Still sleeping alone?  

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6/25/2006 5:01 am

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6/25/2006 9:20 pm

Still sleeping alone?

Have you been on AdultFriendFinder for a while, and you are still sleeping alone each night?

Out of all the people on AdultFriendFinder within 20 miles of you, you still have not found that special someone you want to share your bed with, and make passionale love with?

You still have not found that friend and lover who enriches your life and expands your horizons?

Here is the reason: You trying to find "chemistry" in photos and descriptions on a computer screen, and that does not work.

"Chemistry" is that good feeling you get about someone. It is that small voice in your head that says "Yes, this one is right for me."

But you can't get that feeling, or hear that voice, by looking at photos and descriptions on a computer screen.

You have to go meet them in person.

If you have looked at numerous photos and read multiple profiles on AdultFriendFinder, and stil not found someone to bring into your life, it may be time to back away from the computer, and go meet some of those people in person.

I'm not saying jump into bed with them.

Call them. Meet them somewhere for dinner. Meet them for some outdoor activity, like cycling, a ball game, or whatever suits you.

There is no rule on AdultFriendFinder that your first meeting with someone requires you to jump in bed with them.

Make a date for some non-sexual activity. Spend some time with them.

It usually takes only one meeting with a person to find out if there is chemistry or not.

If not, simply thank them for their time and wish them the best in their search.

AdultFriendFinder is great, but it is not a substitute for meeting people face to face.

If you want someone in bed with you next weekend, then go meet some people this week.

Meeting people during the week is actually better, because you see them in their normal weekly routine.

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