Don't understand!  

fourbyluv 51
15 posts
10/31/2005 3:59 pm

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9/3/2006 3:53 pm

Don't understand!

We thought people on this website wanted to meet other people! Well, at least, that's what everyones bio says.

Everyone wants to be a part of your network but doesn't post anything about friends in their network!

We have posted comments to the people we have invited to our network because we would really like to meet them. But nothing in return.

We have even posted bulletins on our bio for our friends in our network and have only received one reply. We thought if you wanted someone in your network it meant that you were interested in them. We must be the only ones so far that think that. We have offered opportunities for friends in our network to get together on two different occasion and only one person replied (and for that, thanks). We're thinking that most people joined this website to get free pics and videos. But we didn't. We actually joined to meet other people with the same interests. Can anyone tell us what it takes to have someone actually follow through with what their bio says? Really interested in knowing that answer. Does anyone else feel the same way we do? Pretty frustrated!!

Mmphmm 45M
592 posts
10/31/2005 6:53 pm

Really I just wanted to respond to "Don't understand" by saying.. Understanding this site can be tricky.. I wrote an e-mail to a compatible and a reply was indicated, but my inbox was empty? It was my only reply (Lo.

I joined up because I wanted to communicate with women for a connection, whatever the conclusion, thinking thing's would take their natural course with who'ever felt the urge to respond... I haven't had any (Lo. That may well be down to the fact they don't like my profile/picture or reasons I'll probably never know.

Keep heart.

happygilmore618 44M

11/1/2005 4:06 am

Trust me I understand your frustration -- I have been a member on this site for the longest of time. Have over 500 people in my network and I can't get any of them to send a reply. Whatever... Think that I will be dropping this site after this 3 month period is up. Best of luck to you though.

rm_unlistedone 65M
2718 posts
11/17/2005 6:13 am

fourbyluv... welcome to the blogs.

As for networks, some folks put forth some interests in them; while a good many really don't. It's a way of viewing pics, and that's about all.

Also, groups are nice, and if it's a fairly active group, they can be fun. Unfortunately, the posting there can be very slow. (They can be slow here also, but not as bad as in groups.)

The blogs are different.
Here you can make a post and usually you have answers back pretty quickly. You can concentrate on folks in and around your area... like fayetteville, or eastern NC.

Answering, or replying here in the blogs, is really considered "good manners" to do. It shows that there is a person there that is writing a blog that is interested in what others think about something they wrote. It doesn't have to be a large reply, like this one is getting to be. LOL!

And blogging is easy. Got a thought... or an idea, or question. Post it! Surf the other bloggers here in "blogland." There are some really nice folks here. Others, well, it's like it is in real life.

Good luck with finding what you want. I have a feeling that you will. There are many couples and others in the area... and at a similar age to yourselves.

If I can help you, don't hestitate to ask. Have a great week. Unlisted One

hopperlady69 47M/45F

11/19/2005 5:47 am

Would like to let you know that we had much the same problems when we joined. All we got were men contacting us. We didn't renew. Then a few months later we tried again and we used another name for our profile and it seemed we got alot more couples, also more were in our area. We really do know the frustration of not having anyone actually want to meet. Now we have met and been with 2 great couples and have 3 couples and a couple of single guys we have been chatting with. It will get better eventually.

fourbyluv 51

11/19/2005 8:41 pm

hopperlady69, I really appreciate you posting to our blog. It's pretty neat that we are now network buds and have the same interests. I hope this means that you really want to meet. Even if we didn't click it would still be great to finally meet someone from our network. We should really set something up.

Thanks to all who have responded to my blog and offered moral support. We don't know if we will continue our membership. I guess that will depend on how things go from here. I wish you all success.


rm_unlistedone 65M
2718 posts
11/20/2005 12:59 am

And I hope you have much success, also.
Have a great week, unlisted one

fourbyluv 51

8/2/2006 3:52 pm


Was just checkin out your pics in the albums and I'm sure you've seen ours by now. We hope that we could possible meet some time if we can all find the time to make that happen. That always seems to be the issue. TIME! But we'd like to give it a shot if you are interseted.

Talk to ya later

louandal2 65M/61F

9/2/2006 5:18 pm

We move our profile location all over the country (and other countries too) depending on where we are travelling to - and it's clear that each area has it's own set of rules and likes and dislikes. I'm convinced that this explains the very different opinions that people post about AdultFriendFinder - and I have to say that AdultFriendFinder has been very good to us - we've met (and fucked) some really nice people in most of the places that we've visited.

Unfortunately, I don't think that we'll be in your area any time soon.

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