In fear of losing sexuality...ok of losing my horniness  

freetime648 52F
7629 posts
4/10/2006 12:39 pm

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In fear of losing sexuality...ok of losing my horniness

Like you all know, I had a hysterectomy two weeks ago Tuesday. I am not allowed any sex for 6 weeks. And this means in any text of the word....Here that Clinton????

Well, what I am scared of is......when it comes time to actually be able to do the I going to be able to do the nasty???? Will I want to?? Will it hurt?? Will this ..will that????

I know right now, I tricky trotted my ass over to the web cams just to see what my body would tell me. And it boldly told me..... "neh, not ready yet!" It is like testing to see if a cake is done by sticking a toothpick into the center of it!!!!! That is how I feel this is going to turn out...... This made me very nervous. I have plans.....orgies, GB's, anything else to make up for all this time lost without sex....or is my mind playing nasty tricks on me, making me just think I want these things????

Oh this scares the bejesus out of me......or am I just over-reacting to what I think may happen????

I am so nervous.......

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lokin4bitches 32M

4/18/2006 11:23 pm

I'm certainly no expert, but a previous girlfriend of mine had to have one in her 20's, complications of a pregnancy, but it just seemed to fuel her fire. She was never hotter, or sexier. It did seem as though it took her a little more time to reach her first orgasm afterword, but once she hit her first one, it was off to multiple-orgasm city in a flash. I dubbed her my Goddess..she was amazing, and totally insatiable...and she was indeed a Goddess.
I suspect it's probably like most things in will probably experience some changes with it, but the important thing will be how you react to those changes. I hope they are changes that you can roll with easily.

Darkpassion 57F

4/11/2006 9:11 am

I had it done 6 yrs ago and due to my fear was celibate for 3yrs after the op. Eventually my lust over took my fear. I never looked back.I more than made up for lost time. I would also add that it depends on where you were before the op. I had only been with my husband and separated months before the op so I think this had a bigger impact than the mechanics of the op itself.
Just listen to your body, you'll know when it's the right time to get back in the saddle...everyone is different.
The sense of freedom now, not having to watch the dates and no pain more than make up for the lost time. You're a new woman now, enjoy it!!

racingcrazy67 49M

4/11/2006 3:15 am

Having not had this done myself (, I may not be the best one to comment on this! However, I understand your apprehension but I'm sure that alot of patience will be needed. Maybe consider some gentle progress first, not set your sights too high to start with. Would be a bad idea to go stright in to an orgy without a little practice runs first. Imagine it a bit like starting again, going back to your youth as a nervous teenage virgin on a first date? Question is....who will be the one to get your cherry?

Take it easy sweetie, your time will come WEYHEYYYYYY!


darkluv6935 47M

4/11/2006 1:11 am

I has been done for years and not been seen as a top ten on the now I don't feel like sex wagon. I know 2 women personally who have had the procedure and actually one became insatiable , the other a close second. The hard part is over But do indeed wait the 6 weeks and ease back into things slowly and believe me you will have all those fantasies fulfilled and probably come up with some new ones along the way.

zorgnot2 60M

4/10/2006 2:44 pm

I agree with the above posts.
All the women I know had fears and apprehension but all worked out well...or so they say.
I don't have first hand (or...) knowledge but I take them as "expert" witnesses. Follow Doctors' orders is my recommendation, but I haven't been in your shoes...or stirrups, as it were.

saddletrampsk 54F

4/10/2006 1:59 pm

It will be just like riding a bike..

but I feel your fears..

douxetlent 65M

4/10/2006 1:35 pm

No sense in worrying about it, it might not happen. Everything will come back in due time. Hang loose, you'll be OK.

rm_Gentle12553 66M
1378 posts
4/10/2006 1:20 pm

I think you are scared...and when one is one a diet....that is when one wants the chocolate bar?

Relax...enjoy the time a few of us nuts with teasing....

Just think....6 weeks of foreplay!!!!

1cooldude63 53M

4/10/2006 1:16 pm

I know a couple of ladies that had this done, and had the same fears you do. Today they are just fine.It takes time,so I think you will be fine as well.

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