My Two Ex-Husbands  

free2chose2 66F
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4/16/2006 12:37 pm

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My Two Ex-Husbands


Ex-Husband #1-----18 yrs old when we met in Calif. my first day on the base processing in-MOONSTRUCK-he was 5'10",approx 200lbs, moustache,his complexion abit ruddier than mine.He was 23 and from Kansas. When I got back to my barracks, I posted a note on the board to tell him I was transferred if he called. These were strange feelings and I was leery of them. Anyways we became attached. He was transferred to North Carolina, I wrote him everyday(6-7 month relationship prior to transfer).Forward two years(with other blog info)and we marry in Colorado. He was stationed in Watertown, NY for a short period and we lived on base. One day a woman called to leave a mesage"Tell him his g/f called" I said"sure, this is his wife and I'll sure tell him".Unbeknownst to me he had married and divorced a North Carolina woman and I was his 4th wife. He was reassigned to Texas, I went to live in his hometown in Kansas. While in Kansas his son from a previous marriage came to live in our residence. Well an old HS g/f had my mother-in-law babysit for her while she worked at the same place I did, and she also babysat when she"visited" this husband in Texas. I flew home-weighed approx 110lbs-some who knew didn't even recognize me. The next day he called and asked me to return. I returned maybe four years later and spent a "long weekend" with him while the Texas visiting wife sat home.

ExHusband #2 We met on a blind date, my cousin was dating his cousin. He had recently moved to NJ from Nyc and was a widower. He worked in Maspeth as EMT. There may have been some drama regarding someone his sister had introduced him too, but you can say I won or lost-We married. His love of alcohol very apparent, if he every slept around, I didn't know it-he was in NY most of the time.He wasn't dependable especially in regards to our two sons. His days rotated and just as I cared for them on my days off rather than take them to childcare he was suppose to do the same. After my maternity leave my first day back had to be cancelled because he didn't come home or call so I could make other arrangements. he promised never to do that again. About six weeks later this was repeated, I made childcare arrangements quickly and went to work. Whe he finally came home, I asked him to leave. Getting child support was difficult, he owes approximately $50,000. He visited his sons about 4 times in 12 years never called them or sent BD/Xmas cards or anything else. He recently moved back to this area(2years ago) and doesn't understand why his sons don't visit him. I said"I don't have a clue".

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free2chose2 66F

4/16/2006 5:06 pm

Maybe they went to same parenthood classes

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free2chose2 66F

4/19/2006 5:51 am

haven't met one yet that did!!

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