freshstartlady 45F
1 posts
6/30/2006 6:42 pm

Well I don't know what to say except that I am trapped. Trapped between the real world and the fantasy world. Trapped between the wants of 2 vices-love and sex. Right now I have neither. I want the love and stability of a good relationship to maybe develop into my partner in the rocking chair. Would like to have a kid with them but I am not getting any younger. I would like to have lots of sex and fulfill all kinds of fantasies, but nothing happenind there either. I am in this boring world where all work and no play are making me very horney. My heart is broke and I want it fixed. Don't know which way to go. So I guess i will wait for the best offer and go from there.

cedarswamp444 41M

7/1/2006 1:40 pm

Hey lady,
From my optimist's perspective, I think you can have a lots of sex and love. Any guy who loves you, would surely love lots of sex and would want to help fullfill fantasies out of love, if not their basic sexual drive. Something we guys have little problem with. Women today have kids in their 40's so you have plenty of time. When I was rejected by a woman I loved I spent lots of time in nature and talking to god out loud. It helped ease my broken heart and being in nature, especially, lowered my libido. So I suggest no bars, go out in nature by yourself and talk to nature. I sincerely believe my problems are anwsered by intuition through being in nature.

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