New Beginnings  

free2chose2 66F
868 posts
7/10/2006 1:34 am

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7/12/2006 11:08 am

New Beginnings

Today is a new day, the beginning of the rest of my life.

What I choose today, affects my tommorows.

Needless to say, I'm in between relationships. I speak to someone daily on the telephone. We haven't moved to the next step--Meeting each other in person.

Now there are two younger men interested also. One very new to my life, who I've met but no sparks on my end. The other "Mr. November" who I've known for at least twenty years. He called my home Friday night(booty call hours)but I was at work. Rekindling a relationship with him would be a negative thing. He doesn't have the time for me in his life totally. We are drawn to each other-soul mates.

If you were me what would you do?

Wait to meet the guy your age?

Make love to "Mr. November" again?

Get a sexual reprieve from "no sparks"?

Don't worry, be Happy

howaboutahuck 65M
489 posts
7/10/2006 8:56 am

Two steps forward, three steps back! Wait to meet the guy your age.

HBowt2 58F

7/10/2006 1:57 pm

i'd wait until there was someone i wanted to be with point without the spark...

qyxx 59F
3267 posts
7/10/2006 8:33 pm

I am in a similar situation myself. But I never had a relationship with my "Mr. November". I would say hold out, but don't limit it to your own age group.

You never know where you will find love.


free2chose2 66F

7/11/2006 8:04 am

Thanks for your responses so far, still thinking

Don't worry, be Happy

SuzieQ4U60 61F

7/12/2006 8:56 am

I'd not settle for Mr November, cause thats what it would be. I'd not go with the one with "no sparks".... I mean, whats the point. Have sex and feel bad about it afterward. But thats what I would feel... to each his own. I would wait to meet the one you are conversing with daily. If its worth having, its worth the wait. If you are sexually needing release, get out a vibrator. Its better than nothing and can feel quite good mixed with a fantasy or, or three.
My final answer, I would wait for the one your age.

free2chose2 replies on 7/12/2006 11:10 am:
thanks Suzie,still pondering

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