Giving and recieving....the ORAL Majority  

freetime648 52F
7629 posts
1/23/2006 7:39 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Giving and recieving....the ORAL Majority

Many people get together and their life becomes a "give and recieve" type relationship. If she wants new shoes...he gets to watch the Sunday football game in peace. If he wants a new bass boat....she gets to enjoy 5 days in Jamaic with her best friend.....see what I mean???

Whatever happened to just giving to be giving?? Personally, I love to give...presents, cards and even little notes of endearments. When it comes to sexually noted things...I am the same way. Just cause I give a blow job does not entitle me to have a good "Kitty lashing"! Although the reciprical value of such lashing would be highly appreciated!!! It is not like a give and take thing.....

I had a guy once who did do his "business" (my ex-husband actually) for me and then he looked up and said.....

OK....MY TURN!!!!!!!

I honestly think that is the exact moment I knew he was a selfish bastard!

DId he get his turn???? HELL NO!!! I feigned sleepiness and said my jaw hurt from clenching my teeth so hard during that "lashing" he gave me!!!!!! Lil' bastard!!!!!

So, please, be fair and enjoy not do it for the sake of it cause....

YOU WANT TO!!!!!!!!!!!!

xx FREETIME648 xx

fantasylover_05 62M

1/24/2006 9:53 am




I never do anything for my lover "expecting reciprocal".... I do it because you enjoy it and I enjoy doing it for you!! PERIOD!!!

I have in fact done things (speaking sexually here LO when it was impossible to get any kind of reciprocal (for various reasons).... and I LOVED DOING IT!!!

HBowt2 59F

1/24/2006 1:35 am

Totally agree Free.....there is nothing better than seeing the pleasure on a lovers face after I've given......totally blows my mind.....

GB_Cple 66M/55F  
3046 posts
1/23/2006 11:37 pm

Give ..... and ye shall receive

TheQuietGuy2005 54M
2386 posts
1/23/2006 10:12 pm

Well said - if something (sexual or otherwise) is only given because it's expected or demanded, something important is lost.

rm_anacortes 74M
2850 posts
1/23/2006 5:35 pm

I think you might be ready for SACRED SEX...

brightblonde3 58F

1/23/2006 5:32 pm

Giving...and receiving...and giving and receiving at the same time *sly smile*



toothysmile 50M
16515 posts
1/23/2006 5:28 pm

I agree with you 100%.
Giving is a pleasure in itself.
If you don't feel like it, don't do it.
If you do it, don't expect something in return...

perhaps you can look at my last post?... ...

Green_Tea_Boy 50M
1064 posts
1/23/2006 4:28 pm

Free.... I like giving too....actually prefer its not reciprocal... then its seen for what it is...

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