Grudge Fucking  

frogger1995 39F
4342 posts
9/16/2005 3:14 am

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Grudge Fucking


Several weeks ago I wrote a post on Rain-check Sex. I mentioned there how I just didn't get Make-up Sex because, either one or both of the individuals involved would still have at least a tiny grudge, thus ruining the whole experience. That weekend an Adult Friend of mine explained how he had been confused by my statement because the Grudge Fuck could produce some really hot sex.

Ahhh, I said. Well, when you put it that way, it does make some sense. Frankly, I still think there is a difference between Make-up Sex and the Grudge Fuck. The first doesn't sound appealing at all. The second...well that is a different story.

I have personally been involved in two episodes of Grudge Fucking. In one I was the grudgee, in the other I was the grudger.

Grudgee:

This happened with a friend of mine who eventually became a sex partner. It is a long story about how we evolved to that level but it was quite stagnant for a while since the only activity we ever seemed to be involved in was me giving him head...with no reciprocation! Add to this the fact that we were both very stubborn and a little hot headed and you can imagine what it was like when the last straw landed. I got pissed about us not taking the next step and actually "doing it" which only caused him to become defensive and petulant. I guess my bitching really got to him because finally, to shut me up, he threw me on the bed and fucked me. It was fantastic...more so because I wasn't ready and protested mightily.

He wouldn't hear any of it. "You wanted it," he yelled, "you got it now shut up," as he rammed into me over and over again. At that time I had not officially been introduced to simulated , so I didn't fully understand why I was so upset but thoroughly enjoying myself all the same. Afterwards he was pretty shaken about what he had done, but eventually, when I didn't make a big deal about it, he got over it. From that point on we had consensual sex...but it was never the same as that first time.

Grudger:

This one happened with the man I was with before joining this site. He is the reason that I am in to simulated and choking. We had a safety word, which he never paid attention to until I was screaming bloody murder. Usually it didn’t matter, as part of the thrill was not knowing when he would actually stop. We were in to the same sorts of Sub/Dom things but he was willing to go much, much farther than I would ever dream of going. He liked to push my limits but one day he just went too far.

Let me begin by pointing out that he was quite large as far as his member was concerned, which made what he did all the worse. We were fooling around and he decided to stick himself in my "other" opening. I of course shouted the safety word, which he summarily ignored. Then my claws came out, literally. I began scratching and screaming and hitting and kicking and eventually he backed down.

I tried to jump out of bed but he grabbed me and hugged me, apologizing profusely. I wasn't placated. As we were making out again, I became aggressive. As a sub, I protested more than usual, pushing him away and even slapping him at one point. Finally, I decided to return the favor by sticking my finger up his ass. This only made him sigh with pleasure, so I stuck in another and another.

He smiled at me. "You're trying to hurt me aren't you, you little ___ ___ ? (His pet name for me...not for the faint of heart) I admitted to doing just that, which only made him enjoy what I was doing more. "I should have gone ahead and fucked you in the ass like I planned," he whispered. That got me off and eventually I focused more on having fun than trying to return the favor.

So there you have it. Grudge Fucking: Spectacular!; Make-up sex: Still a mystery.

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rm_gent258 68M
486 posts
9/16/2005 2:06 pm

Grudge fucking can be very hot. I have been the one with a grudge and I usually fucked my woman friend silly. We both thoroughly enjoyed the ride.


QuotaGetupHilly 55M
6 posts
9/16/2005 2:14 pm

That was a great! I can just imagine you giving him some payback. I too agree that make up sex is probably not as good as grudge fucking. I cannot say that I have had the oppurtunity to enjoy that type of ectasy. And I am not talking about fingers up my A$$.


beewulf9 38M

9/16/2005 2:40 pm

Thank you for being so open, it is admirable. As for colorful tulips they are something to be happy about. ;D


rm_dragonspyke 34M

9/16/2005 4:41 pm

Grudge fucking is good, I used to have that all the time with my ex. BEst sex I ever had.


rm_B0SSIERBOY 57M
476 posts
9/16/2005 9:51 pm

Grudge fucking may be hot but it's sick. Having a grudge implies that you have BAD feelings toward this person, regardless of how HOT the sex might be you are still submitting yourself to debasing treatment or you are trying to debase another human being. Which is pathological. Would you cut their throat if it was HOT?

On the other hand if I piss you off will you promise to take it out on me in bed?


LoveBandit333 53M
1 post
9/16/2005 10:04 pm

are those melons real? holy shit


need2chew 55M
9 posts
9/17/2005 2:06 am

nice set love to suck them dry


frogger1995 39F

9/17/2005 3:52 am

Well it looks as though there are mixed feelings here. I knew this would be a controversial topic. Grudge fucking once or even once in a while is actually fun (for those naysayers); More than that is problematic and should be analyzed or terminated.

travelingintexas: Yes but was the sex hot afterwards?

LoveBandit333: Absolutely 100%


boytoy115780 70M
37 posts
9/17/2005 10:20 am

hey frogger my thoughts are with you hon you have very beautiful breast you know what i mean hon i love good sex but not that way


boytoy115780 70M
37 posts
9/17/2005 10:23 am

hey hon very nice boobs you have got my undivided attention hey can i invite you to my network please hon and ty


rm_bella_ 47F
4030 posts
9/17/2005 10:25 am

Angry sex is the best...i would fight before sex just to have it again.


BigJ19852004 31M
13 posts
9/17/2005 4:41 pm

I have a grudge every time I have sex because I want to out do anyone having sex,which will include you frogger1995


DodosWelshFerry 48M

9/17/2005 8:50 pm

My ex really liked to fight. She introduced me to a good old fashioned grudge fuck and I admit, I really enjoyed how she went wild trying to impale herself on me and egging me on to take my frustrations out on her. I would let her go until she panted for breath and then toss her over and push her legs over my shoulders, or turn her on her knees and take her furiously from behind; all with her shouting or grunting for me to use her until I finally put it in her mouth to shut her up. We would thoruoghly exhaust ourselves. This wasn't a daily thing. We had a terrific sex life. We didn't hold any grudges. We were physically fit.


abhishekthakur23 42M
6 posts
9/17/2005 10:56 pm

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frogger1995 39F

9/18/2005 5:32 am

Bella: I think subconsiously I am the same. I think the rush of not knowing how far they will go in their angered state gets me personally off.
TravelinginTexas: Do you have any idea how many women on this site would love to show you


SirMounts 102M

9/20/2005 3:58 am

Well, it can be quite enlightening to experience similar situations from... differing perspectives.


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