Sex and saying it is not being done right  

freetime648 52F
7629 posts
1/5/2006 4:25 pm

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Sex and saying it is not being done right

When are you "allowed" to say...

"Sorry honey, but you are not doing that right?"

I am sure many people have had their moments when their partner was just not getting the right button pushed. And to save embarrassment you dealt with it. I know I have but I learned quickly that you should say something.

If your man is down yonder, munching away and you are still watching T.V.....something is wrong. Why not open your mouth and subtlely suggest a different movement or action? If the spot he is working on has gone to the point of it hurting...why not say so?? Tell him that he has been working on that one spot too long and to move on to another one. Us ladies are fairly sensitive down yonder so when you start one place and stay their throughout is gonna get a bit sore. When you are after a little "baby reverting" and are sucking on a nipple..remmber that they are attached and if done too hard it HURTS!

And it goes both ways. No two people are alike. Ladies, what one man might like in the department of smoking a pole, another may not. Listen to him and do what feels good for him. It goes both ways on this one. Both should be able to verbalize likes and dislikes without getting offended. Say what feels good and what does not...make the long run it is the vocalization that makes the act even more erotic. No, you cannot just grab there head by the ears and direct them...that is not good. Let them do just tell them.

I have no clue where this came from...but, I wanted to VOCALIZE it anyhow!

xx FREETIME648 xx

AlbertPrince 57M

1/8/2006 7:14 am

No use just vocalising, I think you are going to have to show me.

rm_anacortes 74M
2850 posts
1/6/2006 4:31 pm

I have to go with LUMPY on this one..

It really goes against my Tantric/ Sacred Sex to say that one human knows all the RIGHT ways to share sexually.

Key work: SHARE.. if you want a robot to do it THEY HAVE THEM, and they work from what I hear..

So if you want human attention, the old addage about what YOU put into a relationship, you just MIGHT get returned to you..

Good luck

helga_hansen 49F  
1987 posts
1/6/2006 10:48 am

Hhhhmmm... I agree whole-heartedly, and am always happy to make my man happy, as he makes me. It is hard though, learning "all over again"... I've been left to wonder if I was doing it right.


Love, hugs and kisses from ♥♥HH♥♥

TheQuietGuy2005 54M
2386 posts
1/6/2006 10:29 am

I guess some people might feel resentful when told that they're not doing it right ... but I don't have that sort of ego. I can only support what you say, Free: communication should not stop when the clothes come off.

Mr_Ebony_Cupid 50M
1 post
1/6/2006 10:14 am

I agree 100% and it does go both ways. I had the fortune or misfortune of meet people whoes previous "friend" liked to be bit at certain times and certain places... well let me tell you that is not always the trick. I love it when a woman tells me what she likes and how she likes it... I do not take it as I'm doing "it" wrong but learning how to please the one I'm with

jaymichel 59M
52 posts
1/6/2006 5:25 am

Freetime, we all need some directing sometime. If you don't like the way it is going, tell the one you are with. Welcome back!!

silkysmoothlegs3 105F

1/5/2006 5:56 pm

How true
We are all different
love the way you write babes

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