It Was Nice While it Lasted But Now...  

frogger1995 39F
4342 posts
12/11/2005 7:03 am

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It Was Nice While it Lasted But Now...

I think I’m going back to nature. No more waxing, plucking or shaving. I may trim a little bit, but my pubic hair is coming back…for good. Prior to joining this site I was au natural. None of my prior mates had ever uttered a word about it, one even thought it was particularly fun. I thought I could hold my on and still get some play. Now I’m sure I could have been covered in body hair from head to toe on this site and still got some action. But eventually the peer pressure wore me down. My patch of fur, though quite alluring to me, was an anomaly. It stuck out like that kid in grade school with red hair, freckles, glasses, and about 20 extra pounds of weight. At least that’s what it made me feel like.

So I decided to take the plunge, beginning with self-mutilation (in a manner of speaking). I used what I was most familiar with, my trusty Venus Razor. On your legs you are supposed to shave against the direction the hair is growing, to get the closest shave. So, again, I went with what I was familiar with. I shaved upwards. Then when that didn’t work, I tried downwards, sideways, diagonal. At one point I’m sure I was even doing the loop-de-loop. I tugged at my skin to stretch it out. I positioned each leg every which way. I tried standing, then sitting, then lying down. Eventually I got it all off to my satisfaction. I was quite please with the results…until a week later when it started to grow back

At first there was the tingling. Then the horrible itching. Then the burning. Finally the bumps. Having never interfered with that area before, I had no idea what was going on. After a thorough search of the internet I was absolutely certain I had herpes, which every site I looked at assured me was “often confused with razor bumps.” I mean statistically speaking one of the men I had fucked had to have had it. I was being punished for my sins.

Fortunately an Adult Friend of mine offered to help me out by taking a look-see. He assured me that what I had was most likely razor burn. He became absolutely certain of it when described my shaving procedure…after a good and hearty laugh of course.

That was when I decided to try my hand at waxing. Of course I didn’t do it myself, I forked over 50 big ones (not including tip) to have an expert do it. It took all of 5 minutes, which shocked the hell out of me. I left a little bitty patch just so I wouldn't feel a complete loss. Did it hurt? Hell yes. But after it was all over each injured follicle was completely worth it when I finally left the spa. I had refrained from wearing underwear because I wasn’t sure what kind of residue would be left over. J_____, the expert, thought this was funny…but she got paid all the same, so she really didn’t care if I showed up in my birthday suit.

It lasted a good and hearty month before a few strands began to make their reappearance. Not bad I thought. Until I learned that, while waxing may prevent razor bumps, they don’t prevent ingrown hairs. Once again I was certain that I had herpes. This time I decided to get verification from my gynecologist. Each new bump meant a new “urgent” appointment, until she finally dictated that I: 1) stop looking so hard and 2) for goodness sakes STOP LOOKING ON THE INTERNET.

When it all grew back, I began to miss that feeling of raw air uninhibitedly hitting my pussy. So I went again, forking over yet another 50 dollars (plus tip). This time I got it all taken off. Which is a good thing because this one is currently in its regrowth phase, and it is growing back evenly. Actually it’s quite perfect right now. I have been assured of this by a secondary source as well . It’s what many might call “trimmed” There is enough to know it’s there but not so much that it gets in the way of other activities.

I look forward to having it back again. I used to love twirling my fingers through it late at night. Giving it its own personal shampoo job. Even running a brush over it now and again. Looking in the mirror without it felt odd. Now I feel complete.

Things to be Happy About:

Big Warm Scarves
Colorful Tulle
Saving Energy
Colorful Stickpins

im_your_man77 39M
961 posts
12/11/2005 8:21 am

Ahh the joy of discovery that self mutilation and self diagnosis does not pay.
Personally I've never had a problem with auu naturale as long as she was hygenic, and if she wasn't hygenic I sure as hell wasn't going there anyway.
I was encouraged to shave for an ex once, I swear it itched for the longest 3 weeks of my life. Never, ever again! Trim maybe, shave NO!!!

truckers4love 58M

12/11/2005 8:48 am

Ah, the things we do to ourselves to please others. I like au natural and it's not as rare as you may think. As long as you are happy with it, who cares. Almost all of the men that would want you "clean and smooth" wouldn't let a razor within ten feet of the twins. A womens beauty is not in her pubic hair and if you are not comfortable and always trying to second guess the conditions down there, how can you concetrate on just being sexy, which is what you are.

im_curious_4u 50M

12/11/2005 10:26 am

It's your sexy body, so do what you please.

trustno01 55M  
2364 posts
12/11/2005 11:05 am

Personally I like the shaved look. But I can understand your issues with shaving, etc. But, if there is an interest to go back I recommend a laser treatment. You can now have it done and not worry about the continous shaving and bumps. Just a thought to keep in mind.

reaper78664 44M

12/11/2005 12:34 pm

The natural or trimmed looks are the best in my book. There's nothing like getting your face tickled as you're going down on her.

