So Horny with No One To Do...  

fluffychic78 38M/37F
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4/25/2006 6:33 pm

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5/1/2006 6:53 pm

So Horny with No One To Do...


So we found out today that the people we want to swing with had not been entirely honest. But it just makes me sad...I was revving myself up to pop my swinging cherry...LOL. But I guess it is all for the best. I may have been taking it too fast anyway. I really liked them too...they were real people, just not entirely honest and that is something we unfortunately will not bend our convictions on. I mean, if we were to be with people who were cheating on their s/o, then we are no better. And how would I feel if I found out my husband was cheating on me? I might just kill myself since I have serious issues with self-worth.

But on the plus side, they were very up front and honest about what was going on. Which honestly makes me feel even worse. I know I am doing the right thing, but to be truthful my swinging horny side was going a hundred miles an hour and part of me still wants to go on that ride...LOL.

KC_JJ 53M

4/29/2006 12:53 pm

It pays off to be on the cautious side until you really get a feeling for how internet based meetings and such can evolve. Or devolve as the case may be.

There is always the danger of getting too carried away with the fantsy aspects of it as well. The fact that there are so many unknowns about who you might meet both makes that fantasy aspect greater than it might be if you'd first met them in real life but this "mystery factor" also makes encounters more potentialy dangerous. But with the proper precautions taken most of that potential danger can be easily sidestepped.

Personally I've stuck with the blogging community as the group within which I look for potential partners as it offers a way to really get to know people over a longer period of time before you first meet them. A blog can tell you so much more than a profile. Plus the other bloggers sort of serve to vouch for each other if they too have been around awhile. We tend to watch out for each other in that way.

The only problem with limiting yourself to the blogging community is if there are not many bloggers in your area in which you have a real interest. Which is definitely the case for me. But this is always becoming less and less of a big deal as time goes on.

Good luck and never do anything concerning meeting someone unless you are completely comfortable with it. If you ever feel something is not quite right but you can't explain what it is just know that something isn't right.

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