Men, You Can  

frogger1995 39F
4342 posts
2/24/2006 3:33 pm

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Men, You Can

It is a well known fact that women who spend too much time around each other eventually begin to parallel each other’s cycle. One of those freak of nature things that no one can explain.

I have noticed, since joining this site, that the men I am around also seem to follow a certain cycle. In this case I suppose I am the freak of nature at work. Either way, they have their up periods and their down periods.

By this I mean they are either making me feel all warm and fuzzy about them, or they are driving me absolutely bonkers, swearing off men forever. When one of them is good they are all good. When one of them is bad, they are all bad. Sometimes I feel like my cup runneth over with offers to meet, phone calls just to say hi, invitations for dinner, sweet talk etc., etc. other times I feel like I have been completely abandoned.

This week has certainly been a down period. It has taken all my strength not to succumb to what I now know is simply a cyclical phase. That of course did not stop me from going off on Mr. Punish in my usual torrid manner. Nor did it stop me from completely ignoring Mr. Nice Guy in a most likely unsuccessful and purile attempt at pay-back. Nor did it stop me from deliberately poking a stick at a sleeping lion in Mr. Anonymous (a new one) just to get him riled up, so I would have an excuse to be mad at him.

I guess I have yet to learn what all men who grow up around women know…during that time of the month it is best just to leave them alone and let them get over it.

Things to be Happy About:

People Who At Least Pretend To Care
An Office With A Door
Random Acts of Kindness
Little Golden Books
Glitter Glue

8321 posts
2/24/2006 4:52 pm

Lil' Frogger....

Don't diss Mr. Punish......because I know for certain that he, like I, would give you payback.

Maybe not now, or a week from now.....but later, it will come back to you. Most likely in the form of sexual aggression. Mr. Punish is animalistic and raw, he doesn't self-examine so much as he enacts his will. If you push, he will push back......harder. Not in the way you might expect, but it will be manifested at some point.


"My every move is a calculated step, to bring me closer to embrace an early death." -Tupac Shakur

rm_VoodooGuru1 49M
2053 posts
2/24/2006 5:05 pm

Hey... have I ever said anything kind to you? Seems like it's just been sharp, witty volleys back and forth.

I think you're a strikingly beautiful woman; but I'm attracted to your knowledge and intelligence. Your concern for others - for human value - is wicked sexy too.

LustyTaurus 48M  
21253 posts
2/24/2006 5:28 pm

LMAO...I'll never change on you Frogger, for example, today, I really want to stick my face in your tits, the same as yesterday and the day before and I'm sure I'll feel this way well into the forseeable future.

How's that for behavior you can count on?

Other than that, I hope you are doing well, and I can see by your return, that your hope in "man"kind, has least temporarily.


2xmrclean 58M

2/24/2006 5:44 pm

Get the hell out the way I nice, it passes in 7 days. rest of the time is just peaches n cream.... lol 2x

frogger1995 39F

2/24/2006 5:50 pm

DIVISION77: Yes, but the question is...will that be a bad thing?

VoodooGuru1: I'm not worthy!!!!

2xmrclean: I guess this weekend should be safe then.

maverick19605 59
53 posts
2/24/2006 6:02 pm

Geez, Frogger, not to be nasty or anything but it sounds like you're PMS-ing on us Poor Innocent Guys (a.k.a. PIGs). That's uncharacteristic of you. If I were there, I'd have to spank you for being so mean.

rm_Sylent72 44M

2/24/2006 7:11 pm

Damn us men..damn us all! You know..I truly believe men have some sort of cycle. It may not be physical but it has to be emotional or psychological or something. Right now I am a good example!

Tala4u2 53M  
2957 posts
2/24/2006 7:15 pm

Can't speak for other men only myself in my day to day life I treat women in one of two ways depending on my relationship with them those that are just acquaintances and those who are lovers. The girls in the latter get a more attentive and caring ear or direct and open conduit with me in communicating or doing things together. I don't feel intin=midated or angered by either type of woman if they have a vent at me and try my best to respond at their level.

Women on blogs are totally different it is purely a medium of communication so I just read and comment as I feel at the time without fear or favour.

Nice post Frogger it was enjoyable.

Tala, Wizard of The Kingdom of BooBoBia, DEITY,

im_curious_4u 50M

2/24/2006 7:57 pm

That's what garages are for, a place to hide from women.