BuxomFrau 44

12/11/2005 12:44 pm

I'm with you on being natual. I love the look and feel of it. Welcome home.

Jobe00 42M
211 posts
12/11/2005 1:06 pm

You could always shell out the cash for laser treatment. I do believe that is permanent. I don't think it's painful, but it does take several sessions to get it done.

My only suggestion is to just keep your bush trimmed and neat. Nothing wrong with that at all.

intoolderwomen 40M

12/11/2005 1:16 pm


hammer11292 45M/48F
1 post
12/11/2005 1:17 pm

Yes it looks very nice trimed etc. in the picture and inviting.(Wink,Wink) But I feel you should do what is most comfortable for you because after all it is your body and YOUR the one that has to deal with all the effects. This may seem wierd coming from a male but in the end it is your bodie and if the other person truly cares he'll either accept it and deal with it or he isn't worth your time. After all if he can't accept that, what else is he going to cause drama over. You should should be what ever and how ever you want to be and be proud of that and if others can't accept it, then they should move on. Hope you enjoy the new you.

WildWon1982 34M

12/11/2005 1:34 pm

I shave myself, mostly for comfort reasons, but honestly I'm among the guys that don't give a damn. If I were with you, I'd be diving into that muff whether it was shaved, or so big that it looked like a second set of hair panties.

*stops and wonders at what point I go from funny to disturbing and gross, then realize I don't care*

TalonDuddyTonks 47M
659 posts
12/11/2005 3:38 pm

In the end it is your body and you have to do what is most comfortable and best for you. Personally, I prefer a woman to be shaved or at least trimmed, keeps you from having to pull a hair from your mouth at the most inopportune of course, having stated my preference, it certainly is not a deal breaker!

Greenguy96 43M

12/11/2005 5:13 pm

I'm told waxing hurts like hell! But don't worry, Many guys like hair. And I don't have a single friends that complained about too much hair.

Nocturnal_Stoner 31M

12/11/2005 5:18 pm

sexxxaayyy au natural is THE WAY to go!

ptfreak 55M

12/11/2005 6:32 pm

Do what you want. Besides, I love the way it tickles my nose.

craptoast 39M

12/11/2005 6:41 pm

if i quit my job and fly out to texas for a week, do you want to have lunch? i'm just curious.

the1forthenight 33M
55 posts
12/11/2005 7:35 pm

You know what, since I've been having sex I have yet to see a bush. This is the only bush that I will always agree with and I can accept smirking at me (when you view it sideways).


MillsShipsGayly 51M

12/11/2005 7:47 pm

au natural

deesmith1234 38M
8 posts
12/11/2005 9:55 pm

The shaved look is definitely hot for you, but I would recommend getting a set of hair or beard clippers and trimming down with that. I guarantee that u won't get any bumps if u use that.

rm_koogel0on 31M
1 post
12/11/2005 11:20 pm

please agree me AdultFriendFinder or anybody only womans

rm_hakian2 39M
2 posts
12/12/2005 3:28 am


KMA5 40M
771 posts
12/12/2005 6:08 am

Those are good ideas: beard trimmer or natural. I think the lazer treatment isn't permamnent though, just lasts a lot longer. They also have a kit for $60 that lets you wax at home. I tried it before with my ex and even as amatuer waxers, we did a good job. Pus they last as long as the professional jobs and you get an extra use out of it.
I know you have that adventurous, try-anything-once spirit so I'm sure you will do it eventually .

jakblack36 48M

12/12/2005 6:57 am

Oh HEll YES!!! Start a fuckin movement I love pussy hair..not hirsute trimmed is fine. I posted about this on my blog..I want pussy hair back..!!!

Polo32577 39M

12/12/2005 8:03 am

hey i think u are right when you say that it doesn't matter if it was bushy, trimed or naked, you would still be able to get a peace....i agree with those people telling you that what ever feels most comfortable to you is the way u should keep with your beauty and your great personality and humor do u thing any guy period whould care about how bushy or naked it maybe?? Personally i know i wouldn't.....

GenuaFoursHangs 53M
96 posts
12/12/2005 9:29 am

Hey Frogger,

I guess I never understood why women felt the need to completely shave within the last 10 to 15 years? Maybe for you it was the free flowing air thing?

I ran a Blog about that some months ago as well, and got pretty much a 50/50 split. To each their own.

I for one, enjoy a woman with with some hair down there................trimmed or not trimmed. Just me.

Did you say that you needed some help with that?


TTigerAtty 62M

12/12/2005 5:28 pm

Frogger, girl...

You are so honest, bawdy and irreverently funny! There is seemingly no subject you won't tackle!

It seems we have something in common! Yes! I decided to let my whiskers grow out about 5 days ago. Starting to look like a scruffy billy goat! Have never had to suffer through that waxing thing or much less shaving down there in those lower regions .... thank God!

Your photo is very nice and it appears to be that everything is growing back very, very nicely!

