Frogger, Where Have you been???  

frogger1995 39F
4342 posts
10/18/2005 7:01 pm

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Frogger, Where Have you been???

OK, so here is my dirty little secret...I am a paranoid hypochondriac. Or at least I have been for the past two months.

I joined this site out of pure curiosity. Eventually I got in over my head and went buck wild--five men in one week. Yes, you read correctly...FIVE MEN IN ONE week! One of my AdultFriends said I should get a t-shirt proudly proclaiming that little bit of 411. I thought it was funny at the time. I still do, but with mixed emotions.

Before joining this site, I had had 3 partners. I felt below average in this day of Sex in the City. So I used this site to bring my average up, and I am now officially "above average."

You have read about most of my exploits in my blog. What I left out is the 6 trips to my doctor to check on and test every ache/tingle/itch/bump/feeling/wetness/dryness/cough/sore throat/etc.etc.etc. When your gynecologist starts rolling her eyes when she sees you in the office and tells you that you are "looking too hard," You know you have a problem.

So I have been on an unofficial hiatus the past couple of days. Part of me thinks it is definitely hormonal (I won't go into details, but my cycle is definitely at a low point right now). I am loathe to leave this site, as I truly do enjoy parts of it. But so much reminds me of the many bullets I have dodged by not catching anything despite my early foolishness (yes, I used a condom...but still). Some may tell me to leave this site, since it is obviously affecting me. Some will tell me to stay and just enjoy the parts I like. I think it is something I will have to come to decide on myself.

If I remain, rest assured I will be back to my usual bloggitty bloggedness. If I go, I promise to make an official goodbye.

{=} Frogger

p.s. AdultFriendFinder for some reason feels the need to put my numbers above in bold against my will. That is not me it is them!
Things to be Happy About:

Moonlight Sonata
Pinko and Leftie
Jigsaw puzzles
Getting Packages in the Mail

luvnthetits 38M

10/18/2005 7:18 pm

Hey Frogger, what's up

007sexy40plus 51F  
7603 posts
10/18/2005 7:57 pm

Frogger, I feel what you are saying. Only you can decide on whether to stay or go. I get paranoid too about things that happens to me. But it is not because I have had multiple partners but because of one partner who had had multiple partners(that I later found out) I quickly let go of that person, and started talking to someone I now know is nothing like that one was.

I once read a guys blog speaking of a woman on the site who had been here a while and had only had 2 partners in all her time here and he thought it was a joke. I knew he was talking about me. I didn't join to see how many men I could sleep with or fuck, Although I knew it could have many a few thousand if I was that type of woman.

Being a selective woman is something I am proud of and it is always best to be safe than sorry. I understand your concerns and you are the only one who can take care of you. I too am here to write blogs I am not renewing my membership, and I am sure that I will soon leave the site.
I will get off my soap box now but I just want you to know you are a very beautiful young woman and you don't have to prove anything to anyone. And what ever you decide, I wish you all the luck in the world. If you ever need someone you can unload on, I am here as a friend. If you decide to stay, I will continue to read your blog until I leave here myself.

Goodluck to you!

I am the real deal! "Come Get Me!!!"

bigcat309 43M

10/18/2005 8:10 pm

Keep your chin up, you'll find what your looking for soon enough. I am very new to this but reading your blog compelled me to write. I also joined to try something new and different. I have had the same scares of "did I catch anything or is that a rash". Knock on wood all is good but I do know the feeling. Hope all works out.


the1forthenight 33M
55 posts
10/18/2005 8:11 pm

Well if you decide to leave I know I will miss you. You are the only person who kept my account active because I was so hooked to your blogs. Besides the explict details of your romps, you always give insight and we can actually get a feel for who frogger really is. We know that you have went buck wild in the last few months, but in the process you managed to touch alot of people (in their minds and hearts of course). But hopefully we won't have to say goodbye to you. And I hope that one day we will go out and get a couple of drinks.

Nightguy_1961 55M
4866 posts
10/18/2005 8:46 pm

I hope you stay...even if you never meet with anyone for quite awhile, there are those of us who enjoy reading your thoughts and views on different things.

Just a humble opinion from a friend

Take care.....NG

rm_unlistedone 65M
2718 posts
10/18/2005 10:35 pm

Frogger, which ever way you decide, I'm sure it'll be the right decision for you. Just let your heart, and that brillant mind of yours work through it. I'm confident you will find the correct answer for you.

Yes, you have had fun. And yes, your blog here has become one that I, and certainly a lot of others, has marked as one of our favorites to read. You are open and honest, funloving, and kind. What a combination!

I am sure you will land on your feet no matter what direction you decide to go.

I just want you to know personally, I think you are a class act... and I would be honored to call you friend.

Take care, with warm hugs, unlisted

ps... Balconies are something to be happy about. But jigsaw puzzles?

JarrodSparrow 33M

10/19/2005 2:48 am

I have days like that too...

