Why do women appear to have double standards regarding promiscuity  

forlornedlust 53M
18 posts
2/22/2006 11:56 am

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Why do women appear to have double standards regarding promiscuity

Over and over I see how married women will not interact with married men. Talk about the pot calling the kettle black!

I simply wrote "kudos....for being so liberated" to another woman on this site who was looking to find a girl toy for her and her hubby to share. After sending me great pics and trying to solicit my better half, (to which I said "I wish") she then bitched me out for being a cheating dishonest pice of cr*@!

Another woman whom wanted yet "another FWB's" to satisfy her when her hubby couldn't, turned me down cold after weeks of foreplay. Her reason....
"i dont want to get involved with another married man....it is too complicated w/ two marrieds...i dont want overly complicated.....
with two marrieds...it is more difficult logistically. Also, you have never cheated on your wife before? Right? That is another complication."

I am being totally up front about just needing a little spontaneity, lust and variety after a few decades of gathering dust and cheating women will not reply or do with discust. How did prostitution get to be the oldest and most predominant female occupation is beyond me!

The fact that I have never forsaken vows that really mean very little to me should have no bearing on the matter or, I guess, anti-matter whatsoever! I believe that in today's age, monogamy is needed to sustain the undue pressures rought by a hectic world with few morals and values remaining.

I truly grow tired and lose faith in the human species daily. The lack of loyalty, honor and sincerity that pervades human interactions and relations today will be our downfall coupled with greed and self-importance. And double standards.....

Before I sink back into my "lost in Translation" existence.....I recently responded to a poor "married" sap that can't seem to get any women whatsoever to reply to his unblissful, under-sexed relationship ruins.

This is what I had to say to him:
"Dude, women will not respond to married men, only those men that egotistically and blatantly lie, cheat and treat woman way less than the homage and reverence deserve.

Why would any status women want the hassle of an already taken married man that they could not dominate or hypnotize erotically if they could get a million other suckers for the asking. Why anything less than a single man that could devote all his time and energy to spoiling her and her alone. And also act out all her random man-servant whims and fantasies.

I told the guy to change his status to separated since....when you are flinging you really are separated! Then, say wife couldn't satisfy your wanton desires and......then you're a hero!

Wish I had the balls to go that far since I feel his pain!


2/22/2006 12:09 pm

I don't give a rats ass to what a mans status is, thats not what I look at. I feel we are all adults, so go for it. And alot of the reason I think women do not want married men, is because with a married man she has to share! Women are spoiled greedy bitches!

LilSquirt_4mfm 67M/67F
3394 posts
2/24/2006 9:03 pm

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LilSquirt_4mfm 67M/67F
3394 posts
2/24/2006 9:05 pm

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2/24/2006 11:46 pm

I am sorry you are having such a frustrating time. You are much more patient than me. I may have never cheated on my husband(s) but that is the point. I just left fot the next one over and over again. So I don't judge you or think you are a piece of nothing and I do admire you have stuck it through. I also admire and appreciate the fact that you are honest with others and are not a greedy bitch as alot of men and women both are. Smoohes mo

just a squirrel trying to get a nut

MyDreamTheater 49M/44F
4 posts
2/25/2006 2:39 am

You tell it like it is, my man! The dumba$$ (unt$ judging you are by far, in my opinion, the biggest losers. I can respect any person for what they claim they are and what they truly want out of life. Why complicate things with white lies and fear of judgement. So what if you ladies out there, are only in it for the greed, the sex or reigning over your twisted social circle. For the love of whoever it is who deem your spiritual salvation, JUST BE, honest and up front about it. I don't get the whole sadistic thing, a lot of these freaks get off on, by stringing a person along and then judging that person when you knew what they were about to begin with. Very f'n weird.

forlornedlust 53M
33 posts
2/25/2006 3:17 am

Wow DT, thanks for the defense. I just had a long, eloquent (Ok, probably not eloquent) reply that got lost. Love your pic and new tasty descrip to go with!

LilSquirt_4mfm 67M/67F
3394 posts
2/25/2006 11:41 am

hiya guy .. thank you soooo much for your superb posts on our site

got ya lost in it did i ?? .. ok, best is to just scroll down main blog ... the WET spot

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posted here so you and even your friends can see your great posts to us!!!

keep up good work .. will visit you again .. n again

forlornedlust 53M
33 posts
2/27/2006 2:16 pm

Just plagerized this from another post but it sums up the benefits of "previously engaged" saps like myself, very well!!

Those who don't know are always condemning marrieds looking for love on AdultFriendFinder. Surveys show 80% of men and 60% of women admit to infidelity, so the true numbers are higher. Why condemn the norm?

Biologically no mammals studied are monogamous, and as scientists study human DNA they find people have never been either.

Enough justification, lets consider the facts:

Married people appreciate hot new sex as they obviously are not getting what they want and need! Appreciative lovers will not take you for granted and try harder!

Married people are careful and more considerate in general. They have learned the hard way how lack of respect and consideration harms good feeling!

Married people will not try to force you to marry them or demand more commitment!

Married people are not as jealous or possessive!

Married people are less likely to be sleeping around all over as they are trying to be careful!

Married people really like sex, as they once enjoyed it enough to get married, and they are breaking the rules to seek out sex. Motivated lovers are more energetic and fun!

Married people have practiced sex and gotten better at it over the years.

Married people try harder as they have something to prove to you and themselves!

Try them and see...

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