All the best!


plezurehead 40M
1 post
12/12/2005 7:15 pm

I don't know about au natural,but trimmed is just as inviting as shaved.You want to look like a women not a little girl. I love playing w\ my girlz landing strip when we're just chillin'.

gnr8nrg 46M

12/12/2005 8:03 pm

Frogger, if you were still in L.A. I'd wax you for free. I posted about a friend I use to wax, and it was motivated by one of your posts. It's called, "An experience to remember." As far as ingrown hairs, I shave myself more than I wax. I thought my first ingrown was prostate cancer. So I understand the WTF factor after the fact. I actually have an ingrown right now and I'm thinking of just trimming myself as well.

singlequietone 67M
232 posts
12/12/2005 10:38 pm

What ever you decide to do, go for it! I really know about the problem of itching when it grows back, and the uncomfortable ingrown hairs. I'd love you regardless of your choice. You are really sumpin', glad you're in a good mood today. Luv Ya.

TheNaughtiestElf 106M
23 posts
12/12/2005 11:48 pm

Grow it long ~ match the hair in my ears

blacksexynerd 45M

12/13/2005 4:17 am

I'm glad you're being yourself. It really should be about what you feel comfortable with, not you trying to compete with whatever you see on the site or what others ask you to do.

frogger1995 39F

12/13/2005 5:34 am

Well it appears as though it doesn't matter after all. When it grows back nice and proper I shall indeed trim. Hopefully that will please the masses. I may even take a picture

Lawrence_Wolf 34M

12/15/2005 5:28 am

Ah I dunno. A clean shaven pussy is just so much more desirable and fucking hot to eat! God I love it. But then again I started off with non-shaven pussies so thats no biggy. I guess either way its fine. Although now and then you'll have a hair in your mouth. Hehe.

And as far as the shaving method is concerned... yes you will get a rash if you shave wrong. I as a male shave too. I only started about two years ago. It makes the women enjoy the blow job more because of also NO hair in the mouth. I haven't had a rash problem once since the day I started shaving. My girlfriend shaves too and I'm crazy about it. It allows me to kiss and lick where the hair normally would be, where thats one of the spots you can't do that unless its shaven.

And as far as herpes is concerned... you should know your partner you go to bed with. Should never just simply jump into bed with someone. I have done that myself I know, but not for quite some time already, and I realised that its wrong. And it shouldn't be done for one simple and only reason you need: If you care about yourself you will be careful with yourself. And the thing is you can NEVER be too careful.

Take care girl.
Happy to know you are still living , sexy, hot and mouthwatering.

daddy23002 32M
6 posts
12/15/2005 7:02 am

your pussy looks so nice sorry for the strong word. i love a women who shave it keeps the hair from out of my mouth

daddy23002 32M
6 posts
12/15/2005 7:03 am

your pussy looks so nice sorry for the strong word. i love a women who shave it keeps the hair from out of my mouth get at me at AdultFriendFinder

rm_JAZZNO 38M/39F
1 post
12/15/2005 9:50 pm

I understand where you coming's really hard on the beggining of shaving.As brasilian woman,i get used to it and do not have a problem with that. I shave because a health condition that doesn't allow me to wax like, pretty much every brasilian...and i do because I feel better and "cleaner" and i feel my husband's touch and tongue much more...I understand your point baby, but for us..we like feel the lips not hair...if the lips are toohairy...sorry, we are not going there...and to be frank, even the smell of a shaved pussy is diferrent on the end of a day. that's simple..Hair (any)keeps smells:from cigarretes, food, its obvious the hair area is gonna have pii, body odor and pussy smell all over our lips don't need to shave at all..but the hair on the lip of your pussy gotta smell good...I don't know..i just like a clean"lip"pussy..but please keep at least a mohican hehe..

1 post
12/17/2005 1:41 am

******* PUBIC HAIR REMOVAL TIP ********

A few years ago I was admitted to hospital for an operation that in those days required removal of ALL pubic hair (front and back).

I was most surprized when a young student nurse arrived with a box, powder puff and a razor.

Yes it was not a WET SHAVE but she applied baby powder liberally and proceeded to shave.

It was quick, very smooth and no after bumps or rash.

When at one time a partner asked to shave my pubes we used this method and again total success.

But myself, I prefer the natural hairy pussy, trimmed is ok.

One thing though is when you strip of a lovely blonde only to find a huge black bush, very odd.

rm_kelli4u2dew 41F
5220 posts
12/17/2005 9:23 am

I use a man's beard trimmer. I have waxed and shaved in the past, but I got tired of the maintenance and the "5 o'clock shadow". I just trim the length so that my lovers have easier access.

1 post
12/21/2005 7:53 pm

gata vc tem um BUCETA muito linda .
ja estou com um imenso TESAO que delicia de HUUU

4play4her 39M

12/27/2005 8:24 pm

Im a firm believer in shaving...mena nd women. Nothing like going down only to come up with hair between your teeth. But to prevent razor burn...Two things, either use an electric razor or put deodorant on after you shave your holy area...Don't laugh, a stripper gave me this advice. Why don't women get razor burn under their arms...deodorant!!! Try it

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