frbnkslady 48F
3442 posts
3/19/2006 11:45 pm

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3/24/2006 12:59 pm


I took a post down tonight.. most have read it.. some agree with and others do not.. But I will let you know 1 thing.. I WILL NOT BE PUT IN THE MIDDLE OF A CHAT ROOM ARGUMENT....I DO NOT LIKE TO BE PUT INTO THAT POSITION..
To the lady that it concerned.. My heart goes out to you... and my feelings on are mine.. I do not agree with the legal definition of it. To me.. is . I hope you heal.. in all ways...
To those of you who are getting a kick out of causing the drama in the room... PISS OFF>>>
You all know me well enough, or should...don't mess with me this way...NOT directed at you CHB... and you know this...

All should take percautions when meeting peeps for the first time... meet in public... a few times...don't meet without a pic... let someone know where you are going, who you are meeting...even if someone from here... You can never be too careful...they don't look like their pics.. leave.. I have left guys standing in the parking lot.. come on.. get smart....T


frbnkslady 48F
6183 posts
3/24/2006 12:58 pm

Yes.. this has gone on and on... I make my meetings at a coffee shop.. nice quiet and relaxing for the most part... unless its someone I know a little better.. or feel more comfortable about.. maybe a drink at a bar.. soda for me though... T


demonicsexkitten 41F
10671 posts
3/24/2006 12:26 pm

I'm glad 100. added what she did. I was about to suggest that the lady set the place/time to meet so she feels comfortable. of course in some ways it should be mutual. ie: if you want to meet at a bookstore for coffee, and your date would rather meet at a bar at 11pm... try coming up with another option. maybe meeting in a bar works for some ppl, but i don't drink, don't frequent bars, and was very uncomfortable with the idea. Never met the guy.

frbnkslady 48F
6183 posts
3/21/2006 10:55 pm

LMAOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO 20.. cabin fever chit chucking....Only you....
But now that I have visited YOUR chat room.. I no longer wonder why you spend so much time in ours... even as bad as it has gotten...
I just wish they would grow up and enjoy it as it should be...
Thank you for stopping.. and I just have to stay here now and droolllllllllll .. I love the pic..happyf;happyfhappyf;;


20fun4ever 42M

3/21/2006 10:09 pm

Sorry I missed the post ...but...i do beleive that safety is #1 for meetin people from anywhere...even someone you me...been on enough blind dates..still lol...i am outta the loop on this issue...however i stand fast that no is NO...and is ...if ya cant get it...use your freakin hand...i really really hope that the person involved in this matter is prosecuted to the fullest extent and the other party involved heals both mentally and pyhsically. Also in regards to the chat room antics...i think and this is just my opinion....that Ak suffers from cabin fever come this time of year...after 6months it was super ok...there's some shit chucking to OMG what the hell am I doin in here....damn..prolly should get my own blog...enough ranting

polarcpl2share 48M/44F

3/21/2006 10:23 am

I agree, I don't like being put in the middle either.It's not fair to us.It was something that maybe should have been reported to the site along with the authorities but not brought into the chat room. Unfortunately, we not always told all the facts. If they want everyone to know and be warned..they should create a blog of their own as we all know...our blogs are posted for the world to see if they are a member of this site.
If not all states...most states do have a sexual offender registry.

If you don't feel comfortable in a situation or do not recognize a person from a pic go with your gut's always right ...leave them standing and get the hell out of there.

frbnkslady replies on 3/21/2006 1:49 pm:
F, I know.. it really sucks rotten ass that a few can ruin a fun room, but that is exactly what has happened....I am taking a break form the room.. and most of you know how to get a hold of me otherwise... when someone calls me and tells me that most have graduated.. I might think about comeing back... T

100prcntnocnt 49F

3/20/2006 11:46 pm

Hey T...I posted this to my blog and wanted to post it to yours as well. Safety is of the utmost importance when it comes to this stuff. I'm not sure about ALL states, but I know the State of Alaska maintains a website called the sexual offender registry. USE IT! You can search by photos, names, areas, etc. If a person won't send a photo or give you their name--don't bother with them. If they won't meet you where YOU feel comfortable, forget them. Getting laid or the possibility of it is NOT worth paying the price of going through or assault of any kind whatsoever.

frbnkslady replies on 3/21/2006 1:45 pm:
100, thank you , and I hope they read and take to heart... You cannot be too careful meeting peeps these days.... Please be safe.. take care... T

frbnkslady 48F
6183 posts
3/20/2006 9:34 pm

Yes, it was a good one.. But alot was not told to me when I posted it, which is why I took it down. They can post a blog of their own with what ever they want to write in it. I don't get along well with slander. T


rm_titsandtires 51M/41F
3656 posts
3/20/2006 5:29 pm

I remember the post, T. I think you did the right thing to post it in the first place. And I think your advice here is good advice as well.


frbnkslady 48F
6183 posts
3/20/2006 11:08 am

Yea, safety net... you need it and should take it to heart. T


frbnkslady 48F
6183 posts
3/20/2006 9:04 am

Thank you Mz Hunyz... T


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