LustyTaurus 48M  
21253 posts
2/24/2006 8:13 pm

Hey Frogger...I was crass in my first comment, by design, and I was playing...certainly meant no offense.

Take Care.

Nightguy_1961 55M
4866 posts
2/24/2006 8:53 pm

Hey...we all go through such cycles. There are times where I feel like I'm the pigeon...and then there are times I feel like I'm the statue!!

Just keep on pluggin' away...that's what makes life a roller coaster - It never gets boring.


gnr8nrg 45M

2/24/2006 9:20 pm

I'll stay away for the weekend, because I'll be a work. According to my ex's I'm moody all the time, so "watch out." Sometimes you can't leave them alone, because then we don't care. "Yes dear," seems to work for me.

Lookinforsex649 52M
182 posts
2/24/2006 10:20 pm

How about an office with a door, a corporate desk and a view----all yours to be happy about. Then you can finish that business suit set.

F1reman6969 49M

2/24/2006 11:00 pm

we're supposed to ignore women at a certain time of the month?

reverend21 49M
1913 posts
2/24/2006 11:27 pm

women have a bad time of the month, your kidding right, guess that explains the bite marks last ful moon.

kitchenfun1234 44M
1797 posts
2/25/2006 8:20 am

The male cycle is drink/night-out related. Boys that drink together get hung-over if the lads in an office go on a binge drinking session they will all feel rough the next day and that will reflect in all their other activities. The only exception will be the poor sod that offered to be the designated driver for the night.

PS Nice to see you're gold

Don't ever give up searching for the fun in life.

frogger1995 39F

2/25/2006 10:30 am

maverick19605: Uncharacteristic of should know me better. But perhaps I should give them a break.

Sylent72: And you guys pick on least we have a hormonal excuse!

Tala4u2: Yeah but admit it...either type will eventually get under your skin.

im_curious_4u" LOL...but I have no garage! I guess my bedroom will have to do.

LustyTaurus: None taken...but which comment are you talking about.

Nightguy_1961: lol...I feel ya there. I guess it workd both ways.

gnr8nrg: Ahhhh...."Yes dear" the good old fail-safe!

Lookinforsex649: That would be aiming too high. Right now I have an office with a door underground....I just moved up to an office with a door on the first floor....maybe the next move will give me a window.

F1reman6969" Oh will you ever survive on this site.

reverend21: bite marks? You got out lucky!

kitchenfun1234: Happy to be gold! One in LA, one in Dallas, one in Houston...all drinking the same night. Sad but it is completely plausible.

bullseyetou 62M
175 posts
2/25/2006 1:31 pm

frogger - boys will b boys - men will b men

Tala4u2 53M  
2957 posts
2/25/2006 2:03 pm

Frogger I have thought about your reply. And came up with this answer; I have yet to meet a woman who has got under my skin! Mind you I am intriqued and it has only been 5 mins of think so far hahaha I think I may while away some more time musing on that. Aaah I love the interactive aspect of blogging

Tala, Wizard of The Kingdom of BooBoBia, DEITY,

singlequietone 67M
232 posts
2/26/2006 10:42 am

Hi Frogger,
Well, I'm taking a chance or risk here by mentioning this. I escaped. I try to be one of those individuals that wants to be positive with you ALL the time and to keep you in that frame of mind. I like you in the warm and fuzzy mold, I realize you are a very fiesty one when you want to be. But my preference is nice to nice with me.----Now that you can put up your pictures again, will you let me choose a couple for you(my favorites)?--------- Luv Ya --------

downinlove2 53M

2/26/2006 6:30 pm

We all have our moods and cycles. Women, who are together often at work or home will find their cycles synchronize. Thus fertility as well becomes more synchronous. This ancient behavior allowed a group, tribe if you will: adjust their food gathering habits and labor distribution to accommodate a new group of babies within the fold. As it would be very draining on a group to have new children arrive at random intervals.
Well I find my mood can adjust to my ladies as well, besides the in your face thing that’s happens here and there. When the red flags flying i can get kind of grumpy. Though it's only natural for people to rub off on each other mood wise. Where is that research study that shows that sex during a woman’s period can relax her, reduce inflammation and pain and well. improve the mood. Takes getting used to I guess.


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