Discussions that make you go.....ARGHHHH!  

freetime648 52F
7629 posts
11/13/2005 5:05 am

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Discussions that make you go.....ARGHHHH!

In the chat room many discussions go on and you try your best to keep up. But, occassionally one will catch your eye and you follow that one. I did just that the other day and to be honest, I had to butt in and throw my 2 cents to the wind. The discussion was a bit heavy but still.....

It was about child abuse. One chatter said that she was not a hating type of person and she could not hate even in that case. She is a sweet person with her heart in the right place but, if it was her child being abused, would she feel the same way?

A child is a sacred thing and to even fathom that child going through any type of abuse is irreprehensible. No child should have to go through that and anyone who is guilty of such abuses should be castrated, mutilated or incarcerated! Obviously, in that order!

I have seen personally the affects of abuse, in all statutes of it, mental, verbal and physical...also sexual. It is disgusting that any human being would do this to a child! They have to live with this for the rest of their lives(the child that is). They are the ones who cannot move on and better themselves...because a complete predator had taken everything from them. And the children who do manage to move on, I give my highest regards to.

I personally believe that hate and jealousy are the the root of all evil..but,

To hate a person for abusing a child is a noble hate and I stand by that hatred 180%. These people should not breath the same air as I do, and if I had the knowledge and the power, I would stop this in all walks of life. But, I am just one woman and although my voice is loud, it is not strong enough to make a difference.



xx FREETIME648 xx


freetime648 52F

11/15/2005 1:44 am

Thank you for all the responses and although it is a heavy subject it is also one that needs to be looked at carefully and something done to assure our children's welfare!

THanks GB, Lips, Swede and BB3


xx FREETIME648 xx


lipsvc4u2 45F

11/14/2005 12:35 pm

free...
of course the feelings change when it's one of your own...BUT a child is a child...they did not ask to be abused...hell, most are too young to ask for milk, cookies, and so on...NO ONE deserves to be abused, old or young...children don't have the option to walk out either...


brightblonde3 58F

11/13/2005 11:24 am

free, i was splashing 'bout in the tub when this conversation took place, but I stayed out of it since i didn't come in at the beginning and didn't want to be seen as flippant about an extremely serious subject.

i will vote for love over hate 99% of the time....but those who abuse the very old, the very young...as well as animals...will stir that 1% up in my heart every time.


freetime648 52F

11/13/2005 7:43 am

Amb, my daughter was too, by her grandfather....and it is such a tough road for these children! My daughter is 20 now and a mother and her past is affecting her being a mother...no man is allowed near that baby alone......it does continue on no matter how hard they strive to make it alright! Thanks for the response!


xx FREETIME648 xx


freetime648 52F

11/13/2005 7:40 am

Rx, I did not mean to imply that they cannot move on...by all means! All's I meant was how hard a time of it it could be. Thanks for the comment and the agreeance the subject. And who knows...maybe I am making a difference!


xx FREETIME648 xx


GB_Cple 66M/55F  
3045 posts
11/13/2005 7:32 am

An emotional subject , everyone of us, knows someone who had been , abused , sexually, physicly , emotionally, or all three.

Hate doesn't take away the pain felt sometimes a lifelong , by the victims, nor does castration, or incareration,

Some victims, never get over it , some do , but only to a degree, as it's scars although healed are always there, but hate sometimes is the only power that can help some victims carry on.

Hate, revenge and the desire for vengance, are normaly very negative influences, although human ones.

There are one or two people, whom I could hate , but justice will be done, if not on this earth, then in another place, I will be content just to attend their funerals, with the knowlage, that it is finally all over .


rm_RxSUGAR 60M
102 posts
11/13/2005 6:42 am

Good post and I agree,that child molesters should be hated.Our laws are way to lax on these sicko's.But please never think that those that have been abused " cannot move on and better themselves,,,".Despite all the evil and imperfection in the world people can overcome ' anything ' if they have the desire to.There are ways to 'undo ' the wrong that we have suffered.It may take time,effort and help but it is a reality. One other note about your voice not being strong enough to make a difference? Maybe your making a difference right now!!!


amb_lily 40F

11/13/2005 6:04 am

My son was abused by his daycare provider, I had the other womans opinion until it was my own. When its personal it changes everything no matter how good your intentions.


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