When I first slept with a girl a while back who had hepatitis (I think she told me afterwards, I immediately looked up the symptoms and started analyzing myself....I still wonder sometimes if I have it...but I've never tested myself and I've never noticed anything that major.

I'm sure I should get tested at some point, but I never seem to have the time or the patience to find somewhere that does tests.

If you enjoy this site and hooking up with people...enjoy it safely.

Screen people for desirable traits and make SURE they are STD free if you are so worried about it.

If you find you can't get over the hypochondria, well, maybe its time to give sex a break and start some therapy for it.

There's is treatment if you want to get through it.

Hope this helps,


Efilnikufecin69 47M

10/19/2005 4:07 am

Well Kermit, that is alot. But please don't get discouraged by your worries! We all have them!

I have had the opportunity to find someone here that I really love, and her feelings are the same. Although we are over 3000 miles apart, we keep in touch daily. It was one of those magical things you see in movies or on TV or read about in a book.

She is absolutely wonderful, but many people here have no clue what type of woman she really is. Many know about us, or think they do, but we aren't telling, and if asked we will deny it anyway for our protection.

I wouold love to see you here more. I have enjoyed your Blogs over the past couple months and wait eagerly for more(I have permission from my lady to continue reading).

keep blogging Kermit!

Love ya{=}


frogger1995 39F

10/19/2005 5:14 am

longhairednikki: Thanks. That was a nice pick me up this morning.

Straightten: I certainly plan on giving taking a break. I was not very selective my first week here, thinking that I had better take what I could get (little did I know!). Anyway, I am much more selective now, in fact I think I may just stick around to write my blog. I changed my profile almost immediately after that first week when I realized what I had done. There is no way to verify past partners, but I can at least verify most health problems (at least the big ones). I am only seeing 2 people a little bit right now, one with whom I am not having sex. The other amazingly offered to get PCR tests for EVERYTHING. If only everyone could.

JarrodSparrow: I think it's healthy to have a little paranoia about disease, especially if you have something to worry about. Of course Hep was one of the things I worried about but just to let you know, my doctor says that sex is not the easiest way for people to get it, especially from woman to man. Most people who have it, get it via blood transfer (tattoos, needles, etc.). She told me that there are couples who have been married for years and haven't transfered it to the other partner. So I hope this makes you feel better about getting tested.

fishy7425 44M

10/19/2005 8:45 am

Well I, and I'm sure many others, feel your concerns. We definitely live in an age when we need to be careful. When I look back on some of the things I did when I was younger (and willing to jump on any female who stood still long enough) I'm astonished by the fact that I never contracted a single std. (Visualize Keanu in the Matrix dodging a SHITLOAD of bullets.)

Just humor me for a sec. While this site does definitely increase your access to interested parties, you could just as easily encounter a disease from someone not affiliated with the site. It's a scary, sobering truth, but the truth nontheless.

So you awoke a part of yourself that was forced to lie dormant for awhile and you went a little crazy initially. Big deal! At least you were smart about it and were careful. Breathe a sigh of relief that all is well, and continue to live your life. I think you've found that you enjoy this aspect of life and yourself - I know your readers do (present company definitely included). I'm not a doctor, but I think suppressing that part of you now would only leave you feeling stifled.

I'm not saying you should continue the five guys a week average - that would be too risky, (And you need sleep, right?) but I'd really hate to see you go because you jumped into the deep end of the pool in the beginning. Like "agoigo" said - you don't have to have sex to enjoy this site (it's a nice bonus, but not a requirement). Just take a step back and evaluate what you want - whether that be to have multiple (but carefully selected) partners, to find the one person for you that has similar tastes, or just to hone your capable writing skills. Personally I think it would be a mistake to deny yourself this, but hey, what do I know? Come swim over to the shallower water where you can breath easier - we have floaties to help you if you need them.


R (aka Fishy)

rm_slipperydoc2 52M
1 post
10/19/2005 9:04 am

straightten 2002, you and frogger both have excellent photos, but is there more? Faces,legs,etc. would be a welcome sight i am sure.

rm_slim_jim997 45M

10/19/2005 12:42 pm

frogger... I have never met you but I would still miss you if you were gone. There certainly are a lack of friendly people in the world and you seem to be cool enough to write a blog for everyone to see and not be too judgemental (sp.) of others. I hear you about the STD's. There is really only one solution that is to wrap up and even then it is a slight risk. I'm not going to be middle of the road I'll be selfish (even if I never see you) don't go, don't go, don't go!

phangasm2003 106M

10/19/2005 1:08 pm

Yeah, that's the big downside. One friend off this site (who I've never been with, just chatted online) just had to get treated - that'll ruin your month. At least it was treatable.
I remember that after my first meeting off AdultFriendFinder, I got itchy "down there" about 2 days later - I was freaking out until I realized that it was just razor burn, so I know where you're coming from about hypochondria.
If you do go, I'll miss your blog - you've got a gift, you should set one up on blogspot or something if you decide to leave here.

frogger1995 39F

10/19/2005 5:08 pm much love. And to think I was hesitant to take a peek at the comments with regards to this post. Those of you who have read me from the beginning could probably do the math and count how many people I have actually "been" with on this site (6 total).

