But They Look Like They Are Just Babies!  

frogger1995 39F
4342 posts
9/27/2005 4:58 pm

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But They Look Like They Are Just Babies!

Is anyone else here disturbed by how young some of the people on this site look. There is one girl (emphasis on "girl" ) who posted a blog a couple of weeks ago introducing herself. I clicked on the profile out of curiosity and was met with someone who you would swear was no older than 13 if you saw her walking down the street.

This post was actually spawned by a message I received a couple of days ago from a young man in college. He was (of course) only 18 years old, and wearing a baseball uniform. He looked like something out of little league. I shuddered looking at his profile, knowing that he was interested in me sexually.

I'm trying to think what I was like at 18. Right now, at age 27, I often feel like I am in over my head being on this site. Of course, I never dated in high school and didn't loose my virginity until the age of 19...so maybe it's just me. But some of the "Adults" on AdultFriendFinder do look like walking-talking jail bait.

Side Note: Just a little relevant information for those of you interested. Many Statutory laws are Strict Liability laws, meaning that it the act itself, regardless of your mental state, is enough for a conviction. In other words even if you believe someone is "of age" it doesn't matter....be careful!

P.S. Yes that is yours truly, Frogger1995, as a tadpole on the left.

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howdy_all 45M

9/27/2005 10:30 pm

and a cute tadpole...and I agree, way too many young looking people on here

the1forthenight 33M
55 posts
9/27/2005 11:25 pm

Yeah, you can never tell sometimes.

AlbertPrince 57M

9/28/2005 12:09 am

I think I prefer you now

Priapeo 46M

9/28/2005 2:35 am

Cute puppy you were.

Never argue with an idiot. He brings you down to his level then beats you with experience

beewulf9 38M

9/28/2005 5:28 am

The other side of the coin is being a craddle robber, what is your cut off date with a man Frogger? Is there a double standard?

LopesGaiusVower 43M
5 posts
9/28/2005 5:57 am

Too Cute....

zanzibarus 38M

9/28/2005 6:38 am

The problem is these days that jailbait can be a lot more sexually active than adults. I lost my virginity at 14, even now i think that was probably too young, but apparently thats common nowdays. I dont regret losing it at that age, and i know women that have lost it close to that age who also dont regret it and dont cry .

I think that these days your better off asking for ID before you even engage in the act, because more often than not, if the parent finds out, they are responsible for the child and can lawfully request the police to charge you with stat .

Kids should be kids, adults should be adults, when that line gets crossed, fucked up things can happen.

007sexy40plus 51F  
7603 posts
9/28/2005 7:08 am

some of us are transformed into beautiful people, and some of us are adorable to begin with, you were a cute baby, and it stayed with you.

I am the real deal! "Come Get Me!!!"

rm_talldarkavg1 105M
10172 posts
9/28/2005 7:16 am

I HAVE to date younger women...everyone my age is dead. 27 is my cutoff though.

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digdug41 49M

9/28/2005 8:02 am

yeah them youngens can be scary but I cant tell by looking in there eyes they dont lie,but I like older chicks anyway so it wouldnt be a problem ,unless you came to nyc, kisses

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pleribus 40M
24 posts
9/28/2005 8:27 am

Just wanted you to know that your blogs are awesome. Your body reminds me of my business partner in college. She was a DDD, same build, olive skin, dark hair. Whow! what fun study sessions! Anyway, I'm kinda new to the Adult Friend Finders thing so I have not updated any pics. Email my account and I send you some. Keep livin' out those fanaties.

rm_blueman7227 44M

9/28/2005 8:38 am

It can be VERY hard to tell now a days. I perfer not to go younger than 25 though so I hope I would be safe. I have nieces between 18-22 so it can be difficult to not think of them if I'm chatting with a young woman of that age. Not good.

WildWon1982 34M

9/28/2005 9:35 am

I see where you're coming from, frogger. I, like you, didn't date in high school, and finally turned in my V-card around the age of 20. And I get mistaken for youth a lot. That's part of the reason why I grew my goatee. I started growing it when I was 20, and it became relatively full when I was 22 (took a lot of grooming). Before then, every time I bought lotto tickets or beer, I got carded. With the beard, I don't get carded for anything but booze anymore. The problem with that is my ID photo. They took a new picture of me when I had my license renewed, so that I had my beard, and a fuller face. However, for some reason, they kept the picture of me when I was 16, with a much thinner face, no facial hair, and baby fat still on the cheeks. I looked like I was twelve in that picture. It's hard to convince people that a scruffy-looking 23 year old could ever have been that boy in the picture.

