Exs...  

frbnkslady 48F
3442 posts
3/12/2006 10:22 pm

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3/21/2006 11:52 pm

Exs...


Many of you know me.. know I am a single mom... My son is 20, and I think I have done a wonderful job with him. I am very proud of MOST of his choices, and he has made a few wrong decisions in his young life, but is working on correcting them now... I think I raised a nice young man...
I have also found I am a jealous mom... You see, my son has a half-sister and a a half brother. THAT I have no problem with. MY issue is the fact that up until 1 yr ago, the acted like he never existed. My son is the oldest.
Now his sister lives up here with her Aunt, a few hrs away. They call and talk on the phone all the time.. he get terribly pissed when she is upset about anything. He is like me emotionally.. gets attached .
Anyways, he called me the other night.. crying and screaming... seems that their 'wonderful' father is starting his normal psych shit with her... calling her all sorts of names you should NEVER call your child...and telling her she is going to be flying her butt back down home and when she gets there he is placing her in a foster home...as a runaway.. Which he cannot do.. he SENT her up here. My son calls him to defend her and to find out what his problem was.. (besides still breathing) he started in on MY son... telling him that she isn't his sister and it was none of his business what he called her and such dribble... Which did NOT go over well with my son...More so when we found out he uses her as his punching bag, man I remember how that feels...
As it so happened, I was on chat with my best friend of 25 yrs. A man we both went to HS with, and a man who has been begging to kick his ass for past 25 yrs..LMAOOO (some of you have met James in the chat room with me..)
Well, I told James what had happened and give him the hotel number where the jerk was staying...(his father kicked him out of his mothers house for stealing guns and such). James tries talking to him and he hangs up on him, takes phone off the hook.. James goes over there the next day, and it took him 10 minutes to waddle out the door.. then tells James that MY son called and threatened him over the phone...lol,,, which he did... James told him to grow up, act like a man and to start treating his kids correctly...and left.
Asshole went and told family that I sent someone to kick his ass...ROLFMFAOOOOO My God... If I were going to do that, I would have down it 20 yrs ago... I had enough reason to... I still carry a scar on my neck from him and I am still getting my jaws fixed.
My son has gone down with his Uncle to spend the weekend with his sister... I do hope she gets better... as I do realize they need each other... My son has always protected me, know he also protects her.
I am slowly getting over the jealous part, more so now that we have more in common... So hard to give up a part of him. He has always been just 'mine'...

T





frbnkslady 48F
6183 posts
3/21/2006 11:52 pm

I know.. I know... just hard to have to share him now.. I don't want to feel this way. and I try hard not too... but its still there.. I am glad you found your brother and hope you stay close.
Its just going to be hard to let him 'go'.... T

T




20fun4ever 42M

3/21/2006 10:01 pm

T i hear ya...peices of shit that beat thier wives, children should be shot and pissed on...wait..that would be a waste of bullets ....and piss for that matter... He is your son...but remember he is his own person as well... i met my brother after 29 years...and i am hugely defensive about him...its normal to feel that way when it comes to family
R


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