older women  

frankievalentine 30M
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8/31/2006 10:35 am

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8/31/2006 1:40 pm

older women

so im 20 but lately i find myself ridiculously attracted to older women. problem is i have no idea how to get these older women. i mean what does a young buck like me say to one? i figure "girl, i will fuck your brains out" wouldnt work or would it?

sxnwy 48F

8/31/2006 10:51 am

lol you're right..that will never work...try being honest...say what you mean, and mean what you say...if you are attracted to someone..tell them..what do you have to lose? if you don't ask you'll never know...

silverhawk762 51M/47F

8/31/2006 11:00 am

No, that wouldn't work!!! An older woman is looking for style and class in the gentleman that she's considering. And this attraction to older women is not ridiculous!!! Approach her with subtlety and let her know that you're interested without reaching out to grab her either verbally or physically.

Start with a little bit of research - find out what interests women of whatever age group it is that you want to approach, and be able to actually hold a conversation. An older woman is looking for a friend, a confidant, and a lover. She's not looking for a child to raise!

Be willing to admit that you don't know everything about everything - she will have more experience (most of the time, not always!) with with world in general, and in sex. She is willing to share that experience if you're willing to learn!

Be considerate, most of all. Manners are not something out of the stone age, and you need to use them at all times. If you tell her you're going to do something or be somewhere, you'd better be able to follow through, 'cause you'll be dropped like a hot rock the first time you lie to her!

Hope this helps! {=}

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