I spent the whole day freaking out as usual, wondering if maybe the doctor or the lab made a mistake. Finally my friend had to slap me in the face (metaphorically) and ask me, "Frogger (he used my real name of course), are you upset because you haven't caught anything and, based on your numbers, you should have?" I had to say no, of course. He responded that it sounded as though I actually wanted to have something just so I could relax about it. He was right. I have to stop looking for something and consider myself lucky. Yes, it will take time, but it will happen.

You guys have renewed my interest in this site with your utter appreciation. I will definitely be back once I am over this funk. (I still think it's blame God!)

rm_anacortes 74M
2850 posts
10/19/2005 5:19 pm

Namaste... and many hugzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz

frogger1995 39F

10/19/2005 5:22 pm

I forgot to point out that my original response, supra (inside joke noted), seems to leave out a few people. AdultFriendFinder in all its craziness seems to post whom they want to when they feel like it. I responded to everyone that had a visible comment at that time. As you can see, quite a few were left out.

I just didn't want you to think that your post wasn't worth responding to. I just didn't see it!

craptoast 39M

10/19/2005 7:02 pm

Yours is one of the few blogs (four) I read on a regular basis. It frequently reminds me how little I have to say, yet it doesn't make me feel bad about that. Not sure what I'm getting at (there's that whole little I have to say thing again), but I would miss it were it gone.

WildWon1982 34M

10/19/2005 8:14 pm

I've noticed that odd placement and timing deal, too. I hope all works out and you keep things up (aside from the peni of every guy who looks at you).

smilesalot4488 60M

10/19/2005 8:17 pm

I've had 2 women over the past 22 years, as I have a loyal dog dick that prefers his well known haunts. Who knew? Anyway, I was able to convince one woman from the bar to stop by my place before taking her home. I tried nuzzling up to her and kissing her neck and ears and she started talking about oral herpes and warts and HIV. WTF - I didn't know if she was just talking in general or what - but I totally freaked and spent the next 15 minutes in the bathroom with 2 bottles of hydrogen peroxide.

You are such an amazing woman, and I agree 100% with your concern. Follow your instinct.

AmberSolaire 42M

10/19/2005 10:36 pm

In every decision making process a little guidance never goes amiss.But after you have listened to that guidance the decision is yours and noone elses and only you know the right time to leave and move on.It is a time that will come to us all.

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AlbertPrince 57M

10/20/2005 3:37 am

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Priapeo 46M

10/20/2005 5:25 am

One cannot possibly not miss the loveliest pair of hands ever laid down on a breast.

Never argue with an idiot. He brings you down to his level then beats you with experience

pleribus 40M
24 posts
10/20/2005 12:54 pm

Leaving this site is not going to change your sex life. You might not be fucking 5 guys a week, but you still will find a way to indulge in your fantasies one way or another. I only know you from your blogs, but its seems that having sex with unknown men is really what your fantasy is all about. You'll find a way to fufill this one way or another in your life. AdultFriendFinder is only the means to an end. I mean look at the way your built! You were meant to fuck! It's not a bad thing. Hope you say around.

silverfoxrun 40M

10/20/2005 1:11 pm

Hopefully you will figure stuff out and remain with us

Jobe00 42M
211 posts
10/20/2005 2:35 pm

I'm a recent viewer of your blog, Froggie, and I hope you stay, even if it's just to post and respond here.
The whole point of all this is to have fun, so try not to stress out and just take the necessary precautions when you decide to play.

interested13563 53M
2557 posts
10/20/2005 4:03 pm

Congratulations! I hope the quality of the encouters
was as high as their number!!!!

ewan_1973 44M

10/20/2005 4:11 pm

This is fate. Finally I find someone interesting, a great blog and you decide to "take a break". There are only 30 comments to your last post, which means that you might have been getting thousands of messages from all these who, like me two days ago, fell in love --not with you, not yet, but with your way of writing. I do hope you come back. I was sick today and I think I read the whole blog...
Take care, get well --if your break is about getting well...

tigerdickaches 62M

10/20/2005 4:37 pm

Frogger ...

First time viewer of your blog ... er uh and I also viewed your photo! Mmmmmmmmmmm!

Well, another thing you can add to your list of "Things To Be Happy About" is the Astros win over our Cardinals and first trip to the World Series in franchise history! A great pitching staff there in Houston, so you've got an excellent chance of beating the ChiSox!

Oh, I can "sense the love" on this site! You have many admiring readers!

Back to the jungle for now ...

Tiger Dick
[blog Tiger_Talk]


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