What does it really matter???  

freetime648 52F
7629 posts
5/9/2006 12:08 am

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5/16/2006 12:42 am

What does it really matter???

I had a question posed to me the other day that I have not heard asked in a coon's age.

How many guys have you slept with?

When I was younger this question used to bother me. I would almost be at the point of being offended by it. But, I have noticed that my thought on it has been and will remain the same the answer.


I mean really....why do you want to know how many people your potential partner has slept with? I understand the feelings of apprehension where diseases are concerned but what if that person is tested regualarly and has a clean bill of health. Does it still matter so much?
If a man post this question and the woman answers anything above the number 10 (depending on her age) she is a hose-bag. If a man is asked this by a woman he will lie about the number....(I am only kidding) ....but honestly...


Seriously now...if someone asked you , would you fib a little to save face or would you tell the truth? Or maybe you would not answer this silly question at all......you tell me!!!!!

xx FREETIME648 xx

great_sex_here 47M

5/15/2006 4:40 pm

Free, Sweetie......you are dead on like so may of your blogs and views.....doesnt really matter how many people we've slept with....its the expierience.....the fun...the learning and the sharing that counts.....I for one remeber each and every woman and man ive shared a bed with...no regrets not one single one. Would over fifty be alot? lol.....and to think that soon I'll not be able to see you here in germany...I wish you and your hubby the best in the states....it was great getting to share with you.

TheQuietGuy2005 54M
2386 posts
5/9/2006 3:58 pm

I'd answer honestly - I'm not ashamed and I like the look on people's faces when I tell them! Now work that one out ...

rm_1sexyroo 56M/55F
333 posts
5/9/2006 9:27 am

Excatly , when you cjeck into a hotel room you don't ask how many others have been there before you ??? You appreciate what there is to offer , end of story. What the hell kinda question is that for anyone to ask ???????

helga_hansen 49F  
1987 posts
5/9/2006 9:20 am

I'm with you on this one... does it really matter? It comes under the section "None of your business", unless I choose to tell you.

If it makes you happy to call me a slapper, then so be it. Bring your face over here, and let me slap it!


Love, hugs and kisses from ♥♥HH♥♥

citizen4722 58M  
45810 posts
5/9/2006 7:16 am

I havn't slept with any Guy's !!!!
I would fib if someone asked me how many Women i have slept with...lets just say i CAN remember them all !!

ilsuconu 56M

5/9/2006 7:16 am

My ex-girlfriend used to ask me that a lot... over the course of 4 years together, she probably asked me that at least a hundred times! Usually after we were in the cooling down phase of our hot passion... the "smoke a cigarette afterwards before we cuddle and fall asleep" part. I told her the first few times she asked ... then just started side-stepping the question as time went by. I don't know if it's because she didn't believe me (I've only slept with 5 women since losing my virginity; 5 different women between age 17 and 46 ain't so promiscuous), or if she just wanted to remind herself that she was the one I was with and not any of my prior girlfriends. Well, she doesn't ask anymore... we're not together. And although I'm not with anyone now, I do believe that the next time a woman asks me that, I'll most likely defer to something along the lines of your answers: "Who cares?" or "Does it really matter?"

AlbertPrince 57M

5/9/2006 3:26 am

Admit it - you're only buggged cos you've lost count?

wildoats19622 54M
3483 posts
5/9/2006 1:02 am

If you're disease free, then it's nobody's business. Now, if you had slept with some famous people I might be interested in hearing how they were in bed.


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papyrina 51F
21133 posts
5/9/2006 12:49 am

i don't know the truth to tell the truth

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