" Mr. November"  

free2chose2 66F
868 posts
4/27/2006 6:25 am

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4/29/2006 3:27 pm

" Mr. November"


I've only spoken of him to one other(1st AdultFriendFinder encounter)and I did no draft beforehand. But let me tell you alittle about him.

We met nearly 22 years ago. One of my brothers and his female friend decided I needed a night out. I hadn't had any social life and had been caring for my two young sons since separated.

He is 13 years my junior, but when with him the age difference faded. He was separated and going to be divorced. We worked at the same facility, I on the day shift, he evening security.

He said he loved someone in Colorado,just so I would know. This was my second failure at marriage/long term commitment, so I thought I didn't care.

When we made love, it was a beautiful thing, prior to penetration I would orgasm at the very thought of our union. I loved giving him oral sex, but didn't care to have it performed on me, it was a waste of time and not particularly pleasureable.

He went to Colorado and I became involved with someone more my age who lived at home with his mother. The sex wasn't great, but better prospects as a father I thought. This guy and I broke up and shortly "Mr. November" returned to this area.

We resumed our relationship. He attended a renewal of vows ceremony my parents had. We went to the auction together. Our lovemaking was incredible.

One day, the man I had been seeing while he was away called, said he wanted me back. I told him I was seeing someone else, He said "get rid of him". I so wanted a father figure in my sons lives I told "Mr. November" our relationship was over. He got on his knees and begged me to stay with him, but i thought he's so much younger and not serious. He said he'd even attend church with me too.

Fast forward approximately 1 1/2 years I had an ovarian tumor and other medical problems.this man who was the prospective father figure in my sons lives after having sex with me told me our relationship was over. Hurt, disillusioned is not the word for how I felt.

Meanwhile since the earth did not stop revolving(my social/sexual life did)I saw "Mr November" from a distance. Once when parked waiting for a son who had a job interview and thinking about the legal problems of another son. He stopped, turned around(was on other side of highway)I waved him off-didn't want to burden him with my problems, and another low point he was entering an apartment building on the corner of a street where I was at a stop sign. We looked dead into each others eyes and proceeded on with whatever we were doing.

One day a popular radio personality was to be at a local club 4 blocks from my house. I treated myself to this night out and even won a rose there.

"Mr November" walked into that club, we spoke and time stood still. He looked no different, and to him neither did I. he said there was no one in his life.

There's much more to this story,but that just draws it out. what it amounts to is not at the end(only my unavailability is what has stopped us)but he would call leaving recordings or live sexapades on my phone. One time my phone was in for repair,once repaired and not in my car, another live show---I texted "You must want a 3some, you're always including me". I got at least three recording a week for three months including on my birthday. There's more but enough for now. I call him "Mr. November" because we initially met in November, and walked into each others lives again on a November evening.

I purchased a computer and came to AdultFriendFinder.

Don't worry, be Happy


HeardLankaMalls 55M
2925 posts
4/27/2006 7:27 am

Nice story free


free2chose2 66F

4/27/2006 7:32 am

I wish it was an imaginary story Cor, not my life

Don't worry, be Happy


free2chose2 66F

4/28/2006 4:53 am

Oh, so true MzhUNY

Don't worry, be Happy


HeardLankaMalls 55M
2925 posts
4/28/2006 6:37 am

We all have lives we live free; our experiences, while not always 'totally' unique, are still ours, with the attendant happy and sad times, and all the other feelings we humans feel and experience. We have to take each day, and experience as it comes along, and, for good or bad, continue on.

Hope things get better for you soon.

Hugs


free2chose2 66F

4/28/2006 7:14 am

nice of you Cor

Don't worry, be Happy


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