Coo-coo-ki-choo Mrs. Robinson  

freetime648 52F
7629 posts
12/1/2005 3:54 am

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Coo-coo-ki-choo Mrs. Robinson

Mrs. Robinson
by Simon and Garfunkle

A fellow blogger icedoutmamiJwrote a blog about older men contacting her. One "gentleman" Romeovoid40 responded to her blog by calling her a BITCH!

I have noticed alot of focus on age recently in the blogs and I have to admit, I have been one of them focusing on it. But, when I read this one blog it occurred to me that I am wrong! (break out the smelling salts, I know)

Everyone has their preferences and it is not my place to judge anyone on theirs.

Many guys have their "MILF" fantasies, or in my case "GILF" fantasies but there are respectable ways to approach them. Sending an email with the first line saying "YOU ARE HOT, I WANT TO DO A MILF" is quite redundant to say the least! It is not the preferred approach.

I have learned that putting restrictions on my profile only allows me to miss out on some good contacts. It does not mean that if they contact me I am going to run off and live out their "MILF" fantasy. I have the power to say NO!

But, to come back and call someone a BITCH because of it is wrong and well....think about it Romeo...why would she even want to get to know you now??? You slit your own throat on that one!

Age is a preferrence, being on here is all about preferrences and we should not be so judgemental. This includes me also!

Exactly how many times did I use the word PREFERRENCE???
Do we all see the pattern now??????

xx FREETIME648 xx

freetime648 52F

12/4/2005 6:21 am

Swede, respect is a word you learn very young and it should not HAVE to be said everytime someone acts a fool like this one did! Thanks for always commenting are great!

xx FREETIME648 xx

freetime648 52F

12/4/2005 6:19 am

Iced, I am aware of that ....It is all a preference like I said and you are free to prefer a certain age......and I agree, if one out of my preferrence comes along and we click...then be it!!!!

xx FREETIME648 xx

freetime648 52F

12/4/2005 6:18 am

Northside, I know men of your age and also women of mine have their own little problems to work out. But to answer so rudely is just being an idget! THat is my whole point...would you call a woman a bitch because she turned you down for your age???

xx FREETIME648 xx

freetime648 52F

12/4/2005 6:17 am little shit you!!!

xx FREETIME648 xx

AlbertPrince 58M

12/3/2005 11:53 am

I don't think you're too old for me

IcedOutMamiJ 33F
3 posts
12/2/2005 7:37 pm

Thank you freetime648 for bring this matter to light, and what he commented was way outta line. Tru I have, as others have, set a few limitaions. But there are always exceptions to every rule. I don't "write off" older men, most are more experienced than the younger ones anyway. If I should meet a older gentleman & we have that chemistry going, I wouldn't let the oppurtunity pass.

GB_Cple 66M/55F  
3046 posts
12/1/2005 11:11 pm


here is a ling to a great posting from a guy , giving advise to other guys, read it , it's good

northsidejohnny 60M

12/1/2005 1:40 pm

I'm 48 and like a lot of men am attracted to women young enough to be my daughter (19) . If I tried to approach them with a view to some sort of arrangement then the expected response is " gross, you're as old as my dad!!" I'm also attracted to women older than me, it just depends on the individual.

For a middle-aged man to get all hurt and offended because someone much younger said she preferred a younger man is crazy, and offensive responses are totally out of order.

That being said I was at a conference the other day and was talking to a university student (about 20 ) who approached the possibility of us getting together. I was attracted to her, but it never occured to me to suggest anything myself. I am so used to being considered too old I don't even try with women that age, I just look, and remember when I was young, and wish I knew then what I know now.

freetime648 52F

12/1/2005 5:58 am

What you say is also very true GB, it just amazes me how many guys and women take offense to ones preferrence......

xx FREETIME648 xx

GB_Cple 66M/55F  
3046 posts
12/1/2005 5:27 am

We get lots of mail, from people that do not match our preferances,
and lots of younger men too,
after replying politly, they sometimes send a short polite mail back, most of the really rude and abusive mails come from men in the 40-60 age bracket!.

Being 55 years old myself , I have noticed that much younger women do not even notice men of my age, it is as if we are invisible, and if they return my smile , I assume it is out of politness, and not because they want to jump into bed with me.

There are of course lots of younger women, that like much older men, but finding one is not easy, most younger women I find prefer men a little older than themselves, and women under 30 do not generaly tend to be attracted to grandfathers either.

So all you middle - to - old aged romeos out there, even if you feel that you are special, and have a lot of experiance to offer, accept it, move on, and be polite, it costs nothing, and may even increase your chances.

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