Lets kill all the cheating bastards.  

foghorn49 59M
25 posts
8/11/2006 7:37 am

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8/24/2006 10:22 am

Lets kill all the cheating bastards.

I have constantly read women's post here that bashed cheaters. Which totally shocks me. This is a site where open-minded people come together to talk of sex and we still are condemning each other. If a lonely housewife wants a fuck buddy she is accepted and understood. She is also felt sorry for because her husband is obviously an asshole not taking care of her needs.
If a guys not getting any at home because his wife is fidget or menopausal then he is a fricking cheater not to be trusted.

I love double standards.

I am not here to defend the bastards that will screw anything on 2 legs with a pussy. They need all the help they can get. I am also not here to defend myself. I am here for the blogs only. I have not solicited any women here and never will.

I will be the first to admit that most men are assholes. Heck I have even been called one from time to time (and probably deserved it). I am sorry, women can be bitches and be as bad as the guys.
Ladies if you don't want to have married men writing you then you can state that. I am sure they will understand (some will). We all have are preferences here and its good to state it. But to just put a blanket statement out that, "if you are married and you're here without your wife's permission then you are a cheating bastard that could never be trusted by anyone", is just bullshit. There are some here that fit that category. But for every sad poor housewife story about her husband not touching her I can give you 5 stories about the poor husband that is married to the frigate bitch.
Bottom line is don't judge others, unless you have been in their shoes. There is a wide range of people here. With lots of different attitudes to sex and relationships. We basically are a puritan society that looks at sex as a dirty thing. Not the people here but our society overall. That overflows in here.

I have been married for over 25 years. I have had affairs and so has my wife. We have talked about it and accepted that it has nothing to do with how we feel about each other. It's just that sometimes you get a wild hair and shit happens. We don't promote it. That makes us human. As humans we forgive each other and accept things. Neither of us would accept it if the other did it on a regular bases. This does not mean that I am a bad person or that I can't be trusted.

My wife is my life, the reason that I live. I have always been there for her and always will. I would die for her in a heartbeat. She is my friend. Sexually, I still desire her. After over 25 years of marriage I can walk into the bedroom and see her standing there in underwear and still get and erection just looking at her. Every day I come home from work and kiss her and my paints tighten with desire for her. This is love! (And lust). I do not believe in the whole soul mate thing, but if I did she would be it. Most women do not understand how I can profess my love for her and also talk of affairs. I am human and as a human my desires vary with time and age. One person cannot always fill the desires of a lifetime. Yet marriage is a lifetime commitment. Maybe that is why most marriages fail. Understanding is the key to marriage. I have a great respect for those that embrace the swinging life style. Only couples with true love and commitment to each other can live that life and hold on to each other. For the rest of the world there is CHEATING. (Such a dirty word). Men and women both cheat. The reasons vary. But in most cases it has nothing to do with love or lack of love. Maybe it is a weakness! Giving into desires and filling needs that we only dream of. Life is not always black and white. Most of us live in the gray area of life. But when the going get rough, its nice that we have someone to count on no mater what. Even if they are a CHEATER. .


JuicyBBW1001 54F

8/11/2006 8:34 am

Hmm I have never condemned cheaters although I just don't understand it.

Juicy


rm_annalee79 34M/38F
34 posts
8/11/2006 8:44 am

ok, the cheater label on this site is not just reserved for men, trust me i know... when i first joined this site i somehow was posted in my profile as being a married woman looking for fun instead of a couple, then i posted a blog asking why i wasn't having any luck on this site and yoou should have read some of the responses i got.... i was called a cheater a whiny crybaby for not being satisfied with what i have....etc.... i feel for you... i was very shocked as this is a swap/swingers site to have had so many people jugde me so harshly without knowing me, but they did.. i almost cancelled my membership, but i didn't because for the most part the people on this site are good people who understand, you just have to find them... good luck to you and i hope you find what you need.


rm_shannee2006 52F
3355 posts
8/23/2006 7:37 am

I am quite clear that I don't want to spend time with men in monogamous relationships. I have great sympathy for men who are going for years without their emotional and physical needs met by their wives. Deep sympathy. I don't feel comfortable with the issue of health risk when it comes to men finding another partner and then going back into the bedroom with thier partner....but I don't have any deep judgement about it...just concern and a resistance to being a party to it.

I have dated married or involved men. In fact I've fallen in love with some. However, the fact is that I'm a secret. I'm not allowed to be their friend openly. I'm not allowed to be a part of their life in terms of calling for a hike or to chat when I feel lonely for them. I wouldn't be informed if something happened to him and I wouldn't have sex with anyone that I wouldn't feel deep concern for if something happened to him. I just don't feel comfortable with that. I want relationships that aren't secretive because I want more than just a fuck from someone occasionally. I want a friendship with love making...

So I am now seeking to date men who are single, separated or who have an open marriage. It is not as easy to find such a relationship, but I'd rather not sneak around. It feels better to me.

Yup...this juiciness is from me....

S


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