab, and say thank you "ma'am" even to the young lady at McDonalds. It's just the correct way of doing things, in my opinion.
So, guys who are younger than I, understand that reaching forty or fifty isn't the end. It is still just as good... maybe even better. But always be open to learning. A lot of learning is "listening" to what your partner is saying, and not what you are saying. (Hitch, in the movie, was right about that.)

onelittlesecret 33M
1579 posts
9/3/2005 2:52 pm

If only you could find a young guy who could blow your mind...

rm_onelove885 30M
1 post
12/3/2005 8:16 pm

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