TejanoMexicano 37M
4 posts
9/28/2005 9:36 am

Obviously no one wants to break any laws but as for me, when it comes to age, it depends more on maturity. I know some 18-21 year olds that are very responsible mature adults. I also know adults that are very irresponsible people. I know one 35 year old woman in particular that can be brattier than my 5 year old sister.

frogger1995 39F

9/28/2005 4:51 pm

beewulf9: NOt quite sure what you mean but I put my cupid settings at 26 to 49 I think. Any older or (especially) younger, and I would feel a little uncomfortable.

zanzibarus: Yes, even when I was younger, girls were loosing their virginity in junior high. It was common to throw baby showers in high school...what a world!

talldarkavg1: Yes, I suppose at 94, you really only have so many options But it isn't so much being (or looking) younger, it's looking like you should still be worrying about who you will be taking to the Junior prom.

digdug41: Older can definitely be better! (and safer)

blueman7227: Yeah, I never thought about the relatives aspect. WHat about men who have daughters (or women with sons) that age. HOw could you not think about that...shudddder!

WildWon1982: Yes there are many ways to look older...girls and boys know ALL the tricks...hence the final note in my post. MAKE SURE YOU KNOW!

travelingintexas: I thought he looked familiar...Does your mommy know you are on this site?

frogger1995 39F

9/28/2005 4:53 pm

Oh, by the way...thanks everyone for the compliments....But really, aren't all tadpoles cute?

frogger1995 39F

9/28/2005 5:00 pm

TejanoMexicano: You are sooo very right. There are exceptions to the maturity rule...I personally know several men in their late 30s that act like they are still in high school. (sigh!)

interested13563 53M
2557 posts
9/28/2005 5:32 pm

Just think that there are people much older than you in the world!
And at this site! Besides maturity and biological age are not
necessarity directly proportional.

1968horn 48M

9/29/2005 3:09 am

Frogger, some may be tadpoles and yet some may be about to croak it, however, one can be fooled by the maturity of those you taddies, which is not accounted for in the eyes of the law, especially when you serve alcohol. Best bet is to check ID before entry......

frogger1995 39F

9/29/2005 5:31 am

interested13563: This is true, but it isn't so much the maturity as the thought that they look like they should be in junior high school.

1968horn: Good point...take all the precautions you can, just because someone says they are of age or does things to make you think they are, doesn't mean crap.

TejanoMexicano 37M
4 posts
9/29/2005 7:43 am

LMAO..."can I please see your ID before we date?"

Its true though. I once dated a 39 year old woman when I was 19. We met at work and she didn't know how old I was until I told her but by that point she didn't care Recently I've been helping the local theater, doing a rendition of "Cabaret" and there are girls everywhere in lingerie. Some are definitely bad for my health and freedom but its hard to tell. Lets just say that I've been thinking about the lesson that she learned from me so well, Find out the age BEFORE it gets too far.

thorobredbelle 29F

9/30/2005 10:55 am

i just saw a profile the other day and there was a picture of this guy who i swear to goodness had to be 13 years old. it really freaked me out. i'm sure they're just doing it to be funny and see how many girls will talk to them so they can brag to their friends, but, it makes me feel so uncomfortable. i kind of wish i was related to them or something so i could whoop their ass.

oh and as far as the age thing goes, i just turned 18 in august (barely legal) but in texas the legal age of consent is 17... so, i'm more than ok. lol...

nice job on this post btw. and you WERE cute as a tadpole.

closetfreaks1008 38M/38F
24 posts
10/5/2005 12:41 am

You have a good point and for the men out there thinking well what if the parents are okay with it . Just piss them off once or get thier litttle girl prego and see if they don't dime your ass out,and even if the parents forgive you, and drop the charges the state will gladly pick them up and make sure your dumb ass does time . Oh and for the carding thing here in Ohio a guy met this girl in a 21 and over bar and they hooked up . she looked of age had a drivers licsens and was drinking in the bar . Guess what she wasn't .Her parents found out and called the police . The girl used her sisters ID .The man was charged and found guilty and the bar lost it's liquor licsenes. You can never be too careful.

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