The intimidation factor  

freetime648 52F
7629 posts
3/3/2006 4:23 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

The intimidation factor

So you are talking in the chatroom and you hit it off with a complete stranger. Someone who has no pic on their profile or a pic that does not show them so well. You decide to take the conversation outside the chatroom and you ask for a pic and they send you one.

You realize right then and there that you have definitely travelled out of your league. The man/woman in the pic has an intimidation factor of about 100%. They are so good looking you think to yourself...OH MY GOOD GOD IN HEAVEN!!!! And then after chatting for some time they ask if you could meet.


You say yes because your brain and other "physical" parts told you to say yes. Then you realize that you cannot match this persons level of attractiveness. You know deep in your heart that once they see you, you will be embarrassed and want to duck your head in sand somewhere.


Do you go ahead with the meeting or just blow it off because you have a sudden doctors appointment to remove the foot out of your mouth for saying yes in the first place?


What would you do?????

xx FREETIME648 xx

brightblonde3 58F

3/4/2006 1:34 pm

Go for it, Louise.

Love the kitty.

Smooches, Thelma

msagro1979 37M
13 posts
3/3/2006 10:54 am

I would go anyway. Everyone has a different opinon on what they like.
If nothing else u could always end up friends (maybe not) but it dosen't matter. That's no reason 2 put urself down. Always try 2 b confident in everything u do. U never know, it could just start out as a friendship as well then lead 2 more. If it was meant 2 be it will happen. If not brush urself off and try again, but u should always look ahead. So, go 4 it, don't worry, b confident,and see what happens. That's how I'd go about it.

helga_hansen 49F  
1987 posts
3/3/2006 10:49 am

Lol @ stukka... he thinks you're a bloke, Free!!

As for me... I don't think I would have said "yes"... I sadly lack the confidence for that.


Love, hugs and kisses from ♥♥HH♥♥

stukka5 44M

3/3/2006 8:28 am

Do it mate, even if your quakin in your boots. If she goes with it you'll get a huge ego boost and more confidence to talk to others "out of your league" or she'll turn you down. If she does, so what! We've all been there! Well I have'nt met anyone yet so your well ahead of me!!!

oldman1776 78M
3164 posts
3/3/2006 8:13 am

If you have both exchanged pics and they still want to meet then go for it they must have found something in you that they like or the wouldn't have asked.

You have to remember some people don't send pics of them selfs.

tekweezel 62M
18 posts
3/3/2006 6:42 am

Never compare your insides to somebody else's outsides. You have no idea what you look like to other people. If you send a picture and they send a picture, and everybody is still talking about meeting then you have to allow them their choices.

ArgosPlumyKooky 45F
3902 posts
3/3/2006 5:55 am

thats' tough, don't chat with them in the first place if they seem snobby? i worry about body snobs. . . .

candycoated4u3 52F

3/3/2006 5:17 am

I would go. Because you are in everyone league. We are all hot! Go and show us what your made of you hottie! Oh and pic's plz lol

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